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  1. lunatic
    Hey LaFlyGirl, Just leave and don't look back. There is not need to send a letter because it tells him that you are still hurting and it will feed his ego. Trust me and make a clean break from him. If he calls you or tries to contact you be nice about it and tell him you have something to do. Eventually he will get the hint and leave you alone. You give him any reason to think that you are hurting still and he will continue to try to keep you down. Take it from a man it is not worth your time or effort to make him feel good about himself. LOSE THIS JERK RIGHT AWAY!!!! Hubman
  2. lunatic
    Jaded, Your poem brought a tear to my eyes. I loved it. I wish I could express myself in writing like you. Remember, being in love only sucks when the relationship ends. Hubman
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    What an beatiful poem I loved it. Hubman
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    Dude this reeks of the old saying "You don't know what you have till it is gone". Sorry but I have to agree with Dragon on this one. You have to leave this woman alone because everytime you contact her in any way you push her further away. STOP CALLING, EMAILING, TXTING, AND ANYTHING ELSE YOU ARE DOING. Give her time to see what life is like with out you, if it was meant to be she will be back. Just stop what you are doing and start doing things for yourself. I am in the same boat with the ex and living together for 2 years and her getting into another relationship the day after I left. I can totally understand how it is bothering you but, you have to let go. Move on and get back to what is important in life YOU! If she was so great for you then why are you the one crying over her? She is over you and don't forget that one. She left and probally will not come back. SORRY! Remember that there are a lot of females in the world that will love to be with you but, you have to take sometime for you. Learn what you want in life and what dreams you have/want(besides your ex). Once you figure you out that again then you are ready for your next relationship. I would say when you least expect it you will find the love of your life. Till then take some time for you and hang with friends, workout, do things you like to do. Have fun because you have the rest of you life to be in a relationship/marriage. Take your time and enjoy yourself. That is my two cents. I am sorry about being so upfront and honest. I think it is what you need right now. remember I am in the same boat as you and I feel your pain but, I was able to separate myself from her and I don't want to see her ever again. PM if you need advise I would love to help out someone who got screwed over by their ex like I did. Hope this helps and sorry about the lenght of this post. Hubman
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    Hi Des, Welcome to Enotalone.com and I am sorry to hear about your last relationship failing. Being in a place all alone and having to see your ex on a regular basis is hard on a persons ability to heal. You are living in the greatest city in the world and I am sure you will be able to find things YOU like to do. Go around with your friends if you have any that are your friends. If not talk to someone in your classes that you can hang with. I would think being in a place like NY city and with all the diversity there. You would not have any problems making friends. What I am trying to say is that you are not alone in a city that large. I feel for you with the pain of seeing an ex all the time around. I too am dealing with that but it is not at a university but at my job. I got my ex a job here because she was out of work and a mother of two little girls. She needed a job and I took care of her. I see her all the time and it hurts. I feel your pain believe me on this one. All I can tell you is to stand strong and be proud of yourself because you are very far from home and you are sticking it out here in NY. Hey every once in a while we need someone to talk to. If you want to talk or need some advice feel free to PM or email me. Hope this helps a little because you are never alone!!!! 8) Hubman
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    I can only say that it takes time so relax it will get better day by day. Eventually you will not think about her/him that much at all. You will know someday that you feel better because you haven't thought about her/him for a long while.
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    What you did was wrong and I wont beat you up over it. I think that Chris will never trust you again and I also don't blame him. You should have thought about that before you slept with your mutual friend. I can only say that you did screw up and it probally will not be the same if you two get back together (trust me on this one been there done that). I can only say that nothing happens by accident and you should learn from this one. I would leave you ex alone and let him contact you. I would not hold my breath on this one. I would do some deep reflecting on what happened to end your last relationship. I would think about how you got to this point by your actions. A relationship is a two way street and it sounds like there was no talking going on before the act happened. I am sorry that you are hurting but, I can't say I blame Chris for never wanting to see you again. Hubman
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    LOL!!!! Any interest that a woman shows me turns me on. The little things like grabbing the person and giving them a passionate kiss drives me wild. Once in a while dress up for your man in a skirt or some lingere helps also. We are visual creatures and it does not take much to get a rise out of us (if you know what I mean). I agree with Donny JeffcoaT and Hero_99 about the BJ thing. remember it is not what you do but how you do it. Only do what you are comfortable with and don't rush into anything too fast. Hope this helps, Hubman
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    It is sometimes better to move on without finding out why the other person ended it. I think this one you already know the answers to your questions, but there might be somethings best left undiscovered. I think it is a great idea to wish her well and all. Thats it! Knctrnl22 is right you have to get up and move on. Sometimes we don't get the closure that we would like and it is part of the whole life experience. Sorry to hear about the breakup. Hubman
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    Hurt

    lunatic replied to Gilgamesh's topic in Dating Advice

    Gilgamesh, At least you didn't waste anymore time on this one. You got one thing out of the whole deal besides the experience. Never fault yourself for trusting someone because this one is not your fault. At least you got to see this one and you learned from it. I would say that the whole experience was not a total waste of time. I know exactly how you feel being used and I can sympathize for the feelings you are going through. I am sure that next time you will be on guard about your feelings. Better luck next time. Hubman
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    I would talk to this guy about his constant plan breaking and let him know that it really bothers you. Be up front about it and let him know where you stand with it. I mean if this guys job involves entertaining clients and such then you have to make the decision yourself about him. I am a guy and I can tell you that if he is trying to make plans with you then he is interested in you. I know that if I am interested in someone then I will make it a point to call her and make plans for a free night. Give him one more chance and let him know that it is bothering you that he cancels plans all the time. I hope this helps you out, Hubman PM me if you want a mans advice on this matter.
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    I totally agree with bdub. I think you should tell her that you need sometime to figure out what your next step is. I would also make sure that she knows that you are not waiting around till she comes back. I can't knock her for wanting someone else because we all need some variety in our lives and you don't want to sit there thinking what else could have been. I think you have to take some time for you and get reaquainted with yourself. Let her go but, let her know that you will contact her again when YOU are ready for contact. Stress that you may never be ready but, if you ever feel there you will call. Remember that you have to do what makes YOU happy!!!! I know that everything will work out in the end for you. If it is meant to be then it will work out. Hubman
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    Yeah you are over reacting about the muscle turning to fat in a moment. It will take a few weeks before the muscle starts to break down and turn into fat. I think you might be building muscle because you are doing alot of exercises. I would not worry about it too much unless you are having problems fitting into your clothes. Hubman
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    What type of workout routine are you doing? Are you training with weights or just doing cardio? It could be that you are building muscle. I have the same type of thing happening to me. I was losing weight like crazy and now I have hit a platue, but I bought jeans two weeks ago and they are getting loose on my and I have not dropped a pound. So you might be building muscle because you said that you are exercising more. I hope this helps. Hubman
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    Dude, Sorry to hear that things didn't work out for you. The only thing that is true in life is that you have to take risks. This time it didn't work out but who knows what will happen next time. Better luck next time. Hubman
  16. lunatic
    A touching poem that warms my cold heart. Thanks for sharing it. Hubman
  17. lunatic
    I smoked weed years ago for a long time. All I can say that it is not the weed that is the problem. It does sound like your dad is busy with his new gf and he doesn't want any distractions in his life. I would go and talk to your dad about why he does not want you with him anymore. I really don't think that the pot is the problem it sounds like the new gf in his life. I hope this helps. Hubman
  18. lunatic
    Sickining, because there is someone else feeling like I do out there. Awesome poem!
  19. lunatic
    Don't rush into anything. In time you will go out on plenty of dates. Just enjoy being a teenager and have fun. Hubman
  20. lunatic
    Sounds like tips on getting over your ex more to than getting them back. Just an observation. Hubman
  21. lunatic
    I think that he is playing you. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. I think he cares about you but, he is not sure if he wants to be with you. I think he has some growing up to do. I would say that you can do better for yourself and give up on this guy. I can tell you that guys like when women play hard to get. For most men it piques their interest. Why would you want to keep pursuing this guy when he is not showing any interest in you? I don't know but, that is what I picked up from the original post. Hope this helps. Hubman
  22. lunatic
    Sometimes you have to say Fu*k it and just do it. I can only tell you that you have only yourself holding you back. I would just go up to her and get it off my chest. If you don't then you will never know what could of happened. Just go for it man you have nothing to lose at all. You can't cry over something that never was ment to be and you will never know unless you try. I have to say "GO FOR IT!!!!" Hubman
  23. lunatic

    Unsure

    lunatic replied to Caldus's topic in Dating Advice

    Goofy stole my exact thought on this one... That is way too funny dude. Relax sounds like she was checking out how fast your heart was going. So what if she is older than you every guy should have an older more experienced woman around to teach us a thing or two in the sack at least once in our lives.
  24. lunatic
    Thatboy_e, If you have to convince her to come back and she is not doing it willingly then it will not work for long. I hope I am wrong about that. You have to move on and be strong about it. If she doesn't want you in her life as bf then you have to learn to let go. It is going to be painful as all hell but, you have to give up and move on to bigger and better things. I know this is not the answer you wanted but it is the truth. Hubman
  25. lunatic
    There is nothing that you can do that I am aware of. All these pills and stuff they are selling are a waste of money. -Hubman
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