john22

I have the same problem, except i'm not really satisfied with how i look. I just feel like i'm so different than other people. There's this girl who is really kind to me, but i just can't say anything...I get so shy. If she asks me a question, i can answer back fine. It's actually starting a conversation and saying more than just 'yes' or 'no' that i find trouble with. I keep thinking she's different, when i've overheard her talking about things to her friend which are just like me. I really need to get over this! Any tips?

Hey, i have an update. I haven't said bye sadly, but some strange things are happening. Thursday, her friend grins at me on the way out. Friday, the girl i'm trying to say bye too wasn't in. Her friend tried to look at me without me looking...Then, strangely, she said bye and grinned AGAIN. I don't like how it's behind her back... Some people i have talked to online think she just likes me, and some thing the two have had a 'chat' which ended up with the girl i'm trying to say bye to admitting she likes me, and her friend is trying to come after me before she gets me...I'm not getting my hopes up though

Hi, thanks for your replies. Well i continue to reply to her and things, i get shy though...If someone jokes around insulting me in class, she tells them to stop it...Which makes me feel VERY embarrased. But i accidentally said bye first today... I thought SHE said bye, but i misheard her talking to someone. So i said bye...And she replied with bye. Hopefully when the weekend is over i can do it without it being on accident...If anyone can give me tips on how to make myself say bye, and if you think it'll be easier now i 'said' it., please reply

Hi, in my school there's this one girl who i like a lot...I would never want a proper relationship though. The problem is, i'm to shy. Sometimes in class she asks me where a certain folder is on the Computer, and i show her. I get a little nervous there, but i do it. The real problem is starting a conversation. She knows i'm shy, because she said she'd help me 'break out'...Not directly to me of course. She says bye, and i reply with bye...I keep trying to be the first one to say bye, but i just freeze...Any advice? I've been told by a lot of people i have very low confidence...Also, i can't even say her name...Even though it's common. I only have 6 months left however, she leaves then. I really need to tell her thank you, somehow...Thanks