LaFlygurl03

ok....is there anyway that a home pregnancy test could come up negative even if you are pregnant....once the doctor had asked me if it had ran in my family if the test came up negative but it was supposed to be positive...could that happen...i know that the really only 100% test is by blood, so could home pregnancy test not work on some people....

Just a topic to try to get some interesting feedback from different people. I was just looking a the topic of best songs after a breakup. But now i want to see what kind of songs people use in the relationship as "their song" or what song reminds you or makes u think about your "significant other". I'll start Martina mcbride and jim brickman-my valentine Bryan Adams-everything i do (i do it for you) Jojo and lil bow wow- babys its you nsync-god must have spent (a little more time on you) tracy byrd-the keeper of the stars kci and jojo-all my life celine dion-bc you loved me savage garden-i knew i loved you before i met you ....now just waiting to see what others say

Ok...this is weird...me and my boyfriend have been having unprotected sex and i am not on birth control. we havent had protected sex in like 3 months. ok, now i have taken like 3 at home pregnancy test and they say negative, and he had taken me to the health department and they gave me one and it said negative. now i know thats weird, u would think i wouldve been pregnant along time ago, but it says negative, could there be something wrong with me, or are the test just not accurate? this has been bugging me. i am about to just try the blood test and see how that works, but... what are the chances of me being pregnant under my circumstances?

Ok, I just wanted to know if anyone knows when to take a pregnancy test that will come out with correct info. I know it says you can take it within like 5 days of your missed period. but if that times already passed and...let me put it this way. if sperm has entered your body and you think you are pregnant how long do you have to wait to take the test after that happens. i took one the day after it happened, but i think that was just toooo early. dont you have to wait like 2 weeks for it to show up or for the test to be accurate???

Ok, first of all, no, im not pregnant. but i have a question, and want opinions...ok what age do you think is a ok age to have your first baby...not going into marriage, or nothing like that. but, if you were a parent and your child told you they were pregnant...at what age would you not freak out so bad? or not think is to young. Like do you think 18 or 19 is to young to have a baby????? Just wanted to hear some opinions!!!

............OH and to add, i dont let him flirt with other girls...just a little dance, which he has only done 1 time! *SHAUNA*

Hey there PURPLE: I am the same way..i dont want to seem like im overprotective or what not. we would go out to the clubs together(we dont go there much) and we would dance, then i would tell him he could go dance with someone else..he danced with someone and that was it...he came back over to me...i trust him enough. he knows the limits. i told him i dont care if he looks but he better not touch...he knows what im talking about..i try to be lenient (dont know if i spelt that right). and not to sound like his mother, i mean im only his girlfriend. but if i start to feel uncomfortable i will tell him...and he understands and stops..lol! but good luck hope it all turns out good!! and remember dont party to hard!!!! *shauna*

Hey there Bruisednotbroken, I am in a similiar case just like you, me and my ex broke up...we saw each other occasianally, he acts like he likes me and then he acts like he doesnt sometimes. I have given him a letter telling him how I feel and have received good advice on here. The only thing I can say is to walk away and have no contact. She may see what she is missing down the road. But don't give into her. Dont call her, dont email her or nothing. And then see what happens...i promise it will turn out great!!!

Please tell me what you think of this.....or what you think is going to happen.... last night i went to the latino club with my best friend alicia. my ex was there, and my friend saw him walking past me and she said dont look....him and his friends sat behind us at the bar.....i looked in the mirror and saw him looking at me. well my friend was sitting beside me and he walked up to her and asked her to dance, she said no, no, no, and he said why? she said i cant. he said why...she said bc i cant! she said ok i will dance with you one time, now or later? he said now! so they danced. well afterwards there was a girl sitting like 3 tables down...well her and her boyfriend had broken up and he was there. well my ex asked her to dance and i guess she said yes...well he kept asking her to dance and she said yes, then finally her ex came up to her and talked to her, and they got back together. well later on a friend of mine came and we danced like alllllllllll night. my ex kept walking past me looking at me. but i tried to act like i didnt care or see him....well finally towards the end of the night i was standing with my friend(guy) and i looked behind me at the top of the stairs and saw my ex sitting in a booth by himself...he looked really sad and depressed....he looked like he had been crying or was about to cry. finally he got up and walked outside and didnt come back in. his friends were still in there so my ex couldnt of left. he was probably sitting in the car. well at closing time his friends came up to me and said BYE! i said bye! and kept walking. then they left... *WHAT DO YOU THINK HE WAS THINKING ABOUT WHEN HE WAS SITTING IN THE BOOTH BY HIMSELF BEHIND ME? *WHY DO YOU THINK HE GOT UP AND LEFT AND DIDNT COME BACK IN? *DO YOU THINK HE IS GOING TO TRY TO GET BACK WITH ME? thanks everyone for you input....shauna

Hey, I wrote this to my ex-boyfriend. We have been broken up for 6 months and we still talk, and it seems as if things are still kinda "there" between us....but here lately it has been hurting me and i am tired of it. I am going to give this to him. Do you think that it is a bad letter or what? Thanks, SHAUNA ________________________ Hey, this is hard for me to do this but i have to do it because this whole thing with me and you isnt working as you probably can see. So i have to let you go and move on. it will be hard but its probably easier than you hurting me all the time. i want you to know i really love you but for some reason or another it doesnt matter to you. you may think its funny or its a game but its not. its my heart your playing with and so im thinking if i never talk to you again it will make my life and your life a little easier. and i hope you understand. i do want to thank you for all that you have put me through because it really made me see what kind of mistake i was making when i fell in love with you.

Anyone please help??? Anyone speak spanish and english. ok i have a letter in english, but my ex boyfriend is spanish and i want to give it to him, but first i need help translating it to spanish. Can anyone please change it to spanish for me....thanks a bunch! *Shauna* ------------------------------------------------------------------- hey, well i gave you another letter but you either seemed not to care what was in it, or was scared to say anything. Well, I dont know what else to do, i have tried and tried to talk to you but you just dont seem like you are listening. I have asked you in the past if you wanted to be my boyfriend again, and you said "I dont know" or "Maybe"....what are the chances of that turning into a "Yes"? I need to know. I cant wait forever, but i am going to try to wait because i think that if we were to get back together it would be great for me and you both. Before you came to my house every night, or day. But now, if we were to get back together I wouldnt want you to have to avoid your friends and spend all your time with me, I would love it if you could make it to my house 2 or 3 times a week. That would be all i was asking for. when we broke up you didnt talk to me, but now it seems as if we are getting closer! I think there could be a chance. Somtimes i cry when i am home by myself or at night because i realized i lost the best thing that had ever happened to me, you may not think that of me, but i bet that i was a good girl to you. i just wish you would let me back into your heart and give this relationship another try. i look at pictures and think, we were meant to be. if we were to get back together i wouldnt talk to any other guys, thats how much you mean to me. Well i am going to end this letter now. i hope you take this to heart! Love always, Shauna P.S. Please let me know something...i need to know how you feel!

OK about this lover thing. I dont know about all of that....depending on ethnicity. I am a white female, and all of my love life i have been with Latino men, some are ok, but theres this one, he is a great lover. Never been with a black man, so cant jump on that side of the fence. All I can say was that i had this one latino lover that was great!!!!!!

Ok PUflight!!!! I am read your post, and hun I feel like I am in the same boat as you! Well anyways, me and my ex had been broken up for about 5 months. We never really hung out or nothing, except for when we went dancing and he was there...well he danced with me. I have tried to move on with other guys, but it never cliques!!!! Anyways...(he broke up with me). well he came to my house one night.....kinda surprised me, and we started talking...he kissed me, and blah blah blah....when he was about to leave i said"are you going to be my boyfriend again one day, and he says "i dont know maybe"....just mixed messages. I am going to try to play it out and see what comes out!!! write me back with a PM if you want!!!!

I have been broken up with my ex since may...he has came to visit me and so on and so on....sometimes he acts like he likes me and there could be another chance, but i dont know..he will never give me a straight answer! He has not had a girlfriend since the breakup and when we go dancing and he sees me dancing with another guy he ask me to dance...i dont know what to think. i still care a lot about him, but i cant wait forever. I love this guy and i still have a lot of feelings for him. He was basically the best boyfriend i had ever had! I dont know what to do, i am confused!!!!

Is this what you want? Do you want to watch them, or for them to proceed further? I think it is kinda weird they continued when they got home. Maybe this isnt the first time that they did that! Just ask to see what she thinks of it, and tell her your feeling on it. What did the other girls boyfriend think? How old are all of ya'll? ( JUST WONDERING)