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    Personman, I know you are in pain...Especially if someone you really cared about is far from reach... And yes, you are RIGHT! I am going to tell you just what you said. Whether you want to hear it or not. It is the truth. You are never going to find someone like her...bc there is not doubles of people. But who says someone you'll like better will be out there? You can't assume that now bc you don't know. It might seem like the end of the world right now, but it isn't. It never is, and you will find out eventually. But just keep in mind the fact: She said she will never leave her boyfriend bc shes already 'comfortable'. If you would have slept with her or hooked up, at the end you will say: "All this beauty that I can't have, who is going back to her boyfriend tomorrow." Youll be more hurt than what you are now probably. Dont be totally discouraged though. If she is really worth it, she will come to you when she is ready. If she never does, then it was not meant to be (Now this sounds cliche', but its true). Its her loss and she will have to forever wonder "what if?" "They all think that I'm super cool, fun, good looking, and sensitive; but the very few I really fall for always go for someone else." You seem to be honest with yourself, but maybe a boost in your self confidence will do that trick.
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    I think you should go for it. Just stay confident, if you date him later on, you can even playfully joke about it.
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    Its okay to turn someone down. Just tell him that you just want to stay friends. Because he will probably keep getting the wrong idea. About the number thing, tell him its not working for now and give him an email instead. Like that he does not bug you. About the boyfriend thing, just tell him the truth. Its not a big deal that you are single. It does not mean you are going to go out with him either
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    Its not weird, dress how you feel most comfortable. But if you start to dress too much like a guy people are going to wonder. Not that it should matter, but it might matter to you and how you want people to think of you/
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    Everyone knows you have a pu***. For those that don't, now they will know. A pu*** is something that every woman has, it won't be a surprise to them. When your friends realize that its your pu*** they will probably be so grossed out that they will turn it off. I know if it was me seeing porn and suddenly realizing it was my friends, I would be like ewwww! and thats it. Then you explain to them, and then theyll laugh, feel sorry for you and move on. Hate to say it, but sometimes getting yourself into those situations (letting a guy keep a tape of porn with you in it) lead to disasters. Ive learned that no matter how much you think you know someone, they can always surprise you with their "other side"
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    This guy sounds psycho and manipulative. Tell all your friends about this email and to delete it if they get it. They will understand. As for your parents, tell them as well. The thing is, if he ever gets mad at you in the future, he will use this against you again. You should tell him, "Does it satisfy you to FORCE me to be with you? My good friend had a situation like that, but a bit different. She was married to this guy that would cheat on her left and right. She eventually left him. However, she made a mistake one night of sleeping with him again. However, he recorded the whole things without her knowing it. Of course she regreted sleeping with him and told him that she did not want to be with him anymore. He threatened her with the tape and she thought he was just bluffing so he sent it to her parents. Of course the parents were very disturbed by this, but they knew the ex did it to upset them. So the parents did not get mad at the daughter. Instead, they supported her bc they knew how hurt she was bc of it. Your parents and family will be the same with you. This guy will look bad, not you. Don't be with a guy bc he forces you into it. THis guy is pathetic, if you ask me!
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    I like it, it sounds deep.
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    If you want to make this work, you need to go to counseling. I honestly don't know what to say. I do not like people to give up the person they love and you sound like a good and honest person. But this guy treats you like the stereotypical wife from the 18th century while he has his mistresses on the side. And by the way, you have done nothing wrong but he a good wife, you deserve the same. Men all over are dying for good and faithful women like you. Don't let that ruin your self esteem. And the other things is that just bc men are good looking and have high rank in society does not mean anything. Rank and good looks should not be the reason to stay with your husband. It should be for the love you have between each other. But think of the the following...: How can this guy take a woman to your house and just tell you it was "just sex"? "Just sex" is something sacred between a husband and wife". Don't be such a weak and give in to this man. You might value this marriage, but your husband does not value it, if not he would not be sleeping around. Also, you caught him this time, how about previously? Do you honestly think he was honest? This is something very serious because your own health might be at risk if he has been sleeping around all these years. I wish I can tell you something positive, but I am disgusted by this story and if you stay in this marriage, I feel sorry for your future.
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    Thats interesting... Never heard of something like that. I personally don't agree with it, because although your aunt and her boyfriend are fine with this type of secret relationship, I am sure his wife will not be happy to hear of this. Its very wrong and dishonest on the husband's part...I think they should be ashamed of themselves for holding this "affair" (whether she likes to call it that or not) for so long, Knowing that there is a committed wife on the other end of this who does not know what is going on. The poor wife is living a lie, and I feel sorry for her. Sorry I could not shed any light on that situation, but I just had to open my mouth to that... and I apoligize if any offense was taken by my response.
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    Im happy for you. Thats awesome that you found a good guy! Just take it slowly you know. That is the best way a relationship works out good! And alot of honesty and trust. With that, you are good to go! Remember, there is always sunshine after the rain, (corny but true!)
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    I think that you should give it a try. You never know what can happen. Relationships should not only be about what friends you have in common. Why don't you try to hang out with her and her friends? If she really likes you to, then she should not mind if you hang around some time.
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    I know that things might feel like you can't but dying is not an option. If you need to talk, please PM me.
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    Hi Finchabald, I am sorry to hear about your situation. The only thing I can tell you is to step back and forget about your parents for now. Look in a mirror and think of the person staring back at you. This is who you need to make happy, not your parents, but YOURSELF. Do what you need to do despite your parents' judgement. There comes a time when no one can really help you. People can try, but only you can make the change. I know it will be very hard for you, but without help, one day you might not wake up at all after taking solvents or cutting. Your life is very precious, whether or not you may feel it is sometimes. But i know you feel it is, that is why you are asking for help here. I say, next time instead of reachign rfor the blade,m reach for the phone and dial 911. It might seem weak to your family, but it wil;l be the bravest thing you can do.
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    I am no expert in this but I dont think that a temporary job will be a problem for your future dream of being a professor. As long as you get your desired degree and your past experience is relevant. Professors will always be in demand. I say get a temp. job for now until a good opportunity comes your way. Retail is not something people usually commit themselves to, so I am sure future employers will be understanding. You can also look into a temporary job that will be in the teaching field. Maybe at a high school or middle school. So that at least you stay in the same field.
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    Thats just his many side talking.... Hyphenate your name, give it as the only option to him. If not, well then youll have to decide what is more important...your name or him. If he really loves you he should not force you into anything and respect your decision...Besides "Whats in a name? a rose called any other will still smell as sweet-Shakespeare"~
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    You said the doctor said it would be a couple years before the process of producing sperm and all that will become normal again. Lets say your man indeed got a reversal. Did you ask the dr. if there was anything your man can do to speed up the process? (take a certain medication or undergo a certain procedure?) I am sure these procedures will be quite expensive. Maybe you can get some type of loan for them. I don't know if I am being helpful but just some things that popped into my mind. Maybe you can look into them.
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    the ear is very sensitive if you kiss that area. If she lets you touch and "play" with her breasts, that is also very sensitive area. If you kiss and lick the nipples gently, that feels good for girls too.
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    That is super cruel of people doing that to you. You will not go to hell for being gay. Are you in a private school? If you are, that is probably the reason why you have not met many gay people out there. Do not feel bad about who you are. Accept yourself and let everyone deal with their insecurities. Keep in mind one thing...You are in 7th grade. Everyone that age is mean. There are probably other guys in your school who might be gay but are not ready to admit it. That makes you a strong person and I admire you for knowing yourself so well at such a young age. As you go into highschool and college, the teasing will slow down. You got to keep in mind that these kids who tell you mean things might have been taught that homosexuals are bad. Henceforth they repeat these bad habits with you. You will find love, do not worry. Love yourself for who you are. Don't let anyone get you down. I know many gay guys that are very happy and some have fallen in love and broken up with their boyfriends and had more relationships. Just like straight people. Do you think you can talk to a close friend about this? Or maybe a brother or sister that is close to you? They might help you understand this and go through this hard time. Good luck!
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    I know you don't want to contact him, but if you call him one final time and tell him that you don't want him to call you anymore, maybe he'll get the point. If he keeps on, I guess it is harmless usless he does it constantly. Just pretend that he is trying to be nice and move on with it. If it bothers your boyfriend, then maybe your boyfriend should tell him himself That should be interesting lol
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    Hey, I just read your post. I agree with you. You might need an emotional relationship instead of just a sex based relationship. You might be all sexed out by now. You might be grossed out from all the previous sex by now. I don't know your personal situation. But I know from friends of mines that have had meaningless sex in the past, they have gotten "grossed" out by sex and just lack interest in it. If you find the right person, maybe they can bring out the spark in you.
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    okay i think her post was about her sounds not her protection methods lol. Anyways, it happens all the time as you keep having sex. The first time for me was super embarrassing too! but it is mostly when you do it doddy style or spread yourself out too much. It can cause air to go in there and when he pulls out the air makes a sound with the wetness. Don't worry, as you keep having sex, you will realize when you got air in there. Sometimes you feel it uncomfortable. If you start to feel the air in there, then just ask him to pull out and then let the air out. It might make the sound, but at least he knows your not farting or something lol
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    That is good that you consider her for a long term relationship. The best thing is to tell her this. However, do not bring up the conversation so much that she thinks you are only in it for the sex. It is understandable why she is hesitant to trust a guy again after her ex. You got to help her trust you, and the way to do that is to be patient and prove you intentions to her, not just say them. She will eventually come around once she has your trust. For the mean time, just enjoy her company. Relationships are not only about sex. Sex is important but communication, connections, interests, and spending time together as more important.
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    Ask her first, eventually the truth will come out, sooner or later. Tell her what you heard from your friend so that she knows where your worry is coming from. The best thing for you to know is the truth, whether or not she cheated. If she did, you don't deserve her. There are too many fish in the sea
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    Why is adoption not an option for you? Is it because you want your own child regardless? If this is the man you love and want to have a child with, then a reversal will probably be the only chance to have a child with him. Just keep in mind that it will not be 100% certain. I wish I can tell you more, but it seems that there are not many options. What you can do is get a second opinion from another doctor and see what he has to say.
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    I know this is a tempting situation, and this girl might seem very nice and all, but she says she has not intention of leaving her boyfriend, so why are you going to get involved into their relationship. Also consider that if she is engaged, she probably feels like she might want a fling before the life long commitment, so she might just be using you for that. I would not recomment doing it at all. Do not betray your friend. YOu are also no one to judge how he treats her (even if he is a jerk), because whatever he is doing (wrong or right), is keeping her around. Take the advice they gave you previously Choose her: you loose a friend, and probably she will not stay faithfull to you either.[/i][/b] I think that is going to be the case as well. Oh and another detail you should pay close attention to is that this girl is willing to cheat on her boyfriend with you. What does that say about her morals and faithfulnes? Don't get involved, trust me. Over come the temptation. As a matter of fact, you should owe a little more respect to your friend. Cancel your meeting with her, and do not allow contact at all. This situation is wrong in many way (unfortunately bc your friend is involved). Only if she leaves her boyfriend for you and commits to being with you only, then you should consider it. Regardless, I think this is a dead end situation that you should just avoid all together bc more problems are sure to come from it.
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