Princesslala

Thanks for your kind words guys! I feel much stronger now, i am hurt and i do miss him already (sad) but there is noway in hell i'm going back to him. Maybe he is a nice guy and mayb on some levels i knew he didn't want me, but i also know i didn't deserve to be treated like that, i'm a strong sexy single woman now and no creep is gunna get me down again, i'm gunna give myself some time alone for the next few days, long hot baths and girly music...then by the weekend i'll be ready to fight the world again. My mistakes make me strong, and your words make me glow...thank you again ...you are all angels xxxx

Hey Guys, It will help if you read my previous post (only a short one...promise) Anyhu, this guy who i previously posted about we have become more and more serious, spending lots of time together and even booking a holiday abroad and him still wanting me to go to his parents house to met them. Then late last night , we were just lay cuddling in bed, i had my head on his arm and he was playing with my hair....and being the idiot that i am i said "what u thinking bout" and he said " i should really get myself a g/f" i laughed ...silly me i thought he was joking ....i said "aren't i good enough for u then" and he said "don't get me wrong your a great friend and we have fun together but we're not in love are we?" i said ..."well no, but do u expect to be in love after 6 weeks?" he said, "well yes hopefully when i meet the right person". I lay there completely in shock for a few minutes, then said "i hope you find what your looking for" and left, no tears no scene...quite proud of myself in that way. I just feel so hurt and so so stupid...i know its all my fault... i know i made it into something it wasn't and i know its just been a steep learning curve for me ...but why does it hurt so much? Lala xxxxxxxxx

Hi everyone, hope you can help me with this one, men are a mystery to me! I live in a shared house with some guys and was until November dating one of them (tim), these guys get a long but aren't really friends we live together for convience but tend to socailise separately. Anyhu.... in mid December me and another one of my house mates(John), started spending a lot of time together, most evening and really flirting...i really like him but at the time was convinced anything happening hould have been a bad idea. He drove to my folks place 200 miles, for new years eve and we got quite drunk and ended up having sex...however earlier in the evening, we had had quite a sober disscussion, where we both admitted to liking each other and even though we knew we were about to fall into bed together, we said we should just stary friends. Since we've been back in our shared house, we have spend every night together watching films and usually ending up in bed....on january 8th (8 days after we first had sex) John said he was feeling really guilty, because however much he liked me as a person and enjoyed our time together he didn't know if he wanted more....i told him honestly i wasn't looking for a big relationship and i wasn't kidding myself into thinking we were a couple and that i was having fun. Since then tho, he keeps talking about the future and me meeting his parents and different places he wants to take me...also whenever i go out he always txt's me saying he misses me and can't wait to see me..... I'm really confused to me this guy is saying one thing but acting out another....also i think i might be falling for him... Help Lala xxx

Hey Guys Okay so scrap my previous posts, theres this lad who i've been friends with for a while whom i starting to fall for, we have always flirted, we've never really been out alone but we go out in a group with mutual friends a few times a week. He always offers to drive me, pick me up n bring me home, so we probably spend an hour alone everytime we go out in the car, we txt and taslk online quite a bit as well. I can tell he likes me and i think he knows how i feel, don't get me wrong, not suggesting i'm madly in love with him...but he's soooo nice! Heres the thing, I'm quite a Large girl not like godzilla fat, but deffinately on the bigger side of plump i know i should lose weight but i'm perfectly happy in my own skin most of the time and i do go swimming regularly so even tho i'm fat i'm fit and the dctor says thats fine...Anyways this guys is very tall and very skinny...i normally go for guys more my size ...it juts happens that way...i don't think he's put off by my size but if anything was to ever happen i'd feel weird with my guy being like half my size. Am i just being silly? Lala @->--

Hi Enotaloners, really glad i've found this place, i've been reading posts for the past few hours and its so nice to have stumbled upon a comunity where every1 helps each other. My problems are not big ones in comparison and there not important really, just looking for a bit of friendly advice. I'm Currently dating a very nice man, we are not exclusive and are both still dating other ppl, we just wanted to see how things go, i like him a lot but i think we have both realised this will never be much more than friendship and companionship and thats fine. I think we shall continue to go on dates ever few weeks, hopefully for a long time, i enjoy his company very much, but there is no spark, he is aware of this also. This is the complicated bit, i like these 3 guys we'll called them C,S and B( there is a spark with all of them) problems being: C is in a happy long term relationship, so i'd never go there S is in a very unhappy short term distructive relationship and is being treated very badly (so has a lot of his own issues and hers to sort out) B is still inlove with his ex My question is, how come with these guys with all this baggage who i never have a chance of making it work with i am so head over heals for but when i find a nice guy who is very intellegent,sexy,mature and very single...i'm not interested...also i never seem to just want one guy at once...why am i so greedy? LaLa @->---