I have only done this position once and didn't really care for it. I felt like I was doing it wrong or like I should be doing something else. I was just wondering how exactly this position works? Also, what should I do with my hands - touch myself, him, or what? Also, I am scared to death that I am going to hurt him or something - is that stupid??? I guess I am just confused...I don't care for this position but I know guys love it so I want to learn to feel comfortable about doing it. Thanks in advance.