babycristy456

Look, i am a bit bias in this situation considering that i got lied to and cheated on recently. I think trust is very important when u care and love someone and are serious enough to be moving in with them...but lets face facts...people sometimes lie and people are full of surprises. You might think you know this guy very well, but he might be lying about a few things behind ur back. I'm not saying that he is indeed cheating on u or lying, but i just think u should take extra precautions. If u find strong evidence that something is going on, then stand by ur instincts. I totally trusted my ex despite all the rumors i heard about him cheating on me. I had never trusted anyone and he made me feel bad about questioning him so much. Until one day I finally told him "look, people talk rumors, but rumors don't sprout from the ground...especially if the whole world is talking about it.!" and he denied and denied until he saw no other choice but to say the truth. and even after that, i kept hearing new things everyday. and he slowly admitted to them. I decided I'm not going to live my life wondering what he really does behind my bak and interrogating him forever. i just let him go. Well, just be careful, don't interrogate too much. I think its okay to do some of ur own "research" (no spy, but just find little details out). *GOod lUcK*

Sorry, i forgot to add, (its just that im into this subject b.c it just happened to me about 2 weeks ago ) that i'm sure ur girl loved u and cared for u, and is no doubt feeling sorry for what she did. But when u give her that second chance, she will be glad, but deep inside she won't respect you and thereforeeeeee commit it again. I know b.c. i once cheated on my ex-bf and i was truly sorry and i truly loved him, i just made a mistake, but i did it again just b.c i got away with it once. I gave my another ex a chance after cheating on me and it happened again. Its just ppl lose respect when u don't stand ur grounds. I believe ppl change but not with the person they cheated on. They change when they learn and the only way to learn is the hard way. hope i helped u out. *Good Luck*

I dont understand how come ppl can say that it's better to not have loved at all b.c. u avoid the hurt. I'm sure they have been thru bad experiences to think like that but I've had my share of heart breaks too. I lost my first true love and i thought life was unbearable. the feeling really sucked big time! I didn't want anything to do with love ever again. I finally met someone new, we had awesome times, and at the end, he lied and cheated on me. How horrible, ur probably saying! yes it was. I cryed...then i got over it. I'm so glad i went thru these experiences though. I am so much stronger and better person b.c. of that. I don't even hate the guy that cheated on me. Im actually quite good firends with im still. I just realized that relationships are cases of trial and error so that u become stronger and better. I would not change one time i fell in love even though i had horrible heart breaks. And i am still willing to open myself to someone else if I find someone worth it. Why not? being in love is the best feeling any1 can ever have! it lasts so much longer than a heartbreak does. Heartbreaks can be forgotten with time, but memories of love are irreplaceable. *My ThoUgHtz oN LiFe*

Ha! take her back u say?!?!?! Doesn't matter if its the girl or guy who cheats, the cheater is the cheater and the liar and the wrong doer. No matter what you did to her. It was her choice to cheat, lie and humiliate and hurt you. Sorry, I just went through the same thing. I tried to take my boyfriend back after his drama crying scenes...but there is no trust and respect there anymore after u cross that line. Good Luck...and don't be afraid to kick that cheater to the curb. No one deserves that. *Cristy*