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    You're asking about knowing liars? Honey, I know a liar, trust me! My exboyfriend, who I thought was the perfect guy, who would never in his life lie or cheat on me, well, I found out at the end that he was just a big lie. When I found out about him cheating, he denied it so manyy times that I was like "stop making yourself look stupid and admit it already" The actual lying bothered more than the cheating! Oh and I just have to say this story... well for memorial day weekend, he went to this beach that alot of people go and he ended up kissing his exgf. Well, I never knew that. So one day, I found out his ex's screen name and was reading some shit on her profile out of curiosity. Wel she has an online journal and I read it, and it said about kissing him in this beach! I was like wut the hell. And i asked him about it over and over again. To see if he would admit it. Well he never did. So I just sent him an email with the link to her journal where it said it. He was like "shit!" and I was like "deny that now!" and I just dumped his sorry behind once and for all. Good Luck, liars are the worse type of ppl
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    crookster, I admire the way you give yourself worth by not letting people step all over you, and disrespect you in front of your face. I must agree with za3raa69 in the fact that your friend is probably in a tough spot, knowing that he's in the middle,choosing between two friends. If you choose not to associate with him, with your mindset that he's not a loyal friend, then that's your choice. Everyone has a right to have their beliefs and standards. From my personal perspective, you might be a little too harsh by trying to get all your friends to cut ties with this guy. He might well-deserve it, but should you be the one to enforce it, and along the way lose other friends? Well, GOod Luck with everything, and I hope it all turns out for the best!
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    You never really know anything for sure. There are always "ifs" and "buts" and confusion in our minds. But I have to say that 10 years is a long time. I also would like for you to put yourself in her position. She was engaged, about to be married, and her fiance has an affair with another woman. He leaves her. Now he wants her back. What is she to do? I think I would put alot of pressure on him as well, because I would not want what happened b4 to happen again. How do you know she is forcing him to send emails and disconnect from you completely? Maybe it is his choice as well. By anymeans, he told you that he doesn't want to lose this last chance with her. Try to understand him, even though he is a jerk and wasted a year out of your life. It is his decision. If he is not happy for the rest of his life, that's his problem. Just don't be a rebound girl for him. Don't let him think that he can come back to you if things don't work out. Stand your grounds and let yourself be respected. Not some second choice. Good Luck with everything and I hope it turns out for the best at the end.
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    Hello t_guy, I don't believe you are shallow for feeling the way you do now. You probably fell in love with the girl but you pictured her with another face. So I think it's normal to feel strange now. Your might feel like it isn't the same person anymore. I also think you should meet her before you decide whether you love her or not. How did you find out that she doesn't look like the picture she sent you? Did she admit it to you? Maybe you should admire her for coming out and admitting you the truth. If she lied, then she is probably insecure about the way she looks. So don't be too hard on her. Well, I wish you lots of luck and hopes everything turns out for the better.
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    Micheleow, I understand that this is all very hard on you. Being a single parent once, and now, on your way with a second child. I don't know if you want this, but do you think your parents might help you out and make things easier on you? If so, let them know. I also admire your courage to go through the pregnancy and not choose abortion. Well, I don't have much advice to give except to wish you lots of luck in whatever decisions you make. And I hope that everything turns out good at the end.
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    Not trying to influence you in any way, but just answering your question... Im a 17 yr. old female. Non-virgin. I lost it when I was 15 to a guy I was with for two years. We were each other's first everything...from first butt grab to first "time". I don't regret it. Because even though I was young, I believe that I was in love with him. I still believe I was really in love with him. Even my mother, who is a "stay virgin til ur married" type of mom, found out, and even though she was upset at me in the beginning, she told me that she knew I loved him, so she doesn't resent me for it. I can't say whether it was wrong or right to do it. I don't regret it, I just took it as an experience. If i can turn back time, and save myself for my marriage, now that I have experienced sex, I think it is worth waiting for. Nothing that needs to be rushed. You just have to be ready. Just gotta make sure YOU ARE ready. And I greatly respect every virgin out there.
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    Making out, I agree is nice to do. Its actually awesoeme. I love to make out too. But Im not sure I would call it a hobbie. I mean, I don't just make out with anyone. I only lovve to make out with my boyfriend,when I have one, or with someone I like. If I don't like them, its like "eww nasty". SwingFox is right. Guys do have names for girls that make out with everyone. Instead of making out with the whole world, try to limit yourself to some guys. I think of this and it makes me think twice b4 I make out with anyone...Just ask yourself if this guy is worth sharing the germs that he has in his mouth with...Yuck!! Everytime I think that it just grosses me out. It sure limits me from kissing a bunch of people. But hey, whatever floats your boat!
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    Hey Crookster! I understand your reasons to feel betrayed by all three of them in this situation. I would as well, if I was in the same place. You have the choice of swallowing your pride and going along with it. But going along with it, you might continue to feel betrayed and feel that your friends (and exgirlfriend) don't have any respect for you anymore. It is good that you have drawn a line, and decided that your friend has betrayed you. You are standing and defending your grounds. As someone said, there are no rules to follow when it comes to this, just follow your own heart and instict. If you feel that this is not your friend anymore, then why fight for a friendship that your "friend" has chosen to let go? It is his choice to hang around the other people, and he has chosen to. If he chooses to make them his friends and not disconnect himself from them after what they've done to you, then that's his choice. I don't think it's wrong nor right. You don't need to be friends with people that don't act like friends with you or betray you. If your idea of friendship is loyalty, and trust, then stick to the friends who offer that. And let go of those who don't. Good Luck
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    I think you should tell him and don't worry about what his new girlfriend has to say. This is between you and him. I don't suggest bringing up getting back together just yet. I suggest you wait and let the news sink in first, see how he handles it. If the outcome is positive, then talk about your future plans with him. Find out what will happen b/w the two of you. Just try not to fight or argue about things. Try to work as a team, whether or not you guys are a couple. Because remember, the child is innocent and will be the one affected if there is any turmoil b/w the two of you. Good Luck on your pregnancy and everything else!
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    I personally think she might like you more than a friend. For the fact that she calls you at 3 in the morning to cuddle, and all of that. Maybe she calls you a best friend, since she can't have you as a boyfriend now. and doesn't want to say how she really feels about you, since she is going to be so far away and nothing may happen b/w u guys for now. So she might be trying to save herself the pain. If you truly love this girl and don't want to lose her, I think you should tell her how you feel about her. If a future is meant to happen, then it will happen. Good luck
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    Well from what I read, this is what I think. He was with you for a year, but he was with her for 10 and engaged to her. Maybe this was a test in their relationship. It sucks for the fact that this guy probably wasted a year out of your life, but just try to move on from him. Maybe he realized that he made a mistake leaving her and wants to make up for it now. I think you should not try to interfere because he might end up getting really upset at you. Just let him work his thing out. In the mean time, just try to move on and live your own life. Good Luck though!
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    To know for sure what is going wrong between the two of you, you might need to sit down and talk about it. Tell her how you feel without making her look like a victim. You might be the only one feeling that something is wrong b/w the two of you, while she feels just normal about everything. Well thats all the advice I can give. Good Luck
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    Hey, I can understand that you are upset that your friend is now pregnant, which obviously insults you because you weren't even aware of her having sex in the first place. I think, that as a friend, and as a Christian, you should not resent her for her mistakes with you. Do you think that maybe you put a little pressure on her, so thereforeeeee, she was afraid of trusting you with her having sex? I just think you should be there for her, since she doesn't have a husband, she might need all the help she can get.
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    Jordan, You don't seem immature or anything. But you gotta set yourself straight. You got to figure out what is going to make you happy. Ask yourself if this girl is worth letting go just because of her body. Is her body that horrible? If you find a girl that is as sweet and nice with a nicer body, will that make you a happier person? Maybe it is yourself that you need to deal with. You sometimes need to see beyond the imperfection because this girl also deserves to be loved. But she also deserves to have someone to love her completely. If you don't think you can do that, and are starting to treat her wrong bc of your frustrations of her body, then save her the trouble with you. Let her find someone who will love her and her beautiful self and go find someone who will make you happy. Good Luck Cristina
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    I think that she might be jealous of you moving on smoothly. Getting a new apartment, nicer body. Just because she talks about other guys doesn't mean she is happy. Or maybe she just wants to be your friend. Or maybe she just wants to be your girlfriend. I don't think I helped one bit, just confused you more. Just telling you some possibilities. Good Luck Though!
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    I say that you let her learn her lesson. She is dumb enough to go with a guy that she has watched screww every girl over, what makes her think she's any special? I think you should pretend you don't give a damn, pretend like its all good, and watch her crawl bak to you later. And then, just maybe...think about taking her bak. For that guy, what a coward! he can't even face you with the truth. He'll get wut he deserves one day. As for you, find your own happiness, and while your at it, sit back and watch them all get what they deserve little by little. Good Luck
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    Okay you are in love with his uncle. Are you sure you want to throw away 7 years for your boyfriend's uncle? THat will cause alot of problems in the family and It wont make you look good. If you don't love your boyfriend, then leave him, but don't trade him in for a family member. You should respect him more than that after 7 years. Thats my advice.
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    Hey Goldie, yea it sucks when a friend turn cold on you for no reason. Well I think you should just tell her straight out that you think the two of you are drifting apart. That you should make some plans ahead of time together, so nothing gets in the way of meeting up with her. I don't think you should be mean to her when she comes running back. Maybe she is dealing with something in her life...you never know. Or maybe she is upset at you for something you don't even know you did. Well, Good luck!!
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    My stories are nothing to get happy about... well you heard my story with the ex-bf of 2 yrs....beautiful story but i dont see us together...maybe one day in the future. My last ex-bf...cheated on me and i kicked him to the curb! Im single now... but I do got some good news...Ever since 10th grade, ive had a crush on some guy that Ive spent the rest of my summer with. HeHe. Now thats a great thing to cheer up my spirits about relationships! only one thing, he is going bak to college in another city this Sunday! Bummer! But im not surprised. I always have these shitty endings. Scary Beginnings, Incredible Middle, Crappy Endings...But that's okay. I still got my spirits up. I got hope. If hope is keeping you together, then hold on to it. Sorry, my stories have nothing to do with anything, and you probably dont care to hear them, but i just felt like spilling them.
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    You sound like a responsible and caring person for your age. Im 17 and everyone down here in Florida gets drunk every day! I think you should tell her how you feel about this situation. Tell her how it bothers you and that you wish she won't do it. But then again, she is 17 and wants to explore and have some fun. I suggest that if she does want to do it, and has her mind set on it, you should go with her to make sure she doesn't do anything stupid. And maybe take care of her after (throwing up). She might not even like to get drunk if she gets sick enough. Anyhow, if she has the curiosity, she is gonna end up doing it sooner or later. Just be there for her when she does.
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    This is a tough situation for you. But something keeps bothering me about this story, you don't seem to blame your "best friend" at all for sleeping with your ex. Why is it that he keeps sleeping with her knowing how much it hurts you? Is this really a friend? I feel it is wrong to sleep with people that you know, she shouldn't out of clear respect for you. But then again, her sleeping with your friend isnt much respectful either. I honestly think you should not try to be her friend. She is only hurting you by being your friend after the hurtful things she said. You two have too much emotions between the two of you to just stay "normal" friends without letting relationship issues get in the way. maybe you should wait a while until both of you are over it, and then be friends. Everyone wants to get back, when they first break up. but that's just the normal pain that comes along with break ups. It doesn't mean you are meant to be together or should be together, just because you miss her. Everyone misses their ex's after they break up, its nature. But you gotta keep the facts in mind, she probably isnt going to change, and she isn't even sorry. So if you guys ever get bak, you have all these issues in he back of your mind. You should just cut all contact with her and try to move on. And I think you should reevaluate your friendship with this so-called best friend. Good Luck and I hope it all turns out for the best.
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    Of course nothing is going to erase the past or the memories etc. I guess you know what you know and if you feel she still loves you, then I guess you got a reason to believe. But when you move on, and she comes back, as you said she would, are you going to want her back? Its funny bc my ex-bf of 2 years dumped me and it took me a whole year to get over him, but I always thought since we had a great relationship, and since he was my first love, and we were together for so long, that when he would come back, I would just go back to him. To my surprise, he called me to hang out last week and I can't even imagine hanging out w/ him since me and him have grown so far apart over the year that we've been broken up. I feel like I dont even know him anymore. The past is gonna stay the past for me, as a beautiful memory. but there is no future for us. Ive gone too far to turn back. Maybe youll feel the same way one day. But anyhow, I just hope it turns out for the better at the end! Good Luck!
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    You said you go out alot, so you should run into girls. The comment you said about girls only liking jerks, that is not completely true, it seems that way, but there are girls out there that appreciate nice and shy guys like you. Just when you find a girlfriend be sure not to spoil her to death or anything because she might end up taking advantage of you. Just be yourself without going overboard. Since you said you are shy, maybe you don't go up to girls alot and try to start a conversation. You can't expect it to all fall on your lap. Good Luck! Im sure you will find a nice girl that will suit you just fine.
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    Yea, she needs to take a blood test at the doctor's office. Good Luck
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    Nexhial, You are very talented and the lyrics are weighed with emotions. Love never dies bc its always on a memory and in the past. And past cannot be erased. But love sometimes takes another meaning. If you feel that you will never move on from her, and you cannot do it etc...how would you ever accomplish it? Do you want to want to move on or just dwell in pain? The choice is in your hands. I don't have much to say besides GOod Luck
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