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  1. amtjrtcet
    Oh honey there's your answer. Sexually flirtatious emails? Asking for naked pics?! Denying his relationship with you? All of it visible, unquestionably true??!! DUMP HIM! There's NOTHING in the world he could say to make any of that right. NOTHING.
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    Are you the woman in this story? If so I am soooo sorry. And I know how you feel. I'm going through something soooo similar. I wish I had good advice. I snooped through his phone to find that he's been calling his ex girlfriend. I too thought that things were great between us. And now....who knows. You've got proof here though. The emails, flirtatious and sexual. That's all you should need. Leave him. If I had that kind of evidence I'd be rid of him.
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    So quit cold turkey again. That's the way I quit. Smoke free for over 5 yrs now. I don't believe in patches or gum. If you want to quit something you just have to DO IT. Good luck!
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    I think you're right Beec. The ONE rose is very very romantic IMO. I'm not big on Vday, but if he's gonna get something, just one simple rose is what I'm hoping for. So yeah, it would be too romantic for 2 wks.
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    Same here.
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    I agree with Scout-spa is too much too soon. I'd say one long stemmed rose and dinner. Casual enough for two wks, but still sweet.
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    Yea, is it thinning? I have long thick hair and everytime I shower, dry, or brush my hair, soooo much comes out. When I'm done drying my hair my bathroom floor is covered. I vacuum my house twice a wk, and by the 3rd vacuum the "CHECK BRUSH" light comes on b/c of the hair. Mine definitely isn't thinning though. I know its annoying but I think its normal.
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    If the person whom is withdrawing is a lover then I'd say don't chase them. If they're looking for "space" you must give it to them, otherwise they will feel suffocated and trapped and withdraw even more.
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    I don't do anything special for V-day. I've been dating my b/f for 9.5 months, so this will be our first V-day together. But we don't have anything planned. I'm not getting him anything, and I don't think he's getting me anything. Birthdays & Christmas-both are appropriate for gifts, V-day-NO. IMO. To me Ground hog Day has more importance
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    I am also a woman, but I know what makes my man happy: lingere-Saturday night I dressed up in a lace nightie and my heels. I left my heels on-it drove him crazy. dirty talk, telling him what I want him to do to me soft kisses all over leaving some light on so we can look at each other making love in front of a mirror, watching each other.
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    But beer isn't illegal. If you're of legal age, you can't get arrested for having beer in your home.
  12. amtjrtcet
    My ex of 6 yrs use to smoke. We both did when I met him. But I didn't really enjoy it. I quit by the time I was 20. He didn't. Let me add, he's 6 yrs older then me, very ambitious, owns his own body shop, made a VERY good living. Our relationship got more serious, we started looking for a house together, talked about marriage. When I was 21 we found a house. I told him I'd only buy this house with him if he quit smoking. I didn't want it in or around my house. So he quit. 3 months later I caught him smoking a joint in the garage. I sent him packing to his momma. I meant it. I did not want anything like that around my house. He finally actually quit and I let him move back in. My point being, I understand why see's against it. Do what you want, but don't be upset when other's don't approve, esp. when it comes to drugs.
  13. amtjrtcet
    why did you break up with her?
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    My b/f and I have also never really had a fight. We've been together for 9.5 months. Though I've had some "issues" with some of his habits (IE: always late, crazy ex...) we've never had an actual argument. At first I was sceptical like you, but I soon realized that maybe we're some of the lucky people, who don't have to argue to make it work. We talk about things, and how we feel. We don't keep things bottled in. We respect each other. When I'm with my girlfriends and they're nagging about their men, I just sit back and listen, I don't have anything to add. I know there will come a time when we do fight, but I'm definitely not scared of it. Just enjoy your relationship.
  15. amtjrtcet
    that is very sweet, but if I was only one month into a relationship and the guy expressed his undying love for me, I'd get a little freaked out. Just enjoy it, you don't have to lable it.
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    Yes! A wife most certainly has superiority over an ex-girlfriend who is now a friend.
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    It is very disrespectful of him, no matter how long ago they dated and how much he loves you. I have an ex, we'll call him "D". We dated for a while, then did the "friends with benefits" thing, dated again, it just never worked out. We always remained friends, kept in touch, had dinner sometimes. Then I met my b/f. He knew of "D" and the relationship that we had. Out of love and respect for my b/f I cut off "close" contact with "D", without him askin me to. It just wasn't appropriate. When I see "D" we still speak, say hello, casual small talk. He'll call on holidays to say hi, and see how things are, but that's it. If he loves you and respects you, your man should do the same. And his ex should understand.
  18. amtjrtcet
    In reference to my post about my b/f-he eats what he wants but what he wants IS healthy. We're both that way. When I say eats what he wants, I mean he doesn't deprive himself when he's hungry, and does't take any supplements to enhance his size or strength. Yes, alot of it is genetics, but he played college football and is now a highschool football coach. So he works for it, just doesn't have to work as hard as some people.
  19. amtjrtcet
    I completely agree. My man was born lucky. Built like Tyrese works out only twice a wk, eats whatever he wants. I hate him for it! But he's gorgeous and the kindest man I've ever met.
  20. amtjrtcet
    very well said
  21. amtjrtcet
    I prefer a bigger guy. I'm tiny and I love the fact that my man is built like a NFL player. It makes me feel more.....I don't know, feminine. I guess you could say I prefer a man built like Tyrese. He's perfect, IMO, his muscles aren't too big, he's in shape but not over the top.
  22. amtjrtcet
    You know your stuff
  23. amtjrtcet
    "Twisted" and "Nobody" by Keith Sweat. "Sexual Healing"
  24. amtjrtcet
    My b/f is 28 and lives at home. He has lived on his own, just moved back home this summer from graduate school. I don't go to his parents house much: its kinda far out and they're older. But I do have my own house, and so he's always at my place. As long as a man is ambitious, clean, and has a good job I don't see anything wrong with him living at home.
  25. amtjrtcet
    Beec, you have such a way with words
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