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amtjrtcet

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  1. I love it...its like a game, and you just made it to level two.
  2. Well if he's not going down town then I definitely wouldn't be returning the favor.
  3. Hey hun! Did you get my msg. AWFUL WEEKEND.

  4. Alcohol is worse then pot... My opinion from personal experience.
  5. porn -why do they look? B/c its funny as heck!
  6. I'd blame the cheating husband and the other woman, but mostly the cheating husband. I'd leave his a$$, no, kick him out on the street, take him for everything he was worth, make sure every breathing walking woman knew what kind of cheating scum he was, and I'd let the whole world know that she was an nasty, home wrecking mistress. I've had to do it before, but I'll never have to do it with the same man twice. Burn me once shame on you, burn me twice...I'm an idiot. I know alot of people can work through infidelity, but I couldn't EVER. Even if we had 3 kids and had been married for 20 yrs, if he cheated, I'd be gone in a heart beat.
  7. I was 18, had just graduated high school. My best friend at the time and I went to the beach. We "experimented" while we were there. It was all together a good experience. Not one that I would do again or have any desire to do again. Her and I are still pretty close. She's married now with a baby. We've never talked about it, no one knows.
  8. Things are good with this one, at least today they are
  9. I'm not sure "why" we get so impatient. With my ex I became impatient. We'd been together for 6 yrs, owned a home together. So why not? Why wouldn't he want to marry me? And yes, my mother nagged me about it. I'm sure that had a lot to do with my impatients.
  10. I agree with DN, there must be something else here?
  11. Glad to hear things have been going so well. I can completely understand why you'd be hurt to find the old cards. I would feel the same way. I personally think its time for him to get rid of them. As for trusting him, I don't think you have anything to worry about. Maybe just mention the fact that him keeping the old cards kinda bothers you a little bit. That may be all it takes for him to throw them out. Sounds like he does care about your feelings seeing as how he took you with him to meet her. Good luck!
  12. Hey teacup. Don't get too discouraged yet. He may honestly just feel this way right now b/c of everything that he has goin on right now. I'm completely overwhelmed with my career, 2nd job, goin to nursing school and the other day I was late and thought I might be pregnant-I totally freaked out! I'm not pregnant, completely relieved, but I definitely want kids, just not right now. I wouldn't bring it up again any time soon. Let him get his life straightend out some.
  13. I told my b/f that I loved him at 5 months. I was a little drunk, but I meant it. We're still together and in love a yr later.
  14. I came accross this thread today & just wanted to add my little story. I'm not looking for sympathy, I didn't resist, but I wanted to share how it effected me. When I was 16 I was head-over-heels for this guy (we'll call him John). John was 19, soooo good looking. He was the guy all the girls wanted to be with. And he chose me. He was my first. I found myself doing anything he wanted to make him happy. I was young and thought that sex=love. I thought that if I did what he wanted he'd love me. We dated for about 6 months. I was drinking with him all the time, sneeking out at night to see him, skipping school. Anytime I hesitated to do these things he made me feel like he was going to break up with me so I gave in-pathetic huh? So one night we had a big party at my parents lake house. (without their knowledge of course). He talked me into letting all of his friends come over. They got into my dad's liquor cabinet. I got wasted. I could hardly walk. Next thing I know he and I are having sex in the bedroom. One of his friends came in the room, John said "I want to watch you and him." I'm sure it was a combination of the alcohol, the fact that I'd do anything for John, and the fact that I was young and weak minded. But I did it. Over the course of the next few days everyone was talking about it. I was the butt of every joke and every ugly word. John stopped seeing me. I was heartbroken. Over the next few yrs I became very promiscuous. Made some really stupid decisions. Started doing drugs. Eventually I met my ex and settled down. I cleaned up my act. I became someone I am proud to be. I wasn't raped, I didn't resist. But I wanted to share anyway.
  15. Well I don't have kids, so my opinion is completely irrelevant, but my best friend since the time I was six was raised by a single mother. My friend was always meeting the new "flavor of the wk". It made her angry, bitter, jealous, confused. I just think her mother should have waited until the relationship had developed in to something with more substance and a chance at lasting before she brought the guy home to met her daughter.
  16. Welcome! When my ex and I broke up after a 6 yr relationship we lived together for 3 wks. But our situation was not like yours. We fought the whole 3wks. Slept in different bedrooms. Sometimes at night I'd here him crying-I'm sure he heard me too. He went out drinking every night and didn't come home a few nights. (this is one of the main reasons I broke up with him in the first place.) It was awful, but it was the only thing we could do at the time financially. After 3 wks I moved in w/a girlfriend. The only advice I can give right now is worry about YOU. If I were you I'd find another place to live as soon as possible. For your own good. Good luck.
  17. Well, in my opinion, if you and him have only been seeing each other for a month, I think its a little soon for you and the 8 yr old to be around each other. How long have he and his ex been broken up?
  18. I also think that if she says that she doesn't need you alot then she's probably trying to convince herself. I find myself in the same situation sometimes. I don't really "need" my b/f for anything. He's a teacher, I make twice what he does. I have my own house, car, education. I was happy with who I am before he came along, and I'd still be happy if he was gone. But although I don't "need" him, I love him and what he adds to my life. Just be glad she's not needy.
  19. I've heard it that way too, but "a lady in the streets but a freak in the bed" are the intellectual words of the great Ludacris.
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