justme1

Chicks can pick up on the fact that you are dating or have a frequent sex life. They can sense it.

Tell he ryou've found a few of her things and you guys can meet to give them to her or you can mail them or whatever. If you guys are on speaking terms then just do it... no reason to be on here figuring out what to do. I have your stuff, how do you want me to get it to you? If she doesn't reply in a week or two, throw it away.

Never keep your mouth shut. I admire women that express feelings. I've heard stories of women that simply ignore the other until they stop calling. This could be happening...but if you two were close at all, there should have been some type of closure from him. I would just shrug...maybe he'll call some other day. Do your own stuff and move on. Don't wait for him to return so you can live again. He's robbing you of time.

If you have his phone number...call him and talk. If it goes to voicemail, leave a nice message like "hey how's it going?" And then forget about him until he calls you or messages you. If he never calls back, who cares, because you don't care anymore, remember? I would say if you said that, depending on the time you've spent together, could be simple yet powerful to say to certain men. If I heard it I would be enthusiastic because it's a marker in a relationship. It means to me you are serious about getting to know him better and more. He may not know how he feels about you or maybe is having seconds thoughts...who knows. You should not let that happy feeling go to waste...use it to create a painting or a song or something kick * * *. Deal with the facts of what you know. Make a list of what you know. Don't bother assuming things you don't know.

Run! Fast!

aren't easily understood sounds better. Don't cry...if he comes back to you then you can make up your mind if you want him. IF that day comes, you might not want him back! We all bounce around and date, and love. Be happy you dated him. You will connect again or connect with someone else soon. We are all trying to connect and you must keep trying to find the one or the closest thing to the one. You can't read somone's mind. People change. You change. Once you love yourself and be happy you will love easier and let go easier. Letting go is the hardest part. The funny thing is it's the easiest part. All of what we do in the beginning...learning...the situations...the getting to know someone is hard. Learning limits in someone...figuring them out...that's a challenge. Letting go of someone that wants to go in a new direction is easy. Smile and wave. When you are together you are still an individual. You are always you. You are only interacting closely with another organism. I miss my ex gf that left me but she left me for a reason. If it was because of me or if it was because of her doesn't matter. I'm happy for my experience with her. She is no longer close to me. But I know of her. I knew her. That means a lot. Out of all the people in the world, I spent time with her. I'm happy I had the experience. Love yourself above all...you sleep alone most of the time and sometimes you get to sleep near someone.

Sounds like he has moved on...and told you so in a harsh way. I'd work on NC as much as possible. It's hard when you want someone and they don't want you! At another point in your life, you will have the same happen to you. When it does, do you want a clean break that's easy? Or do you want the person to act all clingy? No means no! You'll appreciate the people you breakup with that say "Ok!, later" Realize it's not all about you or him 100% Accept the situation and reality and the present. Respect their wishes. If he feels like contacting you down the road, then you have the ability to decide whether or not YOU want to see him! Chances are you won't! Take care

no..she knows how to contact you...forget her! Why would you want to be involved with someone that gets upset easily? NC! She's gone! Let her go!

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I suggest you watch Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind... You should probably just let him go...and remember the good times. You can move on your own if you want to move.

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I'm not clear on where you and he and this ex are all living at this point and ages. Are you in the US and he's in Canada?

Did you ever like any part of the relationship?

Maybe he is frustrated about something... but it would help if you could bring it up and talk to him...maybe he is annoyed by your constant attention. Back off a bit... I would have to agree though...you buying him a new bag isn't for YOUR water and Umbrella...it should be a gift for HIM without your interests in mind. I hope you understand this...He needs his own space a little...he doesn't want you to be too clingy.

If you can't express your concerns to management and they are non responsive and it's causing you stress...you may need to move on. If it is his responsibility and you are dealing with it...I'd ask for a raise since you are taking on more responsibility. Management may see your efforts and look into the situation more seriously since now you are requesting more compensation for duties outside your responsibilty even though they are paying someone to do them. At least if he is only taking orders from his boss you might want to speak with that person and let them know what is going on and how they can help. Help them help you...

Tai chi really helps me relax...try taking a class...yoga would be beneficial as well.

Forgiving is a positive step... Don't file away all of the PAST problems and then go back into your filing cabinet and examine them... You need to deal with what is happening now, the present. Should something alert you to leave...then leave. Don't dwell on the past. Forgive...if it happens again...move on.

1- i keep waiting for the damn phone to ring or text! im not used to her never calling or texting Stop waiting around for something...it takes a little while but you will find your own self again. 2- sometimes i want to phone her just to see if she remembers me?? (ive already deleted her number from my phone to prevent this) She remembers you. Don't call her. 3- i wonder if she ever thinks about me Of course she does...that doesn't mean she wants to be involved with you. 4-i find it hard not to think about her when i am trying to sleep at night Please try tai chi or exercise in the evening...you have a lifetime of experiences awaiting you. smile. 5- when i am "bored" or have nothing to do my mind wanders onto her and what her new man are up to Stop thinking about her. If you catch your mind thinking about her, quickly pinch yourself and replace the thought with something that makes you happy. 6- when driving i hope i dont see "them"( a possible sighting caused me to jump with nerves) Who cares what happens...don't worry about it. 7- has she complwetely forgotten i exist? No. She has moved on... you should do the same! 8- is she doing all the things she loved doing with me but swapped me for him?? Don't be so dramatic...quit wasting your time on her...she doesn't sit around and think of you...everyone is different. Go out on a date or something. It didn't work out...it's over...you'll date again...you aren't dead, you are single...you were born single. lol 9- i imagine everything is "perfect" between them. Hardly...every relationship has it's ups and downs...he may dump her for someone else...she could dump him for someone else...and that includes dumping someone for HERSELF... You are letting your mind wander and seeing things through your own special glasses...making up what you want to think is real...when in fact you have no facts of any kind. Stop making things up and deal with reality. You don't know anything about them or what she is doing...and you are SINGLE. You should enjoy the ride and realize you are only rejecting yourself at this point. So move along and do some of the things you've always wanted to do...and if you feel up to maybe ask someone out go ahead. The crazy head thinking will keep you down. Distract yourself...

Business is buiness. If there was an at will work policy in effect, she could leave whenever...as well, you can tell her not to report back to work. Many companies will manipulate things to their advantage...why doesn't the employee deserve the same. This type of client snatching happens in other client based companies... Massage, Chiro, Cosmetic surgery... She is entitled to manipulate business just as the employer does. On the bright side of things...she will be gone soon and you won't have to worry about it. You can now learn from this and create a revised work contract stating some of your concerns including your ability to terminate at will and also include a disclaimer regarding the conflict of interest concerning an employee practicing at home. Double check your laws and create a new work contract.

I wish all the tall guys would stick to the tall women! I'm 5'6 and love 5'6 and under women... I WOULD date a very tall woman if only she would come to me...but of course most are concerned with how the world perceives them. I guess it's a fantasy...long legs... Here's a great quote! Ergo: "I am Ergo the Magnificent! Short in stature, tall in power, narrow of purpose, and wide of vision and I do not travel with peasants and beggars, good bye!" -The movie Krull

With first encounters of going down, I always get in there and see what I'm in for...and I always ask them to work with me so I know how they need it...it's fun. Communication is critical. If they don't ask...TELL! There is no reason to be frustrated... Oh and please ladies...guys might get turned off if they see something down there that shouldn't be. I will not get into specifics..but it's a turn off and I myself will stop the cunninglus very early if I'm turned off. At that point I will wonder if this is going to be a constant problem which could lead to a less than satisfying sexual partner.

See if he will go to marriage counseling with you...if not stop wasting his time and yours...oh and cheating is cheating. Ignorance is bliss. Don't tell him.

Just leave her alone...she needs alone time. Move on with your life...

don't buy her anything..if she won't hear you out then just leave her alone. Try getting some kind of organizer or set calendar reminder emails for special dates - bdays I'll say it once again...DO NOT BUY HER ANYTHING oh i'm a guy sorry