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  1. Hello, I'm a 20 year old gal looking for some much needed advice on anxiety. I have been suffering with anxiety disorder for nearly 3 years now, (after going through some tragic events.) It's really starting to take over my life now, i'm loosing my friends and social life! I've tried counciling for months but no luck, i've been brushed off by my doctor and handed diazepam to help me, but they do not work for me, my anxiety levels are too high! I was trying to look at alternative therapies for anxiety and came accross a drug called seredyn. all i seem to find is good reviews on it, so is there anybody out there that has used this drug and can tell me there experience with it please. or anything you have taken, herbal would be best. Also i do not have millions of pounds to spend on "fixing" myself, so if theres anybody who can tell me any good websites with free advice or cures, anything that a fellow sufferer has tried to cure their anxiety then please please get back to me, i'm pretty much on my own here and desperately need help! Thankyou in Advance, Blu x
  2. hiya, i had a major crush on my male p.e teacher, he was 20 and i was 15, i used to blush everytime i saw him and feel all giddy! and one day when we had trampolining, he was trying to discribe a move to me on all fours, but i didn't understand it, so HE GOT ON WITH ME!!! we started the move on the trampoline together until the girls started to notice i was smiling, the all the girls in my class started wisling and saying "oi oi" i almost died, i went bright red started laughing. but thats not the worst part, i was laughing so much i knocked into him and we fell, so i ended up laying on my back whlie he was over me on all fours!!! i was soooo mortified, but looking back on it it was really funny. i wonder if he's still single..................... lol
  3. hey, i need a bit of advice, i've been taking to a guy on the net and well the thing is, i think he's in love with me, it all started off fine, normal chit chat, but now it's gone on to, "your so sexy" kinda stuff, he's only 17 and i'm 21, i do think he's lovely and i kinda wish he was a bit older, but what can i do to change the conversation between us now, i don't wanna not talk to him anymore, i just don't want him to have a major crush on me and be hurt, any advice?
  4. hello, this has happened to me, i sent a rude email to a guy friend and it got sent to a female friend, i was so embarrassed, i think you should call your friend, but remember the other person who got your email may not even know you, and your friend may of allready emailed her saying that she sent it by mistake, she could be feeling really bad, blu x
  5. hey you guys, you have well gotta cheer up, it might only be work or some friends making you feel like crap, but remember your familys and there friends, cousins, aunts, uncles. theres more people out there than you think, and theres people on here who'll listen to you, i bet your both attractive, both young and full of life, and could do alot worse with your lives. so from this day forward, cheer up, talk to peole, and think positive. it won't all be easy but you can do it, i'm sure alot of people rely on you more that you know, good luck, and be happy however horrible things may seem, it'd not that bad xxxxxx
  6. hi, i know from my own experince how it feels to be cheated on, it's not the nicest thing in the world, i have never cheated on a boyfriend, and i too think that it is wrong, i know alot of friends who have cheated on their boyfriends/girlfriends, but i guess that the realationship that they were in didn't mean that much to them, as the other person. my view if you want to be single, be SINGLE! if you want to be in a relationship be in one, only two people neded, NOT THREE!!! blu x
  7. hiya, i dream everynight and can remember them all, i know some stuff about dream meaning so hope this helps, to dream of a cat for a cat lover signfies an inderpendant sprit, femmine sexualty and power, however if the cat is aggressive it surgests that you are having problems with your femmine aspect of yourself, to see a white cat in your dream means that you are going through difficult times. also remember that whatever you see in the day can also influnce your dreams at night, YOU may not notice it, but your suconseness does. blu x
  8. hi, thanks you guys for all he advice, things are getting a little eaiser now, my dads got a date lined up so i'm happy he's moving on, i'm dealing with things the best i can, i think that i'm doing really well under the curcumstances, and i'm glad to know i'm not the only person who's been through their parents breaking up being "stuck in the middle" thanks again, blu x
  9. hey, i was wondering if someone could give me some advice, my mum left my dad 3 weeks before christmas they had a 30 year marraige, she says she was really unhappy, and i understood what she was saying, but now i'm kinda "piggy in the middle" at the moment. when i see mum, dad askes about her straight away when i come in, and it's horrible. my mum has a boyfriend allready, i met him tonight and he's really nice (which is good) everything was going great, we were talking about our intrests, his children, ex wife, ect.. then he said when we get a place your more than welcome to come live with us (which is nice) and i was'nt botherd by it, until he said "we might not be living here though, we might be moving to wales" so i turned to mum and asked if she was moving, all she said was "it's only about 4 hours away" i got really upset and left, i must of looked like a right muppet! i feel so stupid, and he thinks he upset me, but it's just the fact that i miss my mum, we were like best friends, and all of a sudden she's living far away with my nan and grandad, whenever i go down to see her she's either out or on her way out. it really sucks. so if there's anyone out there who's been through this and has some advice then i'd be greatful to hear it. blu x
  10. wow, it's been along time since i came on here, i attully came on here as my dog passed away yestoday he was 17 he had a great life, i got him when i was 3. anyway it got me thinking about death again and how i lost my friend on september 30th 2003, i thought i'd update anyone who's intrested. i'm still having councling for my panick attacks there a little better but not that much unfortunally, i'm still not with my ex, i decided to break all contact with him on monday (i have a feeling his seeing someone else) we called and text eachother through the 8 months we were apart, i even seen him a few times. i do miss him though. i've attully been in contact with the guy i was with before him, he's quite sweet but after a 5 year realationship with someone i personally can't just move on (unlike my ex) anyways, i think i'll print out what i wrote in febuary and all the replys just as a reminder that eventhough things go slow, they do get better..... x
  11. hi, i have panic disorder, it's been with me for nearly 2 years following a friends passing. the best advice i can give you from personal experence is to see your gp, he will precribe medication, and hopefully put you on a waiting list to see a mental health professional, it will be free as it's the nhs, someone can come to your house if your not feeling well enough to go to them, it's very helpful, please, please don't leave it and think it will go away, it might for a while but it will resurface, maybe worse than before. goodluck, be positive and don't give up!!! blu x
  12. thanks everyone, you've all given me really good advice, it's just diffucult sometimes, like i look great one day with no spots and feel great, then the next day i spin round in the mirror and i get really upset. i know there are sivere cases alot worse than mine, but it affects people in diffirent ways, i could try fake tan, summers coming up too so i can sit outside, mind you i can't really get my bum out (ha ha) thanks again x
  13. hi, i just wondered if some people could give me some advice, the problem is i have scars on my top back near my neck on my backside (bum) and some on my face due to an out burt of acne about a year ago, i still have spots which is horrible but bearable, but it's the scars, i'm very fair skined so most of the scars are a dark colour, i'm embarrassed to go to the hairdressers and sex is awful, i don't have enough money to go and get them seen to profeninaly, otherwise i would. is there something i could use or try, please help x
  14. i understand that just being friends would hurt, as you seem like you've been through alot of stuff together, and as for her getting angry when you try and talk about it, maybe theres something that you don't know about her, something in her past thats been resurfced, maybe you could talk to one of her friends to find out whats going on, or just call her, beacuse if you think about it too much it will eat away at you, you'll start going mad, what have you gotta loose if you do call or what could you gain? x
  15. it seems she is still in love with you, but (this might sound horrible) maybe she likes the drama, i think if shes willing, to sit and talk to her face to face, you can then really talk to her, tell her what she means to you and how she made you feel (happy) get her to talk about why shes so inscure, reassure her that shes safe with you and you would'nt hurt her, maybe sleeping together freaked her out, and she thought about what shes missing, but thought you would'nt forgive her for the break up. i can totally relate to you and how you feel, x
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