paige20

Hi im just wondering how long have people waited to have sex after childbirth.

Hi y'all, thanks for all ya advice.... well,..... My husband is finally trying to put 'me' first, he goes down on me for only like 5/10mins. BUT at least hes trying. The thing is, hes not really doing it right. He just uses like the tip of his tongue and i cant get aroused like that coz its ya know sensitive and he touches all the wrong places so now i 'pretend' im ready when im not coz i dont wanna nag to him too much coz hes trying. Is there anything i can do or say ??? He didnt even want anything in return. Im starting to get bored from sex. when i wouldnt mind doin it 3times a day if it was fun.

Weve been married 2yrs nearly and im nearly 6months pregnant, ( he definitly aint put off by my pregy looks)

our overall life together is quite good, not great but good, we have a laugh. The thing last night after tellin him over n over. He used fingers not tongue, and hes just rubbing hard and gets rough and he always totally misses the clitorus. I dont like telin him all the time how to do it or goin in to detail coz i think at least hes touchin!!! and i feel like a teacher.

thanx for all of ya advice. quite helpful n funny well i ended up shoutin last nite, i was givin him oral for like 15mins, then he sed 'pop on'!!! i sed wat bout me????? i told him he knows nothin about women and that he needs to get some bookz... i always dress sexy at bedtime, im always clean, i take control sometimes, we've tried the 69 afew times before but he stops after like 30secz. Im gonna try that when he stops i stop thing Last night i said to him how cum he hardly does anything to me, he said he cant play about like that, its daft and why do i get turned on from his hands when it should be his penis!!! I tryed to explain AGAIN... what women need,..... neways, before he said to me what my problem was lastnight and that he made me orgasm.....lets see what happens tonight, he told me to teach him a few things......again

No thats not the case coz i dont always say anything and hes had pleeeenty of time to do what hes wanted. And hes the type to tel me to my face if he wants to try something else.

Hey ailec. I always pleasure him first so hes always aroused. He just says that hel ejaculate quiker if he does anyfin to me...

thx from far away. My husband loves me but just seems to be in a rush to ejacualte and says he couldnt wait coz hes mad about me.Weve been married 2years though not 2days!! Hes selfish in bed.

Hi y,all. I get really sexually frustrated from my husband. He hardly ever gives me oral sex, i always give it to him. I talk to him about this and actually get his hand and direct him and tell him what pleases me but hel never use fingers and very rarely his tongue ... If he does ever do anything to me its like 5minutes max.... or he'l keep askin me every minute 'are you ready yet' and i get put off more. Then the next day hel forget all about it and ignore it again. I dont think he knows much about oral sex.I keep tellin him. He makes me feel like a machine. Im just wonderin do men actually enjoy giving oral sex? Im a very clean person aswell and always shower before sex. Some advice please....

thx chai. sorry i wasnt that clear. i mean something different sexually in bed.

Hi y'all, its my husbands birthday tomorrow, and i wanna do sumthin that he will never 4get!! So have any of you guys got any ideas!!! What would you men like ??? thx