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  1. justme1
    Chicks can pick up on the fact that you are dating or have a frequent sex life. They can sense it.
  2. justme1
    Tell he ryou've found a few of her things and you guys can meet to give them to her or you can mail them or whatever. If you guys are on speaking terms then just do it... no reason to be on here figuring out what to do. I have your stuff, how do you want me to get it to you? If she doesn't reply in a week or two, throw it away.
  3. justme1
    Never keep your mouth shut. I admire women that express feelings. I've heard stories of women that simply ignore the other until they stop calling. This could be happening...but if you two were close at all, there should have been some type of closure from him. I would just shrug...maybe he'll call some other day. Do your own stuff and move on. Don't wait for him to return so you can live again. He's robbing you of time.
  4. justme1
    If you have his phone number...call him and talk. If it goes to voicemail, leave a nice message like "hey how's it going?" And then forget about him until he calls you or messages you. If he never calls back, who cares, because you don't care anymore, remember? I would say if you said that, depending on the time you've spent together, could be simple yet powerful to say to certain men. If I heard it I would be enthusiastic because it's a marker in a relationship. It means to me you are serious about getting to know him better and more. He may not know how he feels about you or maybe is having seconds thoughts...who knows. You should not let that happy feeling go to waste...use it to create a painting or a song or something kick * * *. Deal with the facts of what you know. Make a list of what you know. Don't bother assuming things you don't know.
  5. justme1
    Run! Fast!
  6. justme1
    aren't easily understood sounds better. Don't cry...if he comes back to you then you can make up your mind if you want him. IF that day comes, you might not want him back! We all bounce around and date, and love. Be happy you dated him. You will connect again or connect with someone else soon. We are all trying to connect and you must keep trying to find the one or the closest thing to the one. You can't read somone's mind. People change. You change. Once you love yourself and be happy you will love easier and let go easier. Letting go is the hardest part. The funny thing is it's the easiest part. All of what we do in the beginning...learning...the situations...the getting to know someone is hard. Learning limits in someone...figuring them out...that's a challenge. Letting go of someone that wants to go in a new direction is easy. Smile and wave. When you are together you are still an individual. You are always you. You are only interacting closely with another organism. I miss my ex gf that left me but she left me for a reason. If it was because of me or if it was because of her doesn't matter. I'm happy for my experience with her. She is no longer close to me. But I know of her. I knew her. That means a lot. Out of all the people in the world, I spent time with her. I'm happy I had the experience. Love yourself above all...you sleep alone most of the time and sometimes you get to sleep near someone.
  7. justme1
    Sounds like he has moved on...and told you so in a harsh way. I'd work on NC as much as possible. It's hard when you want someone and they don't want you! At another point in your life, you will have the same happen to you. When it does, do you want a clean break that's easy? Or do you want the person to act all clingy? No means no! You'll appreciate the people you breakup with that say "Ok!, later" Realize it's not all about you or him 100% Accept the situation and reality and the present. Respect their wishes. If he feels like contacting you down the road, then you have the ability to decide whether or not YOU want to see him! Chances are you won't! Take care
  8. justme1
    no..she knows how to contact you...forget her! Why would you want to be involved with someone that gets upset easily? NC! She's gone! Let her go!
  9. justme1
    it's a lot good stuff
  10. justme1
    I suggest you watch Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind... You should probably just let him go...and remember the good times. You can move on your own if you want to move.
  11. justme1
    lol not always!
  12. justme1
    nicole kidman tom cruise
  13. justme1
    I'm not clear on where you and he and this ex are all living at this point and ages. Are you in the US and he's in Canada?
  14. justme1
    Did you ever like any part of the relationship?
  15. justme1
    Maybe he is frustrated about something... but it would help if you could bring it up and talk to him...maybe he is annoyed by your constant attention. Back off a bit... I would have to agree though...you buying him a new bag isn't for YOUR water and Umbrella...it should be a gift for HIM without your interests in mind. I hope you understand this...He needs his own space a little...he doesn't want you to be too clingy.
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