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  1. sidhat
    Dude,, That what life is.. You will come over her soon just think positive and important thing is put smile on your face even u dont want to.. thats make you feel good and also for some1 waiting for you.. also make sure u join gym..thats the best way to love yourself.. I been with this and abt 3 months now I dont feel much but still i know It will take abt 3 more months to come over 90/10 .. Good Luck and move ON... Life is soo beautiful .. Enjoy it..
  2. sidhat
    Cheater always a cheater.. and Trust is the biggest issue in relationship no matter what happen ... The best thing a person can get is pain and enjoy your pain and think positive like you are.. Hate the sin and love the sinner.. doesnt make sense.. GOOD LUCK and move on..
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    I had a 3 years relationship and my ex decide to cheat on me which I knew abt june 2004, but I dont want to confront her bcoz i loves her alot and dont want to loose her.. I continued trying to get her back and tell her that how much she meant to me and I dont like her cold and disrespectfull behavior with me.. she was also really confused and keep saying lies to me and also clearing her mind to me asking weird questions like if i do that what you do and I only do affairs for time pass and I was sucking up everything and hurting and tears .. I also cried near her and all the family that she is not behaving the right way with me .. I was going to get marry her next year but I dont know.. so on valintines day I caught her talking with a guy and also hav her detailed cell phone bill in which the other guy number all the way.. then she suddenly change her attitude and asking for forgiveness and want to start it again like before.. but i was soo hurted and depressed and talk this to all family and my elder bro. was really pissed of and he went her house and yeild on her like crazy.. Now my situation is I am really alone and dipressed with the situation ,, sometimes I think i should forgive her and give her 1 more chance then i think why she keep doing that 8 months and disrespect me like crazy.. so should i give her 1 more chance or let her go with her own.. Please any advice would be appriciated..
  4. sidhat
    Dude, When girls give her number to any1 its mean she is intrested .. so its depends on you how u initiate the communication..but keep yourself worth on her..dont be like calling calling everytime.. ler her come to you.. Good Luck..
  5. sidhat
    I think you just want to make ur mind clear and want more confident on what you want to do.. I would say If a person thinks abt cheating on some1 thats enough .. I know at the end you will think Its my life and I know better wat to do for myself.. Cheating is bigest sin for a relatioship.. And Hate the sin and love the Siner... sounds not good.
  6. sidhat
    I agree with every1 here.. u better leave and dump him ASAP... Love is the another name of RESPECT... and verbal abusive is the worse abusive action on any1.. so leave him and dont let him come back to you. every1 deserve to live happy then why not you.. GOOD LUCK..
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    For your boyfrien.. If he cheated on you also .. then you should end this relation and confront him that you r cheating on me there..and enjoy your life with co-worker and tell him everyhting truth and make a strong relatioship base.. GOOD LUCK..
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    Dear, Cheating is the worse situation a man can have in his life.. its like a sharp knife in some1 heart for ever.. I dont know its depends on you leve him or ask for forgiveness.. i would say If you really love your b/f and want to be with him then when he come back built the trust level more then 100% and when u think its right time to tell him then tell him with all your emotion and guilts.. as of your co-worker,, its normal man psycology that if he knows your past that you cheated on your b/f then a man never built trust on that type of women.. i mean for long term,, the simple man is like that.. HATE THE SIN AND LOVE THE SINNER... no man can be like that.. GOOD LUCK..
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    Dear, NC means to get over her and dont go back.. basically you want to tell your ex that what you worth.. If u really want that person back then u have to play hard to get game to make her mind clear that you r not easy and pity for you ex.. so stay strong and do something else to make you feel much better .. go get some other girls.. GOOD LUCK,,
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    Dude, If you keep thinking abt your past you will miss your future..so forget abt your mistakes.. human makes mistakes and a good person will always learn more.. Move On and try find some1 else.. Alot of girls are waiting to hear from guys "I LOVE YOU hun".. GOOD LUCK..
  11. sidhat
    i feel sorry for your abusive relationship.. Every1 deserve to live happy and life is too short... get your power back and MOVE ON.. Hate the sin and Love the sinner.. i dont think it worth it. GOOD LUCK...
  12. sidhat
    Dude, I am sorry to say that but your relationship is done.. and when girl says that its mean she decide way before saying that to you almost 3 to 4 months something going on behind.. anywayz.. if you want to save your self and feelings just forget abt and never call her and never ever become her friend..thats the worse thing a man can be with a girl who he love..I know its not easy to forget but Honestly its good for you and your life.. she changes her mind its not your fault .. manitain NC 100% with her..I am telling you she will come back.. bcoz girls need a man who r strong with their feelings and decisions..so just tell her that I respect your feelings and I will never come back to you.. Good Luck..thats it..and leave with smiles..Put a price tag on you man.. comon.. You r not worth the penny for a girl.. and The pain you have is the best Man can get in his life.. so enjoy your own life.. and look for some1 else.. Here is the steps.. 1/ Sit at the quite place and think what is the thing you r not serious abt your life..like Study, job, family, etc etc. 2/ Go gym and workout like crazy make yourself muscular. 3/ Put always a smile on your face..thats really important. 4/ Shaved yourself, stay clean, and buy good cloths and be in style.. this is not for her for other one who is waiting.. 5/ Write down the things you like and dislike abt her and always think positive and straight. 6/ friends are trhe most inportant people who will help you to come back. 7/ Dont talk abt your past relationship to any1 else. (Thats important). 8/ Take out your all emotions alone... yeil, punch something with doesnt hurt you hands..but never ever cry,, try to love yourself. Dude I know its not easy to forget but to become 90/10 .. you have to do that and you will.. BY the way the things and situation with you really normal .. happens to every1 in this world.. so take it as a good experience and again smile .. Be muscular and Hot dude.. Good luck ..
  13. sidhat
    I think She get bored from you..Give her little bit space and talk to her abt it.. You know the situation is really SUCKs buddy...
  14. sidhat
    I am in the phase of seperation abt 3 months,, and we separated bcoz my fiancee cheated on me abt 8 months and I caught her cheating on me by her cell phone detail bill talking with one of my cousin friend late nights long..and mean while she was also really cold with me and not showing intrest in relation like before.. and i was in really depress and emotionally hurted condition..before seperation on 14th FEB 2005 (Valentine day) i took her out for dinner and try to talk abt relation and working things better but she was really cold and tired .. and then i dropped her home when i get out from her room i left my car keys inside so I knock her door again and she opened the door I found her with her cell phone on her bed and my keys also soo i picked my car keys and I dont know why i checked her cell phone I found a number of my cousin friend on recent calls logs.. and she looks really scared and confused not looking in my eyes I was really hurted and I said is everythign OK.. and next morning i got her detail cell phone bill.. which had his number all the way including his home phone number..next morning she called me on my work and said I was talking to him bcoz he visited home today just asking is everything OK .. and blah blah.. i told her that I cannot tolerate that ..and then after 3 calls i confront her that I have her detail cell phone bill and u talk to him every night and day..and she iagreed on that and said I was only talking to her never meet him in person.. and Please forgive me and God will forgive me i wanna start all over again like before.. and now my family and her family decide to separate us for a year.. I dont know I can trust her again or not >??? I hurted badly and feel soo insulting.. Please give me advice for future >>>>>>??? Thanks.. for reading...
  15. sidhat
    That is called "MIND GAME".. so dont play it I am 100% sure you will get hurt badly... same situation with me and messed up with my life and still trying to come over those bad memories.. Now I regret... Be a real man.. and push her back unless she cried and begged you 10 times.. and 11th time will be still on you.. Good luck...
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    Women minds are really difficult to understand.. First you have to work on yourself.. think and write down the things you was not serious about and missing in your past relationship.. I know the divorse and seperation phase is not easy to handle.. Try to keep your mind away from it and make your self happy as much as u can .. do the things make you happy in your life and put a smile on your face and Work on yourself.. Dont show her and call her for come back.. Try your best to make urself BEST.. so far i know..In these situation Women like Strong and charming man and want to feel comfortable to talk back again.. The real man always gets pain... Dont worry and keep thiking positive thoughts., GOOD LUCK...
  17. sidhat
    Its depend on the situation that how much you both are in to each other. If you think he can commit and walk with you whole life then its OK.. but lust and love doesnt goes long.. so think all the ways before making any decision for your life.. otherwise LOVE HURTS BADLY..becareful. GOOD LUCK...
  18. sidhat
    everything is quite simple..He uses you to past the time and when he got ex or anybody back then leave you... dont become a his puppet .. just leave him and move on..dont make your self too easy to get back on him..let him chase you ..let him sacrifice .. let him learn how to treat girl..let him know that you are not that easy to come back.,.. LEAVE HIM..MOVE ON.. GOOD LUCK..
  19. sidhat
    Just remmember 2 things in life.. FORGIVE or FORGET... You need to choose one.. think and take a step... GOOD LUCK...
  20. sidhat
    Thanks for all with helpfull replies.... I am thinking to keep NC with her..Its really hard for me but What can i do.. Thanks again for everyone...
  21. sidhat
    You better take him on lunch ,,he might be hungry that time..lol,, Boyfriend usually do that when he feel like your body taste ... Its normal Dont worry abt it..
  22. sidhat
    After breaking up 4 years relationship with my fiancee, She wants to start all over again with me and she said just forget abt past, In which she did real mistakes like talking to a GUYs in weired manner, disrespecting me, selfish, ignorace, giving priority to her friends..which hurts my feelings really bad and at the last she said I dont have any feeling for you,, You cannot force me to love you.. you do pressure on me... I was felt really down.. now after 3 weeks NC she comes back,, but not admitting anything and always blaming on me all the things and said You better follow me in this relationship!!.. I said to her that I also need time to think abt it and I keep her on NC .. Am I doing right ?? or Should i go back to her eventhough she dont want to admit her mistakes ?? I dont know.. what to do.. but her attitude is really changed with me when she came back,, like polite and innocent type..before she was yeiling and putting me down all the time.. PLEASE I NEED REAL HELPFUL ADVICE just to over come on her and How she will understand the relationship rules??
  23. sidhat
    Go for NC.. Sex doesnt increase feelings.. its just a part of relationship.. just dont contact him for abt 3 weeks.. let him chase you.. and tell him that I dont wanna do sex stuff right now.. and then check how much he disprate for..only for SEX or to make you happy ever.. dont get involve in SEX right now.. its gonna be pain for your life.. take care GOOD LUCK...
  24. sidhat
    I think gym is the better idea for you.. Also do shopping and dressing up yourself.. I usually do dress up self when I am getting boring..
  25. sidhat
    I think its better not to leave a message bcoz you already did.. just leave a missed call on her caller id or cell phone.. If she dont call you back then her loss.. Just move on there is another waiting for you buddy...
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