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i started out bad...and one of ''those '' guys took my virginity ... and ive had it both ways.having sex with some guy ..and having sex with a guy you care about alot...its def alot more special and real if you are all about the person rather then it just being some fun game... alot of ppl think different and tell me im going to change my mind like i want to have that kind of ''fun'' with numerous people but i see it as something serious that can be made fun with someone your comfortable with ... i'd definatly make sure my first time was alot more special if i got the chance it seems you will do just that ...and its very honorable...and if you find someone that feels the same way and respects you then all the better

it seems like a shady website where you can post nudes of yourself and if you said theres a search for ppl in your area...that def sounds not cool of him ... and he doesn't sound like a great guy beings your afraid to bring something up because he will get angry... sometimes people get angry and make you feel like a bad person either bc they are violent or bc they are covering their own guilty concience... it would be one thing if he was just looking at porn ..but why would he need to search for ppl in the area ...

yes i think you have hit the nail on the head.... my mom cheated on my dad and left my family ..i just cant seem to get over that fact..and im better off when i dont hear from her...and another person who i feel left me down ..i see almost everyday at work...sometimes i dont care bc i know hes not who i thought he was... but other times i think of the past and miss him and how i felt so comfortable talking to him about anything and everything ...i miss having that ..i could call him anytime...until he started ''hanging out '' with some other girlsS and yes thats plural ... thanks for your input !

these past few months i have pushed so many people out of my life that just weren't worth having there. they didn't care at all about me but claimed to be friends, or had really bad habbits that i don't want to be a part of, and then there are the guys.... i had been seeing/getting to know a couple different guys i haven't had a boyfriend in over a year and a girl gets lonely and just wants to have someone hold her sometimes..but i meet the worst / no morals guys you can imagine and i am the exact opposite. so needless to say i got pretty fed up with people ..and started to close myself off from the world. excluding my family and a few good friends. i have so much pent in anger towards these people that have wronged me that i didn't want to be aroudn anyone ...and i got way too used to it. and finally at work the other day broke down and cried when a coworker said something to me and i misunderstood his meaning behind this.... also let me know your definition of the word ''groupie'' .... so the past two nights i made sure i went out with some people i haven't hung out with in awhile..the first person not a very good choice for someone in my situation ...she talks bad about everyone ...last night though was good ...i laughed so much got to hang out with someone who used to be my best friend who knows me ...and we both grew in good ways since our differences.... but do any of you have any other advise on how to get the anger out without flipping out on people or secluding yourself...the one person i work with mind you i definatly can't loose my job thanks for reading!

well , if its not really a big deal on your side...you're happy with your bf and have no feelings for the ex..then why not tell him , is he really jealous ? but honesty is the best policy def its just easier to tell the truth ....if everything is well with your current realationship there shouldnt be a problem right? just be like wow (exes name) told me today that he still loves me after 7 years...poor guys prolly lonely , ask your bf if he has any nice gal pals?

right on annie i just talked to one of my bestest buds who happens to be a guy so its nice so we can give opposite sex insight ...and i do that and act happy and thats when he bothers..but hes not even worth that ..imma go back to going on with my life and ignoring him....it all went bad when he called me from work ....and then said hed call me later...and i didnt answer when he called...then felt bad and tried to call back...

i know he is wrong for me ...but we had become such close friends and then he told me no matter what happens he wants to be friends....hes playing mind games....also hes been the one pursuing me ..i was just never certain of how i felt ..then i knew how i felt but figured things just wouldnt work out ..hes got a way different set of morals then i do and would end up breaking my heart in the end...im not willing to let another ahole do this to me...so basically its been a battle between my heart and my brain....and he was getting frustraited bc he couldnt tell what i was feeling...now i want to tell him and ''his phone falls in the toilet''

it takes time..theres nothing you can do about that really, you just have to occupy that time wisely fill it with good friends and family that care about you and do things that keep your mind off of that person... its hard but its a day by day thing and you can never loose sight of living your dreams ..how can one guy or girl prevent you from living a life that you want to live....keep your head up , stay busy and never give up hope , you will be very very happy again

aw ..i had a bad dream too! but yes there was a reason you broke up with him , and you must be much better off without him even though you think about the good times you's had and get upset and miss him. think of the bad times .....seriously ....you prolly just feel lonley and that you will never find anyone that you feel that way about again, i know the feeling...and also how is it fair that he has found someone and not you! ...that really gets to a person espeically if they were the one mostly at fault in a realationship....you just have to look at it like this ...you are lucky you had the experience with him..but now there is someone out there better for you ...waiting sucks , i know , but just go on with your life dont let that hold you back ...involve youself with friends and work get your mind off of him..and you just might meet someone really special ....good luck stay strong !

so there is this guy at work, and i know hes not right for me..but he is plaguing my mind . and everytime i want to talk about the situation i get blown off , but when i seem to be ignoring him which i have tried to do to get over the situation, thats when he bothers.....its driving me crazy i just want to have a talk and come to some kind of conclusion and just fill him in on where i stand bc i didnt exactly do that before , and i guess that was wrong and he deserves to know how i feel about him . but now hes being all evasive again , and im having bad dreams about it and i feel horrible and almost alone...i know i have friends that have my back ..but i considered him one of my good friends and i miss him..and something needs to be clairifyed . but he dropped his cellphone in a toilet ...and i dont want to wake up his roomates calling the house..im just at a loss right now and dont want to be a pain , but he needs to know how i feel ...how i have felt but that it wont work out ...and i need his support and understanding if he wants to remain good friends as he has stated.... any advise at all is welcome..thanks for reading my mess of thoughts

yea ..im in a similar situation..we dont need guys like that , they are no good. stay strong not talking to him..ignoring him no matter what he says is the best way to go i feel. they cant say you are being immature if you just ignore them and if anything tell them to leave you alone or that you dont want to talk....good luck take care

i talked to a friend...basically i let myself get attached to a guy that isnt compatible with me...and now im sad ..bc i have to start from scratch again...and im sick of being alone...and trying to lie to myself in thinking this guy is good for me... and as for my mom that will always be a touchy subject bc she only seems to be getting worse and calling less ... i dont know..thank to those who read my confusing novel though

they are fairly normal unfortunately ...more so once you are sexually active...its happened to me alot..and even if you take certain antibiotics you can get them...they have over the counter things you can buy if you dont want to see a dr..which maybe seeing the doc would be better the first time...but monostat i found worked for me its a gel capsule you insert that disolves and rids you of the infection while helping to control itching....they are like 10-20 dollars depending what you get...and they have different dossages stronger ones you only have to use a day or two ...but sometimes it doesnt give you enough rest down town..so your better off doing a three five or seven day thang...hope i was helpful and my run on sentences didnt confuse you..much luck take care

first off not bad taste in music....now on your post...depending on what exactly happened maybe you dont need to actually apoligize...just say hi one of those times , and that person wont feel like you have a grudge anymore and that all is forgotten ..sometimes we look back on things and wish they would have happened different ..prolly more than not ...but you have to take the way things are and make the best of them ...just saying hey how are you can be comfort enough to someone ....much of luck ..take care

yea...i mean follow your heart...think about the future how your lives will clash? if you love your boyfriend though , taking a chance of loosing something great over something that you werent sure of isnt a wise choice ...much luck ..take care