Hey Everyone
I was dating this girl for 2 years, and we were so much in love, she went on a trip to india back in december 04, for a month, and when she came back she was all changed, wasnt giving me the time or attention anymore, sayin shes to busy with school and work. Its now May, and we broke up 5 days ago. We got into this argument about a month ago n she started saying how she doesnt want a relationship anymore, doesnt love me, doesnt wanna be with me anymore, but i got her to give me 1 last chance. I then made a lil mistake, i broke a promise that we made early in our realtionship, and she caught me, she knew about it for a month, and didnt pull it out until our last argument which was a few days ago when we broke. I never cheated on her, the mistake was, i went on this chatting site that we both used to go on, but we both promised we wouldnt anymore, but because she wasnt giving me the time anymore, i went on it to just talk to people, no intentions of meeting or dating anyone. But she caught me, and started saying how im a fag n she hates me sooo much, and that she doesnt want a relationship anymore, doesnt want me, doesnt wanna be in a commitement, just wants to be breathe and be single forever, and doesnt want anything to do with me anymore. The past few months when the relationship was going down, i kept asking her to make time, she said she would, but she never did, just occasionally, like once every 2 months, i asked her if she would try n get us back to how we were in so much love, and she said honestly no im not gonna put in the effort. She said all we can be is friends, but if i try to get her back, shes gonna block my email and never talk to me again, and i know theres no other guy involved, because shes busy with school and work, she has no time, Everyones saying that the reason is not a good enough reason to break up after 2 years, that she was juss looking for a reason to end it, and that 'site' happened to be it. Im almost 100% that shes not comin back, but i got mixed feelings, parts tell me she is, other part tells me shes not, if anyone can help please tell me how do i get this girl back?
Kevin J
