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  1. trash mail
    your 'territory'??? she is not territory never will be. If she is interested in you, she will show it, otherwise she isnt. You got to get over the territory crap. You guys aren't even exclusive!
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    my theory is this, you ca have many 'friends'(acquaintances) or you can have a few good friends. I would choose a few good friends over many acquaintances. Good friends are hard to make, it takes time, effort and commitment none of which is possible if you have many acquaintances. Everyone has their own way in life and there is not a right or wrong. It is a personal choice. I say do what feels right to you, remember, it is not a black and white answer, it is somewhere in the grey area. As for relationships, my feeling is you can never be truly independent in a committed relationship, but you know that you are able to function independently.
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    From reading your previous post you come accross as quite a stubborn person. Somehow i get the impression that though you are 'joking' you might have been insulting his taste in the preferred eating place with smart remarks. Sometimes people just dont know or dont think you are insulting others with our opinions. Sometimes, we expect people to measure up to what we think is an 'ideal' way of solving a situation but in all reality, they don't have to and we aren't always right. It isnt that puzzling when we think back to what we said and how we judged.
  4. trash mail
    I am sorry for your situation. The impression i got out of you post is that you are whinnying.
  5. trash mail
    i think you should NOT stay, reason is because she isnt attracted to. You cannot be with someone you are not attracted to. It just doesnt work in a relationship. In the end she will cheat on you. SHe isnt interested in trying to build the relationship to a full and forfilling level. I'm sorry.
  6. trash mail
    the concept comes from a book called 123 magic. The technique is called time out and it works very well IF both parents implement it and stick to the technique. That means you mother should NOT try to bribe the child because it defeats the purpose and the punishment technique. Your bf technique is a modified technique which is up to him to change. I dont think it is a big deal.
  7. trash mail
    ok .. if asked.... "will you have sex with Elle MacPherson, Maria Grazia Cucinotta, Cindy Crawford, Elizabeth Hurley". I would say yes, i would gladly have sex with them, i wouldnt think i was cheating. You know why?? because i my head i would say, if i was single. You can take it anyway YOU want to. but if i was singe and had that opportunity. Yes i would. If she asked me whilst i was in a relationship. No i would. I suppose in the end of it, it was the way the question was asked and the way the question was answered.
  8. trash mail
    nothing to do with luck it is about the way to handle things. You only make yourself feel bad because of the way you handle situations. Maybe you can take a look at other approaches .
  9. trash mail
    you are a loser if you say you are a loser
  10. trash mail
    i personally think the direct ways are better. "do you have a boyfriend" or 'are you in a relationship?" It gets to the point and if she/he is interested they will say they are single.
  11. trash mail
    Time heals all wounds. Give it Time
  12. trash mail
    it just cracks me up that people are saying things about a ring on your finger, or that it is immature or statistically. All this has nothing to do with that. All you are asking is PERMISSION to do the right thing. You are definitely not a ignorant person or uneducated. You already know what you have to do. We are not here to give YOU permission as you already KNOW what the RIGHT answer is. If you cant figure this out, should you really go the med school? You will be faced with much harder situation then this. HINT: Your dream.
  13. trash mail
    For someone who claims they have changed and grown, to say they hate and have judgmental attitude just says that you have a long way to go. Read your post again and see if you think you are a prefect example of what you claim the world to be ......screwed. Take a look at your title, it just says alot about you. I dont think you should be preaching love and flower for yourself and criticizing the rest of the world because IT does not 'fit' into your Perfect version of the world, maybe the problem is you 'fitting' in to the world around you.
  14. trash mail
    my opinion is that your dog has bad habits re-enforced by your behavior. Your S.O actions is not appropriate towards your dog, but i recommend that you, your S.o and your dog go see a professional dog traiiner.
  15. trash mail
    it is really funny that because a dog is a victim there is a 10 page responce, when the victim is a human somtimes you dont even get 4
  16. trash mail
    i fear vampires.
  17. trash mail
    Just wondering if anyone else here has a fer of sleeping at night? I'm wy past my teen ages years.
  18. trash mail
    my question is this.... how many people here that is giving the advice has actually done a 3some??and is givng advice form experience or are they just speaking form hear say,
  19. trash mail
    Do we look for the prefect mate or do we make a commitment and make do? What should we do? Is there a perfect partner? or do we make them into the prefect partner? Should we commit to the one and stop the search for the prefect partner and accept that the one we have chosen may not be the prefect one. Why is it the people continue to search for the perfect partner even when they are attached? I was told by a friend, ' i deserve to be happy'
  20. trash mail
    Has anyone asked themselves whether they are "in love" OR they are in forced love? Forced love meaning that they arent sured that they are in love and thereforeeee they keep themselves in the relaionship to find out if they are in love. (a forced action)
  21. trash mail
    dont have the relationship. It is based on bad foundations
  22. trash mail
    Lets get this right, you broke up with him, you want to be back with him but you are short with him. you told him i am going to move on, (but he gets all defensive.) What are you doing? do you or dont you want to get back with him? You are bouncing all over the place so how is he going to trust what you are saying or doing? Of course he will get defensive, of course he will think you are hiding things from him. Just look at your actions. Are you really into getting back together and if you are stick with it. It is a risk that you will get hurt but just stick to the decision and stop bouncing around
  23. trash mail
    i realised that i was in control of myself and my situation. Things were only out of control because i let it go out of control. you can control you reaction and your emotions. As soon as i figured that out, things got better.
  24. trash mail
    erh, i have another idea. If he get up behind you again, reach behind you a grab his nut and squeeze... dont let go till he buckles. Then look him in the eyes and says, "i told you not to do that ever again didnt i?" 2 things can happen there, the guy you fancy will stand up for you and admire your guts for being able to handle yourself. OR the guy that you like will think you are NUTS!! and AVOID YOU! from my point of view yo win either way cos jeff will not be hanging round you anymore.
  25. trash mail
    my advice. Be a * * * * *. Tell him to {mod edit} off and if he touches you again you're going to kick him in the nuts and you mean it. You dont want to know him anymore. He'll get pissed, but if he isnt anything to you, you didnt lose anything.
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