Creamybutter

Thats the thing! a lot of people think its my responsibility to be KIND and stop being his friend. So im really confused.

i also think this has more to do with your relationship with your husband than your desire to be with a woman which you think will compensate that void. Try and fix the relationship..

thanks for your replies!

hello...so i have told him very clearly, and he said he wanted to stay friends as it would be sad to lose the connection we had...which i agree with. there is something very sincere and nice between us. Although i guess ive been trying to distance a bit just because i feel like it might be healthier for both of us.. He talks about other women but im not sure if its to get a reaction or generally being a friend and sharing stuff....i will never know really!

Thanks for the advice. Some replies are a bit rude, “stop being an a hole” really?? I thought this was a place where people could come and ask for advice - not get judged. If you think I’m making a mistake you can tell me in a better way? Anyways, thank you for taking the time.

Hi, I really need some help here. I’ve had a lot of struggle trying to find guys I connect with and recently I came across one who was a lot like me, we instantly connected (online) and could talk endlessly. We met in person and it all came crashing down as I was turned off by his appearance body language and hygiene. He’s also quite small framed and I feel huge and somewhere that makes me feel less feminine. (No offence to anyone- these are just my issues!) I also didn’t like being touched by him much- especially if there was more than a platonic feel to it. He put his hand on my thigh onc

Ok thank you all. it’s really unfortunate when you like someone as a person and are so compatible but feel no attraction or chemistry. Like I would not want to get close to them or kiss them but fine with hugs as friends. I didn’t like the way they smelled or looked and no natural desire to get close. I battled with this for a while and finally realised I had to end it. Is this very common? It’s just really sad coz I find it difficult to come across guys who I share a connection with :(

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Thanks batya, what about him asking if I can meet him for coffee or a movie?

I'm not hanging around him at all. I just go for these shows because I enjoy them. I don't even talk to anybody or him. He approaches me so I talk back. That's all.