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    Uncircumsized, I'm English and we don't do it as a matter of course over here. That said, I remember the last thread about this. Apparently what women prefer depends on the woman.
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    Or maybe he was really being himself. You can't ever really know.
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    I think that saying he would call was to let you know not to wait around. Depression is nebulous and what can take a day for someone can take a lifetime for someone else. How long has it been?
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    If you are a married man or women, is it okay to go to strip clubs? Depends on what the people in the relationship work out. and, would anyone ever marry a stripper? No, but I don't see myself marrying anybody. There's something about being a male stripper that kindof hilarious and not dignified in a away female stripers will never achieve. Would you allow your spouse to start stripping after you were already married. Would you let them if you yourself liked to frequent strip clubs? I can't make or let any one do anything. Marrying someone doesn't give you control over a persons actions, but I would express some concerns. If I liked to frequent strip clubs and told my partner they couldn't strip, I think that would be hippocritical really in a way.
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    Honestly, this sound like your mum trying to make you stay in. But yeah, traditionally dreams that a person dies don't mean that they'll die.
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    It sounds like something has set him off definitely, maybe someone he spoke to or something. That said, his behaviour was utterly and completely horrific and you are well off out of it. The severity of your reaction to it is probably caused by the severity of how he acted. Try to stay focussed on other things, give your phone to a friend to look after if you want to call him. Focus on yourself, make yourself do stuff, sort out for graduation, think about the way you want to go - NY is still there! That said, if this is a real side of him, you are well off out of it now, rather than when you've moved 5 hours away with him.
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    Because the woman opened a window in her own home and he "went ballistic" at her. I would not have someone living in my house who I thought was a threat to the other people there. And his Grandma is pretty old and he yells at her? If I was his dad and knew about that, I'd ask him to leave that house as well.
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    Then it could just be a fantasy he likes use to spice things up, but may never choose in real life. definitely speak with him though.
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    Plagiarism is looked down on in the UK. In fact it's a very serious offence. That said, people get together to study and swap ideas, but that doesn't mean taking someone elses work.
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    tell him you can have one but he has to have one with another man for you. Seriously, after ten years of monogamy and you not being into it (and I think it hurts you to think that he wants to have sex with another woman) that it could only end negatively. A threesome by it's dynamic destabilises an already established pairing and is the top of the list for fantasies that you should never do for someone. That said, if your dwelling on it, you need to speak to him about it, express your feelings on the subject and find out his as it just might be something he enjoys talking about.
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    Your bf needs councelling for anger issues and needs to stop seeing himself as a victim if he is to change. That's basically it. And to be honest, I don't think his parents did betray him, they did what they thought was best at the time. And I agree with his dads actions.
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    Because he has power over you and he likes it. The relationship between you isn't about love, and for him it probably never will be, but about the amount of control he has over you.
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    Is there anyway you can get to live on campus? That might help, university is as much about the social life as the academics.
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    That is so completely messed up. What he really means is that when you cry he knows that he has the power to do that to you. Get out. He will only get worse, he has no incentive to change and this is the way more serious abusive behaviour (such as hitting or worse) starts. By making you "abandon" your friends he has made sure you won't leave him. But if you talk to your friends about this, they will support you. This guy is exhibiting all the classic behaviours of the abuser. Next he will hit you. You sound like an absolutely amazing girlfriend, and you are very beautiful (if that's you in the picture). He doesn't deserve you and in a sick way he knows this and that's why he treats you this way. Unfortunately, there is no way to change his behaviours except intensive councelling and a desire to change. I don't think you should stick around to find out when that will be, if ever.
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    Could you dump that account and create a new one.
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    Dil, I know it doesn't help very much but pretty much everyone around you is feeling the same, misfits trying to fit in. Depression among uni students is very common, you're thrown head first into a completely new life. If you can, try to speak to the councelling services there. If you really hate the university so much, don't forget that you can transfer. Nothing is set in stone. Don't be afraid to say, this isn't for me. 4 years where you are not happy will drag. You don't try because that makes the failure acceptable, to try and then fail is infinitely worse than not trying and then failing. You don't want to be famous, you want recognition. Try to work at accepting yourself as enough. (And don't fret about the exam. I used to worry myself sick, and always passed.)
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    Boy, your cousin in law sounds like she has some mental problems she needs to address. Honestly, I'm a big one for honesty but if she is stressing your mom out so much it is probably the best thing to do. That said, I would tell your mom that she's rang, and pass the message on in a way that doesn't cause her to stress out.
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    I think Michelleth has hit it right on the head. And you had every right to respond the way you did. If a guy said that to me... whew! fireworks.
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    Wow. Just the speed with which you left shows that you were ready, don't let him undermine you! Think of it like breaking a heroin habit - your body is going through detox. Painful now but better for you that a habit that will kill you. Stay strong, we are all here for you.
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    He will not change, from what you describe he is actually escalating. First he was sorry, then he has not problem - you are the problem. He started off verbally abusing then physically threatening and now physically abusive. I am scared that he will use that knife for something other than threats. You can't make it work because as far as he is concerned, it is working. You are in his "power" and are taking all the responsibilty. Weight problem or not, he has no right to treat you like that. He has attached himself to your self-esteem and is using it to leach your strength from you. And you don't sound pathetic - you are in a difficult situation. Many women in abusive relationships go back because they have been programmed to believe that that is all they deserve. Don't be afraid to ask for help, there are people who love you who will support you 1000%. ETA - have just seen your age and you are not old at all. In fact all the best years of your life are ahead of you. Don't spend them in fear, pandering to a bully. You deserve to find someone who will love and cherish you just for being you. That person is out there.
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    I like to dominate. If I was in bed with someone who just went ahead and did what they wanted, I would treat it as an attempted rape and break some bones... My rule is, if you can't discuss sex with a partner, you shouldn't be having sex with them.
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    I agree on the mother as disciplinarian points. I think that the best thing you can do for the child is to be consistent. He's probably afraid that he's losing his mother to you, so do your best to show him that he's not losing anyone, just gaining someone else who will be there for him. When will you be able to settle permanently with your family? Keeping it secret sounds quite worrying to me...
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    I don't think a present is going to make up for making someone feel ugly. Sometimes, it's not about keeping secrets, it's about using discretion.
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    No, he is your ex. And unless he flat out asks for your help, you're just interfering. And going to his mother would, in a way, be passive aggressive.
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    If the angles are right. It needs deeper penetration, like woman on top and can be fairly intense - feeling good or bad depending on the womans tolerance.
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