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Silly bob! It sounds like she likes ya! well, it's been a while, you never know if she's found someone new yet.... I think the next time you see her, ask her to do something with you over the weekend. Like, go to a festival, go to the new restaurant in town, or whatever.... good luck!
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Ok, well, I wouldn't ask her for the play-by-play, or for the precise number of guys she's had, but why don't you ask her in general terms if she's had oral sex, or had intercourse. The less detail you know, the better. Honestly, the girl's past is a bigger deal to most guys than it is to the women themselves. For the most of us, we're a lot more focused on the men we're currently with than anything that happened in the past. Don't try to compare yourself to her previous men (if there are any). The fact is, she's with YOU, not with them for a reason!!!
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Yes, like DroptoZero said, how far away do these girls you've met in person, and have told you that, live? Well, I think distance is a perfectly reasonable reason not to pursue a relationship, unless the distance is like, 10 or 20 miles.
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Ulk.... well, if that's what's happening, people are saying, "she's over there! go talk to her!" It seems like he may be interested, but there's clearly something holding him back. That something may be your recent divorce, or maybe he is seeing someone LD, or maybe he likes you, but not enough. I don't know about you. I think the filtration thing like that is fun for a while, but there comes a point where I just get bored and move on.
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Well, if he's a good distraction for the meantime, then have fun with it. I thought that hamster brought up a good point. If you were totally single for a while, and you met a man that just got divorced last week, you may be a little wary to start something up as the other person may not be in the best emotional shape. (Not saying that you're in bad emotional shape, just the bartender doesn't necessarily know that....) Like Hamster said, no one wants to be the rebound person. Or, like muneca said, maybe he's not all that interested. Or you just ran away too quickly. Well, enjoy the flirtation!
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Ok - time to go to a sex therapist.
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Hire a pet sitter. When I was going to be out of town for a week, I found a very sweet lady who comes to the apartment for about 45-60 minutes a day, changes the litter, plays with the pets, feeds them, cleans up any messes. This was for $14 a session. Now, with so many animals, it may cost a bit extra. I think it would be a good plan. They also come with references, and there is a national organization like Pet Sitters of America, something like that (if you are in the US).
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hmmm.... have you two thought about going away for a weekend, at a very romantic bed and breakfast place in the country or something? Maybe something to respark the romance?
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How does she like oral?
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Ditto to every word hope said!
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Hi - Welcome to eNotalone. Wow - well, this is not an unheard of problem. I personally wouldn't get your penis shortened. That sounds like it could be painful, and who knows if your plumbing would keep working right. I think you both need to talk to your doctors. For her, she can talk to her doctor to get her on a birthcontrol that is more compatible with her body. I know it may not be as convient as Depo, but if the birth control is killing her sex drive, then it seems to defeat the purpose, right? Also, what has her doctor said about her cervix. Has she gotten it checked out to make sure that everything is alright? She may be having a medical problem. For the two of you, you should read some books on sexual positions, there may be other positions you two can try that may help. Another suggestion is that when you are on top, she can keep her legs together, which will keep you from going in all the way, but may still be pleasurable for you both. Do you guys use lube? If not, start ASAP! Good luck - I hope you two can work this out.
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erm... this sounds very high school to me. Either you go and talk to him, or forget about him!
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Tell him you don't want him coming to your workplace anymore. Talk to your supervisor about this. If he is being a nuisance, he is detracting from your job. Perhaps your supervisor can tell him to stay away. Anyone can be refused service.
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Yes, like raykay said, I really hope this isn't the nutcase from before. Romantic sweetheart, I'm sure that you are a kind, gentle, caring person. You're screenname says it all. This man is a nutcase. If you told him that the sky was blue, he would argue with you and call you crazy. You don't need this crap! You can't change him, isn't he much older than you anyways? People don't change. And it's not your responsibility to convince him that you are a good person. Do NOT let this man affect your work!!! This is your livelihood!!! No matter who you are or how nice you are and you are in a room with 10 people, at least 1 will not like you, for whatever reason. That is just human nature. Don't fixate yourself on trying to get this one person to change their mind, focus on the other 9 people who think you're great. Please please please leave this man. Shut him out of your life!
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There a few things you can do. One is to ask them to do stuff. You suggest seeing a movie or playing some basketball or whatever. Now would be a good time also to join a sports team or something. Make new friends! If there are any teens in your neighborhood, get to know them. Consider joining a church youth group. They tend to do stuff like go camping and have BBQs that seem like they could be a lot of fun. Good luck!
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Hey! That's great!!! Love should be easy and nice. It's shouldn't be all that drama that you see with all the couples around you. 7 months... yes, that is still early, but you two are doing very well! I'm sure that you'll hit some snags along the way, but how you two deal with the problems will either strengthen or weaken your relationship. Seriously, what is a relationship if not spending time with a person you think is cool and having a good time together and sharing your feelings, and all that other good stuff. Yes, you are right, it is very rare, so enjoy it and cherish your relationship! Take care!
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who said this quote? "Diplomacy is the art of telling someone to go to hell and having them look forward to the trip."
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well, if you feel that someone's mistreating you, just walk away and say goodbye forever, if you're really at your wit's end with them. A whole group of people..... I'm glad you're in counseling to work this out. What about your actions? What did you do that contributed to how they treated you? It is often said that we teach others how to treat us. How did you teach people to treat you?
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Ok - well, you got it out of your system. I've written a similar e-mail...well...not quite that harsh, but I was pretty angry at the way I was being treated, and I know she was angry at me about something else. No, I never got a response back from her, but that is fine, because I didn't want anything else to do with her anymore. I mean, yeah, she's not a kid, adults don't like being told to do this or that. I take it you don't want to be friends with her anymore, right? Sending something like this pretty much gaurantees you'll never hear from them again.
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please, i really need help. i love my ex more than anything
annie24 replied to gradle's topic in Getting Back Together
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I don't think it's about what you do, it's all about the chemistry and attraction between the two people.
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Which exam? What about a part-time job, a few hours a day?
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Well... don't practice too much, as then you'll sound over-rehearsed, and more like you're reading stuff off a piece of paper. Show geniune interest in the job and tell them why you'd be a great match for them!
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There's a good book, "Never be lied to again" by David Lieberman. I think you should check it out. As for the phone calls... obviously, yes, he's hiding something. I don't know if it's gone to a full-blown affair, but this woman clearly has designs on your man. Here is an excerpt from the book. The paragraph is how to approach a spouse you suspect may be cheating on you: Just an idea. Good luck!
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Hey - I'm sorry - this sounds rough. First of all, I wouldn't trust these "valid sources." People make up a lot of stories for their own personal reasons. I think that 2 years invested in a relationship gives you the right to ask where things are going. You know, it's not like he has to marry you anytime soon, but I think it would be wise to ask something along the lines of, "so, do you see me in your future?" or something like that. You'd have to work on the wording. If he doesn't see you as "the one" that means he doesn't want to marry you. i wouldn't spend any time trying to convince him otherwise, because if you've been together for 2 years, and he still hasn't figured out you're the love of his life, then it's best to cut your losses. Did he say this to you or your friend? eeekk! I think before, he came back to you once he started to miss you. I think you may want to start distancing yourself from him in light of this statement, if this is what he said to you. I think a man who's truly in love wouldn't do or say something like this.... Good luck! I hope things work out for you!