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Well - fine, send her a series of checks. Stop making excuses for the stuff. You are using it as a way to contact her. Why are you asking if she wants her stuff back? It's her stuff, she paid for it, yes she wants it back. How badly... I dunno. Well - you owe her so much money, she's not a bank, consider the mailing fees you pay as part of the "interest" on the loan she gave you.
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Ditto to all that punchy said. Next, erm... how long have you two been together? Is he really playing videogames on weekends, or is he potentially with someone else? Just a thought. You either have a cheater, or a video-game addict, which is fine if the man you are dating is 18, but if he's like in his late 30s.... he should... uh.... get a life. Why don't you two spend part of the weekend together?
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Well - you know that I've already told you this, but this new development is all the more reason to forget she even existed. Put the check in the mail, and put all her stuff in one box, and mail it to her also. End of story.
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Woman not actually Pregnant
annie24 replied to summer_in_greece's topic in Health: Body, Mind and Spirit
hehehe - Yup! Big mistake! hehehehehe... funny though. It's classic. You're not the first one to do something like this and you won't be the last. I guess you have learned never to ask that question again!!! hmm... maybe this will inspire her to hit the gym.... -
I am really scared! I need to tell this to someone.
annie24 replied to a beautiful disaster's topic in Abuse and Violence
Yes, like sonjam said, this is all an act. He is trying to make you feel guilty, and he is succeeding. Don't let him! Like he said, "***** is back on the menu." He's trying to hurt you, every which way he can think to do so. Stay strong! -
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Do you feel loved? Does he do nice things for you - not necessarily flowers and chocolates, but does he help you do things around the house? Is he there for you? Does he tell you he loves you?
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Internet! link removed is a good start. I know people who have had great luck with link removed also. Why not develop a passion for NASCAR? If you want to meet tons of eligible men, all in one area, that's where they are! Post a pretty photo online, write a few things about yourself, and off you go! You'll have more dates than you'll know what to do with. Good luck!
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Hi Danimal - She sounds like a really sad, mixed up person. She broke up with you, and instead is with her lying, abusive ex. It sounds like she doesn't have her head on straight. I would leave her alone. I'm glad you're starting to hate her, as well you should. She's put you through the wringer emotionally, and a few other guys it sounds like too. It's good that you started getting your life together, even if it was because of her. I would channel the anger you feel at the gym, or into your new job search. There's no point in "paying her back." The best payback is for you to get another job, live a fabulous life, and get a new, improved gf. She'll feel stupid when she runs into you on the street. Good luck
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Yes - he can give you a disease if he's doing oral on you, but the chances are slim. It's more likely that the "receiver" would get something from the "giver." For example, some people have the bacteria that causes gonorrhoeae in their throats. So, if he has it (which is quite possible considering he is using the internet for sex), then yes, he can give it to you. I'm just saying, if you want to go through with this, do it, but take precautions.
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I've never known of that to happen. How often do you hear of a man and a woman having sex and the condom falls off inside her? Actually - I've never even heard of a condom falling off during anal sex either. Yes, in that highly unlikely event, sure I don't think that "pooping" it out would be a problem. Or, you can always go to a doctor to get it removed. It's ultimately less embarrasing to have a condom stuck inside you than to have anal herpes. But, like I said - I have never once heard of a condom being stuck inside - anyone!
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advice please, im so confused as to what to do
annie24 replied to Jerseygirl's topic in Getting Back Together
Well, I don't know what you are looking for. I'm sure that you've heard a million times over that you should forget about him. You said that in your post. You can only use NC to heal yourself. You can't use it to manipulate his feelings towards you. You can only control your own feelings, not his. I see nothing wrong with telling him, "I can't do this anymore - this back and forth - either commit to me, or don't talk to me anymore." The ultimatum. There's no magic spell or whatever that will make him commit to you. So, you can either take people's advice and forget about him, you can do the ultimatum (but chances are he will give you the same old "I can't commit" crap), or, you can keep on in this limbo, driving yourself crazy, and wasting your time. -
advice please, im so confused as to what to do
annie24 replied to Jerseygirl's topic in Getting Back Together
Hey - welcome back. I haven't heard from you in a while. You two have been doing this "back and forth" thing for a while now. I dunno - I think you just hit this point where it's too much - you just get sick of this game, the "I care about you, but I'm not ready to have a gf right now." After a while, you just get bored of having less than a bf who is committed to you, and you get tired of him saying he's going to come over, but instead passes out with his frat brothers. One day, you're just going to wake up, realize that you're disgusted by him, and you'll walk away and never look back. So, I dunno - you tell me, how much more of this can you take? -
Don't be so hard on yourself. If she spent all that time with you, she must have liked you on some level, at least as a friend...
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Well - I think you're a lot better off wearing a condom during anal sex than no condom at all.
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I'm a microbiologist, so I feel qualified to speak on this. There's a long way to go before diseases hit the stomach. You can get plenty of diseases in your mouth and throat - that's where many like to set up shop. Yes, including HIV, but plenty of other fun ones too, like gonorrhoeae. Condoms will protect in anal sex, but you need LOTS of LUBE!!! Water based, not petroleum. Read the directions. Use KY jelly or astroglide. If stomach acid killed all bacteria and viruses, then why would people ever get food sickness??? You have to think of it like that. PLENTY of bacteria can survive and thrive in the stomach.
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Yup - her behavior is shady. Time to have a talk, but DN may have an even better suggestion, and that's to tell her the jig is up.
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Sofa! Ok - go get it. I like S2S's idea of a strongly worded letter from a lawyer. You'd be surprised how quickly he'll find time for you to come over and pick up your things. Good luck!!! I hope you get your stuff back!!!
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Yes, you will definitely find a man, or he will find you like Ilse said! You are a catch! Chin up!
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I'm sorry that you saw what I said as harsh, but I am simply saying, if you are not in an official relationship with someone, you can't rationally expect them to not interact with the other sex. Why didn't you ask her to be your official gf? There is no problem. Everyone is a legal adult. When I was 18, I dated a 24 year old man. Well, since you are a "traditional" type of man, now you know that this isn't the right girl for you, so you should find a girl who is right for you.
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link removed It's a website that anonymously lets someone know that they may have been exposed to an STD. I'm sorry about this scumbag you met. I hope you don't have another outbreak.
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Hi - So, what is your question? If you want the encounter, go for it. Just remember that anonymous sex is risky sex. He may not be who he says he is. Or, he may have diseases. He may just want to rob you, or beat you up. Less than sexy things, yes, I know. Well - try to protect yourself the best you can, and bring condoms. Good luck.
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So, a girl that you weren't official with went out and hung out with a lot of guys. And suddenly she's not the perfect woman anymore? How can any girl live up to impossibly high standards such as those. Sure, if you two were an official couple, and she spent all this time with other men, that would be a sign that she wouldn't be good gf material. And plus, you said that things weren't even sexual between her and the other men. So what's the big deal? Her behavior, from what you've described, does not make her a woman of ill-repute. I agree with Darkblue - I think you should talk to a counselor, to try to figure out why you feel this way.
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Weightwatchers. I did it, and it's great - the weight stays off and they teach you healthy eating habits and how to identify the triggers that make you overeat. That plus weight-lifting at the gym - you'll have that rock-hard body in no time! Talk to a personal trainer and work out a fitness plan that's right for you. Good luck! link removed
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please, i really need help. i love my ex more than anything
annie24 replied to gradle's topic in Getting Back Together
Gradle - isn't it funny? This new guy wants to take you to dinner and wants to help you install your A/C. All the while, you couldn't care less about him. You don't want to be in a relationship with him. You are pleasantly indifferent towards him. He knows that he can't have you, he doesn't feel like you're emotionally attached to him and you are driving him wild. He is working hard to win you over. Meanwhile - you are crazy for J, he knows it, but doesn't care. What you have to do is reverse things. Chase after the new guy and give J the cold shoulder - be completely indifferent towards him.