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  1. Hi, here it is: my boyfriend masturbates every day in front of porn when I am right next to him, for some reason it deeply hurts me. I am cool with the fact that he masturbate or watch porn on his own time. But when I am around it hurts. When he start to watch porn and masturbate I sometimes try to participate or have sex with him. But he imediately turns the screen of his computer away so that the content of what he is watching is out of my sight and asks me to turn around. What hurts the most is that he chooses porn over having sex with me ( I am a 25 yo attractive girl). I talked to him about it. He said that I was not open minded enough. That sometimes he just wants to masturbate, that masturbation and sex are two different thing that you cannot compare. That by masturbating and watching porn next to me he was just trying to be himself and that I should not try to change him. What should I do?
  2. I posted a few weeks ago about a 23 year old male who was pursuing me, begging for sexy photos, even masterbating on FaceTime in front of me. I haven’t been dating for a while so just wanted to know if this was normal. So last night I went out to bar and met a nice lawyer. He had a table with bottle service and was fun but professional. At the end of the evening and today he has bombarded me with requests for sexy photos. SO OK, the 23 year old restaurant employee is young and virile, but the 2nd guy is at least 10 to 15 years older and is a professional. I do not get what is behind asking women for sexy photos??? Is this the new norm? Really? People have been able to take photos on phones for ages and I don’t recall being inundated with sexy photo requests. Can someone please explain? Seem the order is : Meet girl, get number, get sexy photo.....not sure what happens after that. Is it a test of sorts?
  3. Me and my g/f have been dating for a couple of months now and at this point we both like to masterbate each other but to the lowest extent, she doesnt feel like getting naked to do it yet, so i usually just stimulate her through her clothes. Although i feel like i could do a better job in getting her excited, and practically finding the right spots to do this, her upper half is pretty easy to discover its just the vagina i would like to get some advice on the best spots to hit through the clothing, if anyone has any techniques they'd like to share please tell me, thanx in advance.
  4. I think Im sex obessed, yet Im a virgin! I feel like im always um... 'turned on'. I always think about having sex and there have been times where I have watched porn!! Im so embrassed, I havent told anyone becuase everyone thinks Im a sweet innocent 20yr old girl. I masterbate nearly everyday, yet Im still horney... any ideas on what I can do? I want to have sex with my boyfriend but Im not comfortable being naked nor am I ready to go on the pill. Im a medical student and I know that the pill isnt good for a woman, its way too early for me to go on it, I rather wait til I get married than go on it so im not on it for too long before deciding to have children.
  5. I have not had sex in 2 months since my long term relationship ended. I have not had GOOD sex in about 7 months because my ex was very "shy" in bed near the end. I feel somewhat ashamed about not having sex. I don't want to waste my youthful vitality on nothing better then masterbating to porn. But my problem is I have these morals that make me feel guilty and dirty when I have sex with a girl I am not in a steady relationship with. And i don't want a steady relationship right now because i am trying to find myself and learn to be single. So how do i solve my sexual frustrations? Should i just try to forget about my morals and try to pick a girl up this weekend? Or do i just suffer with not getting any action for a long time until I am ready for a relationship? Anyone know what i mean?
  6. I feel like crying...Please help. I have ben dating this girl for 3 motnhs now...we started having sex after about a month. Sex was fine, great, no problem. Well the past month I have had an extremely hard time getting an erection. I could be with my girl and I cant even get it up, even with m eplaying with myself, it is very difficult....I may get a little hard, but then all of a sudden it goes down. I don't get it, it is embarrassing and it really depresses me. What is wrong with me? I went to my Doc and he said I am fine, that it is just mental and that it is fear. Thats what I pretty much suspect. I find myself thinking about this ALL of the time, I play with myself throughout the nite when she is around (shes not aware I do this) with the hopes of getting somewhat hard if we are about to do it. I don't masterbate frequently, probably every toher day if that. I guess I need to know whgat can I possibly do to stop this. I want to get hard again...I feel like crap about this and my confidence is really low (and I know for a fact I am great in bed and always please the girl) except for now! Someone please give me some tips on how I can maintain an erection or even get one. Beofre anyone says "have her masterbate for you or this and that..." It is pointless....I have tried to jerk off whil eshe is naked and no go...it just won't get up. Someone please help me before I lose ALL my confidence!
  7. I have been reading several posts from this site, and I have come to relize that I am one of many many women who take issue with porn. Well at least I do now. I have been with my b/f for almost 2 years now, and like all relationships we have our ups and downs, but porn seems to be one of the biggest issues between us. First let me say I am in no way someone who rejects porn, I enjoy watching it and find it very stimulating, I even watch it with my b/f every now and then. I dont really have a problem even with him watching porn actually. I even pay for a monthly online porn subscription for him to use whenever he wants. My problem comes from him using porn more and more often..and when I ask for some kind of interaction with him he seems disinterested. We have a long distance relationship, and I only see him 2-3 days a week so we found other ways to have sex when we couldnt physically be together...mainly phone sex. Everything was really good with the set up at first, we had phone sex several times a week and so after awhile I wanted to give him some visual stimulation...so I made my own porn of myself masterbating for him..and he was extremely excited. Then about a year after that I thought that I would also pay for him to have porn to use at his leisure online. I thought things were going fine with that setup, I mean we both enjoyed porn and he had more to look at other than just what I had made for him. Up until a couple months ago, then I found out that he was using the internet porn more and more and using my "porn" less and less...and along with the internet porn he was masterbating more than before. Its now to the point that when I ask about phone sex, he comes up with excuses. Even when we do have it, I can ask him what he is doing and he goes off on me, making me feel like I am not worth masterbating too. At least you would think he would use my videos when we are talking..but no, he will watch hardcore internet porn or even late night Cinemax softcore first. How can I make him understand how much it hurts me to know that he finds internet porn more interesting than what I made for him, or even me for that matter. Am I wrong for feeling angry, hurt, frustrated over this. I have tried to tell him how I feel but it continually ends in a huge fight and nothing is being resolved. I feel like I cant get through to him, and its tearing me apart. He continually tells me that my ideas on the subject are to say the least over reacting, which just makes me even more mad..I am completely wore out about this fight, and its getting to where I dont want to share parts of my life with him because of his unwillingness to listen to me. Any advice that you can give me would be so wonderful. Please tell me if I am wrong or if I need to do something more to make it work with him...HELP!!!
  8. hi my name is jordan and i masterbate at least 10 times a day is this bad? and what else can i do besides p0rn and sex to fuel my sexual energy, and u edit: I can't get any sperm to come out when i masterbate how do i do that? someone plz answer thx 4 ur help in advance jordan
  9. Has neother girls had the feeling after they masterbate and have the most amazing orgasm that they have the feeling like they gotta pee and if they try to pee they cant? is that me or does it happen to other ppl to?
  10. masterbation is seen as a way of life. some people do it close to 5 times a day. now we all know how to enhance that by using some household items or crafting fake vaginas etc. we all know lube and even spit and slicken the shaft and make the head more sensative. i would like to know what other people use to help their masterbation experience besides the normal(lube,spit,etc.) any post will be helpfull
  11. hey everyone! I was just talking about this with my bf earlier this week, and I got wondering.... 1- At what age do most ppl start masterbating? 2- How old were you when you got ur 1st orgasm? I hope this isnt asking to know too much... I guess I'll answer 1st.... I 1st masterbated when I was about 14 and had my 1st orgasm at 15.....
  12. Alright I new to the relationship thing but when I am talking on the phone with my girl she usually masterbates to our confersation because it turns her on. She said she is going to be on her period soon but my question is do girls still masterbate on their periods or not if not why? I dont understand it and afraid to ask her why.
  13. Hey! in the past 2 weeks, me and my bf had only had sex once until yesterday, so I had 'gotten used' to playing with myself. We had sex twice since yesterday, and well....I don't know why, but sex didn't seem to feel as good as when I was playing with myself( this is the 1st time that sex doesn't feel better, usually it's wonderful....). I am confused! I couldn't even orgasm, which I usually do with no problem.( I obviously haven't said anything to my bf about this, I'm pretty sure ot's not something that he would like to hear...lol) Anyone know what is going on here? Any advice?
  14. i feel terrible. i was seeing this guy for about 8 months...and he gave me HSV (herpes simplex virus) around the 8th month we were together. he had an outbreak and was shedding the virus and was contagious (after telling me it was only chapped lips when i asked if it was anything more important). we werent official but we were dating and sexually active together. there were definite feelings and everyone knew we were seeing eachother. i never gave him any cold feelings even after ME having a HORENDOUS LONG LASTING OUTBREAK below the waist, i still conforted HIM (because he said he didnt know he had the virus), i never treated him any differently, i was so UNBELIEVABLY forgiving and understanding IT EVEN SHOCKED HIM AT HOW SINCERE AND SYMPATHETIC I WAS ABOUT IT!.... BUT i was extremely mentally stressed over contrating the STD. i couldnt even masterbate b/c i was utterly discusted with myself. i havent been able to see him, or anyone sexually either during this time b/c tho i forgave him i still couldnt think of sex anymore. i was mentally distraught and sexually destroyed. i used to have such a high sex drive and now it is damn near gone. i couldnt masterbate for about 2-3 months! i have now begun to grow again and re-create myself into the old me...and finally tonight i go to see him. excited and anxious to be with him again, b/c i have finally found myself to be a sexual being again and gotten over a lot of the mental trauma.......just to find out....hes been seeing someone else this entire 2 months ive been mentally recovering. he didnt tell me until i asked him. I WAS WITH THIS GIRL AT THE BAR TONIGHT!!! i like her shes cool, but im so stressed up over this. i feel so used. i felt so dirty for so long, finally recovering ready to start my life again from where i left off, and see where possibly i can go with this guy, and now i feel tossed aside. used, abused, and i feel so shafted. what pisses me off too, he didnt even tell this girl he has herpes. he caused so much trauma to me mentally and physically i may never be 100% me again from contracting this virus from him, and here he is being sexual with a new girl and he hasnt even told her about him having it and that he had given it to me. IM SO MAD, UPSET, AND HISTERICALLY CRYING SINCE I FLIPPED OUT ON HIM OUTSIDE ABOUT A HALF HOUR AGO!! GOD I HATE HIM!! I WANT TO MOVE AWAY! I WANT TO GET AWAY FROM HIM AND ALL THE BS HERE!!! IM SO SICK OF BEING SCREWED OVER IN LIFE BY THE PEOPLE I FALL FOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SOMEONE SHOOT ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE! ~soulfulgirl
  15. Okay, this is really weird, and I was wondering if this was normal... I had the best orgasm a week ago, in the weirdest position. It was a tenminute orgasm, but I was upside down! I was hanging halfway off my bed and I had a 10 m.o.! Is it normal to have to have a diff position every time you masterbate to reach a quick O? another thing... Is it strange to have a weird smell the day after masterbation? It's like this weird musty smell. Not like urine or anything, more like morning-breath, except it is not as sharp... Well... I don't know how to explain it.... Any one else know what this is? It couldn't be an infection, bcuz it is clear and like it is supposed to be.... Any help appreciated. Mythica
  16. Ok, you know how girls can cum once in a while, just not the same as guys do? well If you do then does that mean you had an orgasm? also, when is does it become bad to masterbate, as in how often is too often for a girl, Im embarrassed like a lot for asking but me and my friend are both wondering and we don't wanna ask someone we know like a parent or something cause that would be like the end of the world . well thanks. Qtpie87
  17. I am a virgin. My outlook is that masterbation is a better alternative to sex. I have pledged abstinence, so I don't plan to have sex anytime soon, so I masterbate. But I am a little concerned. It used to take me almost thirty minutes, but now it takes less than three minutes! Is this normal?
  18. okay well i met this girl about a week ago and we really hit it off which is great!......and well i am still a virgin and have not really done alot of "Stuff" per say but last night we were fooling around for a couple hours and well lets just say i was very hard for most if not all of that time.......then it got to the point were i was getting a blow job / head and OMG it felt amazing! i had never felt anything like that before even when masterbating.......but nothing, i could not have an orgasm and eventualy it just went soft this was after a GOOOD while of trying and it being hard alllll night......most times when i masterbate it comes out pretty quickly but last night it did not come out at all and i dont know why..........and now i feel really because the head felt amazing and hell i still feel it all tingly and down my legs........and i dont want her to feel bad like she did something wrong or i did not like it because she did a GREAT job! any suggestions or comments would be great!
  19. Hi, two nights ago my b/f and i had sex and it was excellent. He wanted me to cum on his penis while he was inside of me and I was trying to but I couldn't. Unless I did and didn't know which I find is hard to do. Me not being stimulated enough was not the problem because I felt the pressure building up as though I was going to explode but I just couldn't cum. My question or issue is: Is it possible for me to have cum and we both not know and why is it that when I masterbate I know that I came because of the way I feel and stuff. Im so confused on all of this. Can any one please help me? Thanks in advance.
  20. hey theres somthing really stressing my at the moment, during sex i somtimes have problems keeping my erection up im 18 and i ve FINALLY met a girl who loves me back, during foreplay i have no problem what so ever. but sometimes it is like i have no sex drive at all. i masterbate usally daily could this be it? im not going to anymore see if it helps but its really stressful im only 18! and when i do get a sex drive i have no problems at all i can last as long as i wont. its really strange. any advice? thanks.
  21. kaka


    Hi i am new to the forum and My questions are: 1> Will you reduce your weight by doing masterbation and each time you have an ejaculation? 2> Is it normal for a 23 years old male to be virgin?? Is it weird?? Can someone answer these quesions fast plz
  22. I thought it would be interesting to share some of the responses to the first survey. What is your age? Response Percent Response Total Younger than 12 4.9% 9 12 6% 11 13 14.1% 26 14 25% 46 15 18.5% 34 16 13% 24 17 4.3% 8 18 4.3% 8 19 3.3% 6 20 1.6% 3 21 0% 0 Older than 21 4.9% 9 Total Respondents 184 Question: Please express in your own words the reasons why masturbating is or has been embarrassing to you? Why has it been difficult to talk about masturbation with female friends? And how, if ever, you overcame this embarrassment? Please express in your own words the reason why masturbating should or should not be embarrassing for young females? Answers: 1. I've only had one experience with it being embarrassing, and that was when I told a friend about it and they made fun of me. 2. People say it's 'gross', etc. And female friends think you're weird if you talk about it, I guess? I just started thinking that it's normal, so why be embarrassed. You shouldn't be embarrassed, it's natural. 3. Masturbating isnt embarrassing to me. 4. Masturbation is something that my friends find gross, and that we shouldn't do it. If they are lying or not, I don't know, but it isn't something we can comfortably talk about. 5. I only felt embarrassed the around the first time i did it because I didn't really understand it but now i don't care. Masturbating is healthy and a good way of discovering yourself in a very personal way. If anybody asks me about masturbation this is what i reply with when someone either jokes around about it or if someone who is embarrassed and uneducated asks me. 6. I think it is a double standard that it is so accepted for guys to masterbate, it is even in common conversation as jokes and such, but when a female brings it up it is just weird. I guess it kinda goes along with the sl*t issue, people think girls that are very sexual are sl*ts, and masterbation is a sexual thing that you do. I think its harder to talk about it with female friends because they seem a little more judgemental about those types of things. I actually did tell one of my closest females friends all about my sexual escapades without mentioning masterbation, shes told me her stories too, but not mention of masterbation. She even gave me tips about what to do when fingered by a guy though. The one person that Ive admitted it too is one of my closest guy friends, we just got onto the topic and I told him about it, hes really cool with stuff like that though, so I dont regret telling him. 7. My family rarely talks...ecspecially about this kind of stuff... 8. It has not been embarrassing at all to me. I'm fine talking about it to males or females. 9. Masturbation is probably thought of as an embarrassment because frankly,it's a private thing. It's the same thing when talking about growning breasts, getting one's period, or even doing poorly on a Math test. One doesn't wish to release information that can be used against them for teasing purposes. 10. I think basically male masturbation is more "accepted" in the society than female masturbation. Thats because its still a man´s world. Female´s are still just there to pleasure the men (in some men´s eyes) and we´re not allowed to enjoy sex. Its really sad. Also I think its easier for men to masturbate, because there´s also more media on that, where everybody knows what male masturbation is - not everybody knows how females actually masturbate. And everytime you dont know something about a subject, you reject it. Thats just huma 11. It's not embarrassing, and it shouldn't be. If men aren't embarrassed about it, then why should women be? 12. Masturbation used to be an embarrassing topic for me because all the other girls I knew thought it was "gross". It's been difficult talking with female friends about it because most girls deny the fact that they masturbate and instead say it's "gross" or "disgusting". I overcame this embarrassment by realizing that almost everyone does it, because it's a part of life. And although many girls say they don't do it and think it's "gross", they do it too. I think masturbation should not be embarrassing for young females because it's a part of life and growing up. Everyone experiments with different things, so why shouldn't females too? 13. It's only embarrassing to me if we talk about it together, and i mean offline friends. I can talk to online friend about anything but with offline friends, they find masturbation gross and all. I just go along with it and I don't care. I dont think masturbating is bad. It shouldn't be embarrassing because we all do it. although a lot of us are afraid to admit it (I dont understand why though) 14. Because they all start giggling and acting immature. They avoid the subject or lie about not doing it. It shouldn't be embarrassing for young females because it's only natural, and since when are we supposed to be embarrassed about that? Besides, guys brag about it all the time, we're not inferior so why can't we? 15. i don't find it embarrassing. 16. I'm being serious here.. why do YOU care so much? HUH? 17. I'm fine with it because its totally healthy thing, and girls and boys shouldnt worry to much about it 18. It's embarrassing because everyone knows that the smell is different for girls than it is for guys. Sometimes girls have things like discharge or their periods and other people automatically assume that if a girl masturbates, she does it at all times, even when she's having those issues. People sort of subconsciously judge it as being more perverted and dirty for a girl to do it than for a guy because of those issues. 19. Due to the fact that in our society men and women are not considered equal, talk of things such as masturbation is not considered appropriate for females. For me, masturbation is not something that people just tend to talk about. It's like the way in which people would rather discuss sex than virginity. It's one of those things. It just seems to be a very private or taboo subject. When you do somoething like that, you seemed to be labled. 20. Masturbation is a very personal thing. It is how you get to know yourself better. Some people get easily embarrassed by it. I overcame my embarrassment when I realized maturbation is a healthy and normal thing. 21. I think it relates to the idea that all girls should be wholesome and ladylike and that masturbation seems to detract from this image. Not very long ago, women weren't even supposed to enjoy sex. They had sex to please their husbands and that was it. I think that today's society still falls back on these principles every now and then. Especially on issues like this. Of course, women shouldn't be embarrassed by it, but the fact is, most are brought up to be. 22. Cuz in the bible it says not to. 23. I feel embarrassed by masturbation because it is not something that my friends do, and it is not something that I feel I need to do. The thought of masturbation disturbs me, even though I know it is a natural thing to do.. I just feel that it is not something I need to do, or even want to do. 24. it's not so much "embarrasing", but more of a taboo if a woman does. a woman is seen as a over sexed hussy cause she self explores herself. i think its healthy but i still worry about how others will preceive me if i came out and said i masturbate. my man has already said to me that he feels cheated if i do. really silly i think. 25. I have been trying to overcome the embarrassment. I only have a problem with it if it is front of someone else. my boyfriend masurbates and has no problem with it but if I do it in front of him it's like all eyes on me. the focus and attention is on me and that makes me timid and shy. I don't want the focus to be on myself. 26. It should not because I feel it is as natural for a female to do as a male to do. It has been emberassing to me because it is not a greatly accepted concept. I over came it after reading on the internet about other people talking about it and not worried about it, etc. 27. I am not embarrassing about masturbating, and haven't ever been. Other young girls shouldn't be either because I think its natural. 28. I think that masterbation is embarrassing because women are supposed to be pure and what ever. They also are more shy than men are and I think that might have something to do with it. 29. It isn't embarrassing, only being caught is. 30. Masterbation should not be embarrassing for girls. It's just something to do. It's better then going out and sleeping with 15 men just to get pleasure. 31. Amoungst my female and male friends, we can talk pretty openly about this topic, but to actually admit that I masterbate is something I perfer to keep to myself. Men masterbate all the time, and they freely admit that. I feel that females have to maintain a certain perception, such as the "good girl" type. Otherwise, they could be viewed as "skanky". 32. To me, its a natural thing and nobody should make u feel bad about it, and there should be no reason for you to be embarrassed. I have never been embarrassed, maybe a bit shy towards talking about it, but everybody does it and it shouldn't be seen as different if you are female or male. It should NOT be regarded as anthing BUT normal behaviour. 33. umm never done it...never really brought up the subject... I dont think it should be embarrassing because people act the way they want and i dont really care who does it or not. 34. its just i never have masturbated.. and im sure my friends dont either. since i am embarrassed of talking about masturbation i dont know the reason why this is not embarrassing. 35. Its embarising because most people talk negatively about it. LIke when im with my friends or something there feel really iffy about sex like ew lesbian ew this when i dont really care about it. I havent overcame my embarrassment yet but i believe i will soon...personally, i dont give a damn what nebody thinks as long as im happy 36. masturbating has never been embarrassing to me simply for the reason that i believe that it's something personal that you should deal with not with anybody else, but yourself. so there isnt any reason to feel embarrassed about it. 37. i have never masterbated.. 38. well i think its more embarrassing for females cus they actually have to llike almost go insite there bodys. different for males. you shouldnt be embarresed about it because its better then having sex at 13. 39. Guys do it. People know it. Nobody really talks about girls doing it. So it's embarressing to mention it. 40. No comment 41. I dont feel embarrassed about it, its natural but I wont talk to anybody about it because I think its too personal. I'm not ready to open myself that much to someone when its so easy for them to run and go tell somebody else. It shouldn't be embarrassing because I think sexuality starts to become a part of puberty and you can't really esacpe it and I don't think anybody, even religion, should tell you it's wrong! 42. It was embarrassing because I didnt know how many people did it, if it was an average thing do to, if it was plain WRONG. It hasnt really, because my female friends masturbate too, or are mature enough to not say a word about it if I talk to them about me. Just being confident in myself, not caring really if others want to call me names for it. It shouldnt be embarrassing because its just natural, its pleasurable and does no harm. 43. hey, its me, was our conversation the cause for you making this?? lol 44. People are embarresed because it is sexual. None of my friends masturbate, at least none of them told me they do. 45. I dont honestly know. Because other people think it's weird or somthing 46. I thought masturbation was wrong. I did it once when I was 12 but then I felt really bad about it, so I didn't do it until I was 17, and a lot more mature and informed about sexuality. I don't care now, and I think it's something natural, relaxing and all that stuff. If it's natural then it shouldn't be embarrassing, but I can understand why some girls prefer to avoid the topic. I really don't care, heh. It's not like the masturbation have something to do with the personality or something, it means nothing. I think it's a private thing and if you want to talk about it, it's cool. If you don't, then it's fine too. 47. Shouldn't be, because it's natural and healthy. 48. its only embarrasing because its meant to be a private thing. thats the way society made it. It shouldnt be embarrasing. e may feel embarrased 49. i think the reason masturbating is embarrassing to me is bc i grew up in a christian home with christian friends who think its wrong to masturbate. It shouldnt be embarrisng,i htink its totally healthy and it can help when it comes to sex. 50. Masturbating is normal and most people do it. That is why i'm not emberrassed about it anymore. Why I realized that "all my friends are doing it" there wasn't anything to be embarrased about. I never really talked about it until I had a friend who was very open about sex and female sensuality. And since she wasn't embarrassed about it, why should I be? I can talke about it with her, but never with other close-minded people. 51. im not embarrassed by it 52. when i was younger it was embarrassing to talk about it, because everyone was all weird about it at age 12-14. as i got older, it was easier to talk about it with friends, and i realized that it was a totally normal thing, and i'm not embarrassed to talk about it now. i think girls (also boys) should be educated by their parents and schools about these things. masturbation is a normal thing, everybody does it, even when they say they dont. sex doesnt get any safer, than when you're doing it by yourself. 53. it's one of those things that comes in time...some people are ready for it earlier than others; it usually depends on the environment that you've been brought up in 54. I dont think it's really been embarrassing. It hasnt been difficult to talk about it with female friends either. I don't think it should be embarrassing either. It's not for guys, it happens all the time; it shouldn't be for girls either. 55. I've been embarrassed because it isn't natural to some people. I guess it makes me feel dirty. I never usually talk about it to friends. I have never admited to doing it to anyone. I should not be embarrassing to young females, but the society has made it that way. 56. I'm not embarrassed. It's human nature, probably every woman to walk the earth has. 57. I don't think masturbating is embarrassing for girls at all. I think it should be treated fair since males do it too. 58. because it has to do with certain "areas"? haha 59. Icky 60. It's shouldn't... but it's hard to admit it. It's completely natural, but no girl wants to seem like a nympho to her friends.. 61. I have no comments. Sorry. 62. its normal for teenagers who are going through hormonal changes. 63. It's kinda weird to talk about among my friends. Cause it make it sound like you want to have sex. 64. I don't find it embarrassing. I don't talk about it with my female friends because the topic doesn't come up too often. It does with my guy friends but it doesn't embarrass me because they do it a few times a week. I do it now and then. I had a boyfriend for 2 years that while i was changing and felt urges could satify my needs. I think girls have this image that is set by the public that girls are suppost to be polite and perfect and not have any "dirrty" secrets. and so young girls feel that it's wrong and they should be punished. But it's not true. It also depends where you live too. Now a days I find that ages 15 and up aren't embarrassed to talk about it. On message boards you find posts about it and people are proud about it. It just depends on who you talk to. And how exposed the girls are to sexual content...as in people talking / doing it etc... 65. well i did for the first time this year and not to mention i have become obsessed with porn. its hard to talk about it because i think it makes me weird even though i am pretty sure others do too. what i am worried about is the percent who dont, and since you dont know who those are, it is hard to talk about. 66. It's never really been difficult to me whatsoever... i just never really found interest in it.. and never really liked doing so. I find a lot more pleasure in having sex...and since my boyfriend and i are almost always together.. i guess i don't need to masturbate 67. i've never masterbated. 68. I didn't evne know females masturbate 69. I have never masturbated before, and I've never really thought about it. I don't know many people that do. 70. To me, masturbating seems to be a flaw. I don't do it much because I don't feel I have to. But saying that you do as a girl just seems trashy. I find it gross and if I admit I do it, I will see myself as gross. So I choose not to admit it. 71. I think that it's embarrassing mostly to admit to it, or thinking about getting caught. Other girls make a big deal of it being dirty and gross, so you can never tell them if you do it cause they'll probably think your dirty. I don't really know why it's embarrassing to admit to it to boys, probably because the fact that your pleasuring yourself is just odd. I have never overcome this embarrassment, atleast not yet. Masturbating should not be embarrassing for young females because it is completely natural. It isn't dirty, its just exploring yourself. And if guys can do it without getting teased, girls should too. 72. I'm not very sure what it is. 73. It was embarrassing to me because it had to o with sex and growing up. It's also a private matter. It hasn't been difficult, per se, just hesitant. How I came over my embarrassment is realizing masturbation is natural and quite obviously, I am not the only one curious. It should not be embarrassing because, like I said before, it's natural. 74. Um its just embrassing. 75. I've never been embarrassed of masturbation. It's completely a normal part of human nature. There shouldn't be any shame about wanting to make yourself feel good, whether it's emotional or physical. It is easier for me to talk about the topic more with guys than girls, but it's easier for me to talk to guys more than girls about everything, regardless of what it's about. 76. Erm...well it's kind of embarrassing, when female friends say they've never done it. I don't think it should be embarrassing for young females because you hear males talking about how they masturbate all the time, so why should it be different for females! 77. it hasn't been embarrasing 78. Female masterbation is not openly discussed among people in society. Many females do not admit to it. I have found that women in general do not discuss in detail their sexual experiences;I think that it is because of the negative view society has on sexually active women that many issues are not discussed. I also think that women worry a lot more about being judged. I overcame it through my own development of maturity. I came to realize that masturbation is just a part of sexuality. I think that it should not be emabarassing for females to discuss masterbation; I think that it allows a person to become familiar with their own body; thus allowing them to decide what they do like and they are able to become more comfortable with their sexuality. 79. masturbation is a difficult subject to talk about because nobody talks about it. when i started opening up to my friends, i realized they are all exactly like me. 80. i think it shouldnt cuz sum ppl do talk bout it and its natural so theres nuttin to be ashamed of really 81. I think that teen sexuality, in general, isn't NEARLY talked about enough in school or in the home and thats what makes it difficult for teens to relate on things that are in crutial need of explaining in this society. -CMS 82. Masturbation hasn't ever been embarrassing for me. I mean everyone (or almost) will do it sooner or later so what the point of being embarrassed? 83. Masturbaing is not embarrassing to me. It's natural. I just don't tell anyone about it. It's hard to talk about masturbation to my female friends because they might think I'm weird. But we have no problems talking about sex. It's weird. I still haven't overcame this embarrassment. Females shouldn't feel embarrassed about masturbation. After all, it's only natural. And we know guys do it all the time! 84. I think it was embarasing because my mom and dad are separated and i dont really like my step mom and i dont really like to talk to my dad about those things cause i dont feel conftorble and i dont think it should be embarasing cause its just a part of life its nothing you can contorl
  23. Everytime i start masterbating it feels like i have to pee. Is this normal?
  24. okay so i didn't know what to put this question under, nor what to title it, um and this is a really odd question but the other day my friend and i were talking about how guys masterbate right... well then we started talking about girls and masterbating... well is it normal for a teen girl to masterbate? and how often is too often? she says it's messed up and disgusting and that only guys do it, but i was under the impression that it was totally normal for a girl to do it and that lots of girls did do it? can anyone clue me in on this please?
  25. To all the forum ladies...... Did you ever watch your man masterbate to orgasm and if so was it a turn on for you? Also to the guys, how many of you feel comfortable enough with your lady to do this in front of her and have you ever?
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