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  1. annie24
    what time did it come? Might have been a drunk dial.
  2. annie24
    what time did it come? Might have been a drunk dial.
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    Hi - I've been in a kinda similar situation, but nowhere near as extreme. A guy I hardly knew kept showing up at my place, late at night, acting like we were friends, and calling with obscene messages. I checked all the websites, and they said contact the police, which you have already done. Luckily, the police took my story more seriously than they are taking you, and they asked me what day, what time, and what happened during every encounter. They went over to his place of work, and served him with "stalking papers" saying he could be arrested if he contacts me again. I haven't heard from him in 2 months! Start a journal recording every time she contacts you or your fiance. If you have any letters or notes she's written or phone calls she's made to you after you've asked her to stop, give those to the police. Contact the police every time after that and just say you want it officially on the record. Tell them that you feel threatened - that is key. It's officially stalking if their behavior is making you feel threatened, or you think she may do something to harm you or your fiance. Get them to serve "Stalking Papers" or a Restraining Order telling her to stay away from you and your fiance. Go down the police station in person until someone serves her with papers. Oh yeah, and if she calls, just hang up, or say, "go away" and then hang up. Good luck! I really hope she doesn' bother you anymore.
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    Congrats on your degree! I know exactly how you feel! Thank god I'm in grad school and have a few more years until I have to get a real job! First, why don't you make a list of all the things you DON'T want to do. There's also lots of online personality tests that suggest what type of job is best for you. You don't have to go with that, but it's a list of suggestions. I'd talk to someone in your department office and see if they have a list of other people in your major that graduated a few years ago and perhaps you can contact them to see what kind of job they have and how they like it. Now sounds like a really good time to take a backpacking trip to somewhere exotic and try to "find yourself." After seeing the world, and meeting lots of different and interesting people, you'll probably get to know yourself better and what will make you happy
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    The first time you get thrush, you should go to a doctor about it, so he or she can confirm it (to make sure it isn't a different type of infection). Otherwise, with treatment, a few days.
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    Normally, I'm not all that forward with guys, but with this one, I'd say: "Are you ever going to talk to me, or are you going to just keep staring at me?"
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    next time you run into her somewhere, stop, say hi, chit chat for a few minutes, and then say something like, "I was just about to go get some lunch/coffee. Wanna join me?" Then, she'll know you like her as a person, but she's not going to think that you're in love with her (it's just lunch!) Then, you guys can talk and you'll be able to gauge if she's into you too. Have fun!
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    You silly boy! Do I have to come over there and hit you over the head with a club? This girl is REALLY into you! We don't give backrubs to just anyone! And especially not in front of other people! It sounds like she genuinely likes you. Sure, invite her to the movies, but you should also do stuff together where you can talk. Go to lunch, dinner, coffee, fairs, amusement parks, sports games, the mall, etc. Have fun!
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    don't worry too much about talking the whole time. I'd be kinda annoyed if someone was talking to me for 6 hours straight! Sometimes, silence is golden. Otherwise, the card game suggestion is good. You can bring along some magazines, and after reading the articles, you guys can talk about it.
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    no tongue on the very first kiss! soft lips, slightly parted, be gentle and slow. Have fun!
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    Well, you shouldn't rely on someone else to be your source of hapiness. What is he doing that's bugging you? If he's cheating on you, flirting a lot with other women in front of you, or something serious, than that's bad. Or, is a minor habit bugging you? Like, he snores, or you hate the way he dresses, well, is it such a big deal in the long run? You probably can't change him, but you can talk to him about what is making you unhappy, and then work it out from there. good luck
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    You should ask her out! It sounds like she may like you, or want to get to know you better, but she may be shy. You should ask her to do something during the day, in a well lit place, like go and get lunch together, or go to Starbuck's. That way, it's casual but you two will get to talk to each other and get to know each other better.
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    Wow - this guy is really violent. You shouldn't have punched him, but he definitely should not have hit you! You don't need a guy like that! There's lots of really nice guys out there who won't hit you and won't see other girls. You weren't going out with him for too long, did you two say you were going to be exclusive? But, this guy sounds totally skeezy. Yeah, find a new dude!
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    I think one of the most romantic dates I ever had was when my bf, my best friend, and her bf came to my place, we had a bbq, and then my bf and I went to the beach later that night, sat on the sand, and watched the stars. (cliche, but whatever.) picincs are nice too. If there's an interesting band in town, that would be a fun thing to do, especially an ethnic/world music band playing at the local univerisity's theater. it's very flattering when a girl mentions casually that she likes a certain thing, and then a few weeks later, the guy takes her to a movie, or an art exhibit about that topic. ie, if she says she's into irish culture, you take her to an irish music or art show. a date where you dedicate the whole night to her would be very romantic. i.e., brush her hair, give her a foot rub, rub her shoulders, feed her strawberries, etc. have fun!
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    wow... it sounds like you had a harsh time growing up. It also sounds like you're ready to move onto a new phase in your life. You listed all of these things that are bad about what you've done in the past, but what about your good qualities? Sit down, think about what makes you good and special. I'm sure that you have lots of great qualities. Think about all the things in your life you're grateful for. You have to first believe that you're worthy of a good and caring relationship, and then it will come.
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    My heart broke when I read your post. I'm so sorry! I agree with the other replies. I guess, all you can do at this point is to give him his space. It sounds like he's made up his mind. You should try to get your mind off of things, as hard as it may be. Take a yoga class, take an art class, go jogging, volunteer at an animal shelter, go to every social event you can! Show up, look nice, maybe another gentleman will see you and ask you out. Good luck!
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    Dear lillady - You should ditch your jerk boyfriend. You deserve to be treated better than that, and I'm glad that you see that. You should e-mail or call the other guy that you like but haven't seen in a year. Just say, "Hi - I came accross some old photos of us, and I just wanted to see how you're doing." I'm sure it would be nice to get in touch with him again, and he'd probably be pleasantly surprised to hear from you. He may be involved with someone else now, so don't get your hopes too high. Good luck!
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