Avasky

Well my boyfriend is 21 and I'm 19, he lives an hour away. I guess I could name a few things that bother me about him, that I don't think will change. - He's in debt and I've told him how to get out of debt, but he keeps splurging on things that are not so important. He says I'm going to be in debt my whole life, so why bother. Also, he was recently in a car accident and wrecked his parents van that he drove. So now he no longer has a car, and I think he should take a weekend job to get out of debt, and maybe get a new car. I know this would be really stressful but it would be better in the future. He says that thats his weekend off after a stressful week. I just think he needs to get some things under control before splurging on unneccesary things. - Also, he doesn't ever take certain things that I don't like him doing to mind. The number one thing that annoys me is that he touches my stomach in public and I'm not uncomfortable with my stomach, I just don't like him doing that, and he still does it after I repeatedly say no. - I'm in school, and he isn't - He doesn't understand that I need -alone- time or -girl- time. He says that he would rather be with me that be alone, and if he went out with anyone we would want me with him with his friends (but he only has one friend). So I always debate him on why its important for me to have alone time and girl time and he doesn't get it Well these are just a few things! Thanks for listening : )

I've always thought that when a person starts thinking about dating another person, after being with a person for a long period of time, that maybe its time to move along. If your thinking about other people, shouldn't that be a hint?

Heres the spill I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year now, and lately I haven't been as happy as I was before. My best friend is noticing that I haven't been as happy too. He does make me happy, but not as happy as I would like to be. There are tons of things I like about him, but some things that really annoy me about him. My mom and best friend say that many of the things that bug me about him will never change even if I try to communicate to him that they bug me, he might never change. So do I stay with him to see if he can change and by chance be happier, or do I break up with him? I also have fears as anyone would have with breaking up with someone. Like hurting the person which is inevitable, and the chance of not finding someone again, or the chance of missing that person. What would you do? THanks ...