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Yeah I just recently got into biking again this summer, but still... I know I recognize gaming as being my one consistent hobby for a while now, but my dad just always tells me to get off the computer. I've tried to find something else to do, but it's hard. Nowadays I'm usually on my computer at night, and if my dad isn't too busy on his computer which uses more than I use mine, then he makes it a big deal for me to get on my computer. I mean I love playing guitar but it just doesn't pass time as much. I have no idea why. I think that perfectionist thing is sort of true. But then again I'm not very good at video games either. I mean I'm never going to be paid to do it, especially since my dad doesn't even like me playing at night when there's not much else to do.

Sometimes I lose interest in hobbies for a bit. Sometimes they don't seem as fun as they always do. Sometimes I just can't play something on guitar, and I've tried to learn it, and it just disappoints me how I can't get it. Then sometimes I can play something else, sometimes I can't and it just gets boring. Also hobbies don't always seem to pass the time, even though they please me a lot. The only thing that's kept my interest for almost my whole life is video games and computers I mean that's fine, but I'm also interested in other things and they don't seem to keep my interest as much or pass the time as much. Of course this is a problem because I rather be doing other things, and my parents too so most of the time they just tell me to stop playing on the computer, which I usually understand. I'm 15 btw Why do I get these feelings? It's odd. Thanks whoever can answer.

Whenever I notice girls having bad days, if I say something nice they just say thanks and carry on with their mood. If I ask them what's wrong, they never want to talk about it. I don't talk about myself much, even around friends but I'll try to focus on that. Thanks for the tips.

That's what's weird. They seem like they're interested, and I've talked to girls who didn't want to talk to me, so I know what it seems like. Plus I haven't heard anything about any girls disliking me.

Only a few girls ever say hi to me or hug me, but I see it happen to other people. It's always me that starts talking to them never the other way around. I talk to girls lots of times, and it doesn't seem they hate me or are disinterested in the conversation and I haven't heard that either, but they just never talk to me, I always go up and talk to them. I can talk to girls I've met recently. I can't always have something to say to girls I already know though. I'll walk by them in the hall, and neither of us say hi. But I see them say hi to other people, and they don't say much else so they don't really care about conversation, it's just they never talk to me.

yeah, so i'm a little confused about this.. (read subject) what are differences between the places you hang out + the things you do when you're involved and when you're just friends? (I'm talking about with the opposite sex, in this case, girls) thanks

Thanks so much for the help everyone. Two more questions: When should we start making physical contact? I don't want to be too quick, but I don't want her to think that I just want to be friends. I don't have a car, and public transportation doesn't go near the movie theaters. I rather not have my parents drive us both, because I don't like talking when my parents can overhear us (it's like this even with friends). Would it be okay to ask her to meet me somewhere?

1. what's a good place to go? (I'm only 13) (I've heard movies are a bad place to go) 2. how dp you maintain a relationship? Yeah, sounds stupid, but I mean how often should we do things together. The girl I'm thinking of asking goes to my school, so we would see each other quite a bit, and we could talk a lot. 3. what's a good way to ask her? Especially if she's always near friends. I really don't want to ask her when she's around friends. Should I talk to her about something else first, and then ask her? Right now we talk maybe 5 times a week, usually in the hallway which isn't exactly private.