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Clementine orange

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  1. Face it, we exist in a shallow world. Ever watch TV? Everybody is beautiful. Even if a character in a show or movie is written as plain then they are still pretty attractive. There is a reason for this. Do you have any art in your house - paintings, photographs etc hanging on the wall? Is it nice art, is it pleasant to look at? Pictures of pretty flowers or majestic mountains or cute little animals? Probably. Humans like to look at what is pleasing to the eye. It's the human condition. Men and women are the same - this is not a guy affliction. The only consonsolation is if the guy is homely then if he has money than he can still "win".
  2. Alcohol loosens the inhibitions. For good or for bad. It also makes peeps do some crazy things. You can only get true information from sobers. Why don't you just plain ask her "hey what ups with the whole friday night performance? You wanna get get something going or not?" Sorry to say but some women do stuff for attention or to boost their egos or to make some other guy jealous....
  3. Ah yes, Dako thanks, you saved me a google search - I was thinking Long John Baldry too though I think. It's funny, sometimes those "hurtin' songs" really fit the bill.
  4. My friend tried it - she said she's never met so many misfits in such a short amount of time. It's worth a try though. Good for honing your conversation skills at least.
  5. You never close your eyes any more When I kiss your lips And there's no tenderness like before In your fingertips Now there's no tenderness In your eyes when I reach for you And girl you're starting to criticize little things I do "you've lost that lovin' feeling" by I'm not sure who but it seems to fit
  6. When you have a conversation with her try to remember something she said so that next time you are talking to her you can bring it up - that way she knows you are paying attention to what she says. Girls like that. you: do you want to hang out this afternoon? her: Sorry I can't, I'm going to the mall with Susy this afternoon you: Oh yeah, that's right - you said the other day that you wanted to pick up those shoes that you saw on sale. her: Yes, thats' right. (thinking) wow, he actually paid attention to what I was saying instead of staring at my boobs, how different from so many other guys, I think I need to kiss him now) you: (thinking) oh well, I tried, maybe my breath smells or something minutes later: holy crap, she's trying to kiss me!!!!!!!!!!!!! However, your scenario may vary
  7. oooh yeah - jealousy - 'tis the green eyed monster that doth mock the meat it feeds upon. All Shakespeare aside, I personally think that someone can change. If they truly want to. Also that love has a way of making someone change. If you have made it clear that you cannot be in a relationship with someone that treats sex as a buffet (whatever, you know what I mean) and if he truly loves you then he will change. I would be more concerned about the fact that you only see him once every 2 months or so - I think that would make me unhappy and insecure. Is it is LDR?
  8. Make sure you are eating enough in general - protein especially 'cause that will keep you feeling full. Try portion control snacks - instead of keeping a quart of ice cream in the freezer at home, decide that you will only eat ice cream at a parlour, and then just get a single scoop. Write your goals on a piece of card and then if you think you are slipping then look at the card. Sometimes we mistake hunger for thirst. Before "pigging out" try drinking a glass or two of water. Got a sweet tooth? Try sugar free drinks. Good luck - it is worth it!
  9. Without being a stalker, "accidently" run into him after his shift is over and ask him for coffee. Or (and this is assuming that you can frequent another pharmacy for a while if it doesn't work out as planned) just plain old give him a note with your phone number on it. Tell him you have tickets to whatever (and guy type thing would be best) and you need a date. Nothing ventured nothing gained!! I've been approached by women before - at the very least it's quite flattering. He will likely see it the same way even if he does turn you down.
  10. It's your pride and jealousy that is messing with you. Leave the past in the past. Except that you already know this.... My advice - try not to think about it. If you find your thoughts drifting that way then shut them down. Dwelling on it will make things much much worse.
  11. This doesn't sound healthy at all. I'd be cooling it with both of them. Life is long, maybe if it was meant to be (with the older one) then it will be. Just not now. Blood is thicker than water.
  12. Hey "prettyview" I just had a giggle moment. Dogs have sex with other dogs they just met all the time. I have a dog - he'll hump anything, short term, long term, whatever. Actually doesnt have to be another dog either. (I'm referring to your sign off line - not Belinda Stonich and Peter Mackay)
  13. Ahhhh, the Quebecois women. Did you remember to bring flowers when you came to visit? I'd be having a good talk with her before you leave. Get some things into the open. Dont just go - give it a good shot, you don't want to wonder what on earth went wrong the rest of your life do you?
  14. Hookers _are_ kinda disgusting if you think about it, so is sex with someone you don't really like (mercy or revenge sex). If beforehand you suspect you might regret a sex experience then for sure afterwards you will!
  15. As far as losing fat is concerned you have to think long term. It sounds as if you hit a plateau. Don't be discouraged. Stick with the cardio and weights, and watch the diet. Diet pop is OK, straight water is better though. Diet pop is better than regular or juice for sure especially if you have a bit of a sweet tooth. Watch the fried foods and white bread/rice/potatoes/cake etc too though. I wouldn't bother weighting yourself every day either - it totally fluctuates. Weigh yourself (at the same time of the day like first thing perhaps) about twice a month only. A better way of figuring your progress is the "pinch test" or just seeing if your pants fit looser. Good luck nd congrats on your progress!
  16. I hoping/guessing/believing that the penis ain't the only thing the woman is interested in ever. A good girth is just iceing on the cake so to speak. There's lots of other elements involved too. Girls like wide shoulders, nice butt, solid chest and bicips as well (as far as physical things go) Ummm, we are kind of in the same boat here actually I get a kick out of the surprise element - I'm a skinny white guy who got lucky in this area. However, there's been a few occasions where I've had to "do it" a little slower and gentler because of the endowment.
  17. Ah yes, pride and jealousy - messes with one's head doesn't it?
  18. Sorry Jayls, my post was a bit harsh - LDR does make a difference. I would however take Kell bell's advice. Sometimes my own life spills into my advice. I was in a relationship last year where the girl phoned/texted etc way way way too often and I felt really crowded - almost harassed. It was actually one of the main reasons we split up
  19. She sounds kinda shy and repressed. Maybe she was abused before. I'd say give her time but 2 years? When I was 20 I don't think I could hold out that long. I'd think twice before marrying this one dude. Sorry to be harsh but is good sex important to you? Is she religious?
  20. LOL, just be happy and enjoy the look of shock on their faces. Seriously though, if a woman can get a baby's head outa there then you can put your little head in. Date whoever you want.
  21. I agree with slightly bent. This guy is an idiot but that doesn't make him a child molester or a freak. I wouldn't say anything to anybody, don't respond in any way and just ignore him or avoid him as best you can. That should send a message. If something like that happens again then re-think it and consider telling him to shove off. Maybe he just had a brief fit of insanity or bad taste or something. Regardless it sounds like a really dumb thing to do uninvited.
  22. Maybe she doesn't have a chance to contact you because you are always doing it first (so she is always responding to this) Maybe I'm different, but if I was her then I'd be feeling a little "crowded" by all this constant contact business. A wee bit clingy? I'm a guy though... How long you two been together? I'm guessing less than six months...
  23. Cool!! My advice though is go to the best tattoo parlour you can afford - if you can't afford the best then wait until you can. These things are for life. This is not the time to go to the "walmart" of tattoo parlours. Scrimp on sox and underwear - not on tattoos! Ask around as to where others got theirs or google places. Tattoo conventions are good places to visit too. Make sure the place you go to follows the safety codes. Be 100% sure of what you want - there's no turning back.
  24. I agree with many of the above: 1.) avoid the desparation/needy image, women run from that with good reason 2.) just relax and be friendly to everyone - even those you think you wouldn't like (maybe they got a sister/cousin/friend etc) 3.) sometimes it happens out of the blue, sometime you gotta work at it. There is no rhyme or reason. ('tis a pity) 4.) That person who mentioned hobbies - that's the way to go for sure. 5.) good luck - but you won't need it I'm sure - she's out there somewhere looking for you just like you are looking for her!
  25. I agree - go for it. Get together and just point blank ask her what's going on. Ask her why she's suddenly all interested now. You're in a position of power now. Life is too short!!
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