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Clementine orange

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  1. Flip thru "people" magazine or something similiar, find out what hair cuts are "in" right now. Choose a celebrity you like and is around your age and looks and style. When you go to a hair stylist take a picture with you - that helps Go to a more expensive place if you can afford it (I wouldn't recommend "mastercuts" like the OP did - don't trust a $8.00 haircut)
  2. I don't wanna get up in the morning and then I don't wanna go to bed at night. Problems? I got 'em!
  3. Stanley Cup is Hockey. I agree with OP, BeeC - whining just drives a wedge. Why should the man have to constantly prop up the woman's ego? A doctor should say whether a woman is fat or not and what she should do about it. Besides, it's nice if we can have a chance to give ego boosts on our own time - it makes it more sincere. Constantly having to respond to "am I fat, I think I'm fat, I look fat, do you think I'm fat, who is fatter me or Susan" - guys will answer whatever comes into their head first and that they think will end the conversation.
  4. Line up at TIM HORTONs No signature drinks there. Maybe ask them to recommend you a doughnut.... If they are totally hot and goodlooking and uniformed and employeed then I'm guessing they get hit on all the time - best come up with something original!
  5. I think home made fresh squeezed fruit/veg juice is probably better but I don't have the time or tools for that. I usually do a V-8 if I think that day I've eaten less. That or else my packed lunch looks a little small. V-8 kinda fills you up so it's a good snack too.
  6. What kind of meditating are you doing? I always thought that one is supposed to "empty" one's mind while meditating, not focus on creator/deity or whatever. If you are focusing on god's words then maybe that's more prayer than meditation. Just a thought, it's all good anyway! Whatever brings one closer to the source.
  7. One of the top ten most annoying things women do: whine about how fat they are. Men HATE it!!! and it's pointless. If ou need to whine then go whine with other women who think they are fat - guys just don't want to hear it. Most men are goal and results oriented. If you think you are fat then do something about it. Put down the taco bell, put down the cosmo magazine (which makes you think you are fatter than you are probably) and go to the gym. Argh, sorry, this this struck a nerve with me. Besides what are we supposed to say when some women is going on and on about this - it's lose, lose. If you are fat then we sure can't agree, if you're not and you think you are then what's up with that? Whine to us about stuff that means something and that we care about, like Stanley Cup playoffs or something.
  8. I usually do. A daily V-8 juice helps too. I usually bring cut up apples or grapes in a tupperware container in the car and munch on them during the commute. For a while I kept a "food diary" and that made me aware of what I was eating (and not eating). I found it helpful. There's on-line ones too. I find it easier to stay away from Junk food if I eat lots of fruits and veg. I heard that it's supposed to be 5 to 12 servings of fruits and veg though. And that's in Canada where during some of the year... well, you'd better get used to frozen and tinned unless you have lotsa money Oh to live in California!
  9. Do you mean the "death of impossible dreams" part? The way I see it is that sometimes when you give up a dream then it's a form of freedom or liberation. For example: 1.) I must become a world class ballarina - if I do not then I am a failure 2.) I must have Suzy Q for my own, if I cannot then no other woman will do 3.) Straight A's in school - all the time, no exceptions. do wahtever it takes I'm just saying that as an older adult you realize some of the things just aren't going to happen and you make yourself miserable trying to achive them. In reality something (or someone) else can make you just as happy and satisfied in life. I'd rather be really happy playing in a garage band with the occasional paying gig then miserable because I'm not charting on the billboard top 20 or whatever and endlessly trying and failing.
  10. Wisdom, experience, knowing what you want and what you don't, perspective and the death of impossible dreams.
  11. Dude, I'd be more worried about this whole "ultimatum" business if I were you. Relationships are give and take, if one person is saying "if you do XYZ then I'm walking" then that spells trouble. I mean, where does it end. There are of course some non-negotiables (like sleeping with other women) but not being "allowed" to look at other women???? That leash is gonna feel awfully short after a while.
  12. Maybe she doesn't really know what she is doing. Or is really really shy or something. You guys need to talk.
  13. If he's a coffee drinker then I'd bet he'd like a latte. Or maybe breakfast. I bet he's excited to see you too!
  14. Next time it happens say: "look, I know it's you" (without saying who the "you" is). It'll drive them crazy.
  15. I'm on the same page as slightybent pretty well. You want someone that can take some "rolling around" etc. Just to add this. Last summer I had a brief relationship with a petite girl. I swear she was 98 pounds soaking wet - no breasts, no hips, when we got undressed I discovered she was also totally shaved. My god, she looked like a 11 year old girl. I got completely freaked out and the whole thing ended very soon after that. It was kind of scary actually Romeo Void - don't they sing that classic 80s song "I might like you better if we slept together"? Tch, tch the kids today think _they_ invented that concept!
  16. Sorry but I've heard frequently the same thing that shickshika (sp) said. Not in those words but along those lines. And the joke: Q: Are big girls, better in bed? ; A: not neccessarily but they do appreciate it more! [i know this joke is harsh but it is for illustration only - moderators delete if you think it's too much] In my opinion, those super skinny ones can be really * * * * *y (maybe because they are hungry all the time) Don't even get me started on these girl's sense of entitlement. Jeez, look out! Something in between is best. You gotta love a girl who can scarf down pizza and beer with the boys but also look killer in a little black dress. Plus she can stand up in a stiff wind, carry groceries and help you move furniture if necessary. I was just watching a ET show on TV just now where there was hidden cameras etc and a "hottie" skinny blonde type had no problem getting into clubs because she was "all that" but later when she put on glasses, braces and a fat suit she had problems. (Actually I didn't finish watching it, I didn't need to - I already knew the outcome) Society is shallow...or are we brainwashed by the media?
  17. If it bothers you now, it will drive you crazy later. I've have also read about the body chemistry/phermones theory. It seems to hold water to a degree.
  18. SB, Nice eyes, even if they twitch. oh and thanks DAKO! Hey, wow, that looked like flirting you guys (jeez DAKO I was thinking the same thing but didn't have the guts to mention it) Are we allowed to flirt on this website? I've been surpressing myself. There are some very interesting women here.....and I've got some very witty comments to make
  19. Why does this post get 45 relies already - most of them lambasting this poor mixed up teenager. Is this Jerry Springer or something? Jeez, how judgemental of posters. Do you all live in a bubble or something - look around, this happens all the time....This person wants help, not accusations!!!! OK Aida2, listen to me. I will not judge you. Keep the jewelry. Sell it even if you want. Cut ties with this guy. Find a nice boy. Own yourself only. Don't dwell on this mistake and don't label it as anything. Just move on. You have no future with him and deep down inside you know it. Walk away.
  20. I went to auschwitz concentration camp a few years ago while on holiday in Eastern Europe. They (the Poles) have made it into a memorial museum type thing. It was a profoundly moving experience, horrifying and sobering. That day, I promised myself that I would never again complain of being tired, hungry or cold ever again. Pretty lofty promise but whenever I find myself doing a "poor me" way of thinking I almost always think of that day and those people in the camps. I read "night" as well and also "man's search for meaning" by philosopher Viktor Frankle. I read both those books before going there. The experience of being there was so gut wrenching that ever since I have difficulty watching any movies or reading any books regarding this subject. Whenever I see barbed wire I think of it too. It put many things into sharp perspective for me.
  21. I agree with the others - it might have just been a case of her just saying what someone else wanted to hear. We've all done that kind of thing. You are taking it too seriously. Snooping is rarely a good idea - things can be taken out of context
  22. Hang in there, you'll get through this. Ultimately it will make you stronger.
  23. Often its very difficult to figure out exactly why people do things - especially if they are of the opposite sex. I still think you should go talk to her, tell her you enjoyed the attention. Be "funny and cocky" about it. I don't know but if some girl did that to me then i'd be doing a follow up on that. At the very least you will be able to put this thing to rest. If she is really into then she is probably wondering if you are asleep at the wheel.
  24. She's into you man - it's clear. Shave, brush your teeth, get yer mojo in order and get on with it!!!!! That is if you really want to....
  25. One more thing...and this is on a personal ranting/complaining bent (from a guy) The following is a generalization but like most generalizations they are generally true The really pretty girls often have obnoxious personalities - this is either from their extreme sense of entitlement or from being hit on all the time. The really plain girls have shattered self esteem, are awkward, shy and unable to cope with any kind of male attention The best kind are ones that are pretty but don't know it yet or have an inner beauty and poise. The extremes are always problematic.
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