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  1. Daddy Bear

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    Daddy Bear replied to Boricua7's topic in Sex and Romance

    then he should probably seek counseling to get at the root of the problem. if he is physically incapable of the act, and assuming he's not elderly, he should really see an M.D. if he could perform (for example, if he still gets 'morning wood') but he just doesn't want to AND that's now causing him depression, then he should probably seek counseling to help him cope with the issue. sound right?
  2. Daddy Bear
    no disrespect to you, zara, but i DON'T feel sorry for people who bring misery into the world unless they are truly mentally ill. judging by the original post, this girl just sounds vindictive and dishonest.
  3. Daddy Bear
    my last comment on this thread, just to clear something up and to give credit where it is due: the story that i posted was written not by a woman, but by a man named John Russell.
  4. Daddy Bear
    true, agent. but Deesa said "finish on the partner", not "finish in the partner". that's a big difference, in terms of sex safety.
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    lol, i was wondering when i would see somebody use the thrown tomato smiley! i agree with Mrocza that you came up with kind of a silly line, but that it probably didn't scare the guy off at all. the whole thing with the chair and all just sounds like a funny scene from a teen movie where the guy and the girl get together at the end.
  6. Daddy Bear
    DN's advice is dead on. i would only add that if you asked his gf how their relationship is going you might get a story very different from the one he gave you.
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    imo you got it right. if you say nothing or encourage her to get back with him she might get hurt all over again, maybe worse this time. if you say that he probably cares about her as a person but she should play it cool, i don't see how you could cause your friend any harm, and it would then be up to the guy to prove you wrong.
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    it sounds to me like you're in transition from being emotionally dependent on your parents to being able to make it on your own. good for you, it's a normal part of life. (so is getting into things that you shouldn't when you're a kid, btw.) my own dad was an alcoholic and did some fully scandalous stuff similar to what you have described in your post. some in my family have held on to their bitterness for many years but after i got my a** away from dad permanently i eventually chose to forgive him. we don't talk much but i think i'm better off for letting my anger go. you may find that the same thing happens to you. the things we worry about generally end up better than we expect them to. as you go through life you will no doubt find people who need you and you will experience many happy times. then you will know for sure that it was a good thing you were born. good luck on your journey, partner .
  9. Daddy Bear
    in my view nobody's all good or all bad (even world's biggest tyrant adolf hitler was supposedly kind to animals) but jeff sounds like he doesn't have enough respect for your feelings for you to waste your time fretting over him. never mind getting the last word, it won't bring you any peace. i say preserve your precious dignity and just shine him on.
  10. Daddy Bear
    you've already gotten some sound advice so i'll just say... i love the brits!! i've been all over the u.s. and have never once gotten any chocolate for breakfast (except on easter ), unless you count cocoa puffs cereal.
  11. Daddy Bear
    i'm not going to call you names but i do think you should make better use of your time. revenge is maybe the worst reason to hook up, and if you don't care about your ex, why would you care who she's with or whether her feelings are hurt or not? and if you do still secretly care about her deep down inside, why would you cause her pain? c'mon guy, take the high road. you'll feel better inside.
  12. Daddy Bear
    dude, if she was that interested in this "other guy" then she wouldn't have brought it up to you, she would have just gone for it. and if you weren't interested in her you wouldn't be talking about this on enotalone. it may not have been the most brilliant strategy for her to say what she said, but i say don't throw the baby out with the bath, just tell her you don't like to hear things like that and give her another chance.
  13. Daddy Bear
    why should it always have to be one or the other? i usually leave my coat on and my poker in the fire but if a girl's in the mood for a little skin treatment action then who am i to argue? (sorry for the bad metaphors, btw)
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    do you really need that kind of aggro? i never forgot all the lies my ex dumped on me. one small hurt piled on top of another until the camel's back finally snapped and i came to realize she truly didn't have a conscience. of course she blamed me for the breakup but i don't give two f***s. imo it's time to move on.
  15. Daddy Bear

    Help!

    Daddy Bear replied to Boricua7's topic in Sex and Romance

    is he sure that his lack of interest in sex is causing his depression, or could it be the other way around? i recently went through some serious blues time and for most of a year the thought of getting down was almost always out of the question, even though i had a willing live-in partner.
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    when i met my ex she was 23 and had never had the 'big o' w/o her pocket rocket. i decided not to give up, and just when i thought my jaw was gonna drop off, BINGO! you shoulda seen the look on her face when she said, "i didn't know that could happen without a vibe!" as far as the three times a day thing, a famous sex expert once said that it should not be considered a prob unless (a) you're getting chapped or blistered, or (b) it interferes with the rest of your life.
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    this has happened to me a couple times. my sense was that the girls weren't so much deliberately trying to MAKE me jealous as they were wanting to get my reaction and see if i WAS.
  18. Daddy Bear
    Thanks RW, and may the Great Bunny always find you full of happiness when he performs his annual stalking ritual!
  19. Daddy Bear
    i third the motion on air. next time i need a sex soundtrack i'm gonna put on "kelly watch the stars". great mood music with non-distracting vocals.
  20. Daddy Bear
    if he's not just a 'playa' (and only time will tell), it could turn out to be a good thing. my longest relationship started as a one-nighter and my deepest relationship had a 17-year age difference (23/41).
  21. Daddy Bear
    i love it when a girl takes the bull by the horns and asks me out, and i'm only this shy. *holds fingers a hair apart* but if she says "with me and my friend" then i'm like, "uhhh..."
  22. Daddy Bear
    bit of a sticky wicket, as the upper-class twits used to say on your side of the pond. i did meet a few cool cats by joining a political club in my town. talking smack on the president has become a ginormously popular hobby over here lately, ya know.
  23. Daddy Bear
    awesome, i bet it would sound really powerful if you read it out loud. that's the kind of poem people go to readings hoping to hear.
  24. Daddy Bear
    i like these in the bg when i want to take lovemaking seriously: kruder & dorfmeister chab orbital and ditto on the enigma suggestion but for those "do me NOW!" moments i might pop in some white stripes - especially this one killer techno remix of "seven nation army" (the one that starts with "i'm gonna rip it off") not recommended: bloodhound gang weird al ed gein mr bungle
  25. Daddy Bear
    cool thing is that it's the only organ that can regenerate itself. it's a slow process though, so i would stay away from the rush limbaugh treats as much as i could. alcohol and tobacco (and firearms) are also no friend to the liver and should be eyed with suspicion.
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