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lol, this guy's hair will fall out if he discovers how much it's the topic of discussion! i recently chowdered a comment to a female friend of mine about her hair, so i have reflected on the subject somewhat. i told her, "know how i like your hair? with the bangs over one eye like it was the other day." i could tell from her face that i made her feel self-conscious about the way it was at the time that i made the comment. what i wish i had said was, "know what my favorite style is for nice hair like yours?" subtle difference, but far less insulting imo.
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that sucks. my s/o and i view erotic images together and have even looked at a few webcam sites but a dating service would, in our minds, indicate a serious betrayal. i would tell hubby to knock that off for real or GIIIT OUT. do not accept his denials!!
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sorry, let me get back on point here. the crux of the matter is that we should all do our best to respect our partner's wishes. if a man desires sex more often than his partner is giving him and she doesn't want him watching "backdoor sluts 9", then negotiations are in order, n'est-ce pas?
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that is a very unfortunate and misguided comment. first of all, it is a physical need once you hit 40 or so. otherwise the prostate gets a real bad 'tude and that can and does kill. second, only babies die without human contact, but it--like sexual release--is an emotional need for almost every adult on earth, male or female. i agree that using the line "men have needs" to get sex from an unwilling partner may be manipulative, but there is a good deal of truth behind it.
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YES!!! i'm glad you posted again, little brother. i'm sure a lot of the other members here have been hoping as much as i was that you would reappear.
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Daddy Bear replied to Moon Goddess's topic in Friendship and Friends
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i noticed that too, but i damn near died of exhaustion trying to read that last marathon re-post, lol
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i'm not a doctor, nor do i play one on tv, but there is a condition that could explain this behavior. it's called ADP (antisocial personality disorder) and it affects about 2% of us. google it and see what you think. Jumbo Huggies!
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why are you terrified to lose him? what would happen?
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hey, some of my best friends are drama queens. as long as you don't abuse the privilege (or marry a wifebeater) you should be able to make it in this world ok. depression, on the other hand, can ruin your life big. if you ever get to the point of being despondent and/or suicidal, then run, don't walk, to the nearest phone book and get yourself some professional help. ciao
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if you use the term "possessive" now, it's a given that in thirty years, or probably fewer, you will find yourself saying "smothering". you may have self-esteem issues (candidly, i didn't detect much of that) but there's no cause to subject yourself to being henpecked for the remainder of your lifespan. i hope that you'll stick around and become a regular, as you sound very sharp and introspective and there are many people who come here needing help. if nothing else, do take the advice that you get in this thread under serious consideration, because there are a great number of extremely insightful folks here on enotalone (DN, to name but one, is a monster thinker) and they give seriously good brain.
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i know lots of good people who have had their problems with dope. the thing that troubles me is your bf wants a mother, not a partner. he may have the best intentions, but he is taking advantage of you whether he means to or not. eventually you will come to realize that you need someone who can take care of you as much as you take care of them and he may not be able to be that person. if you get married and/or have kids in the meantime, it's gonna be one big mess. there are a lot of very smart people on this site, and the ones who have taken their time to reply to your post are not wrong. i hope like hell that you take the advice given you, because if you don't now you will most likely come to regret it later in life. if you want to be a mommy to this guy it's your business, but i see the day coming when you say, "hey, what about me?" and i don't think your current bf will be able to answer that question. i know this isn't the response you're looking for, but it is the truth as i see it. best of luck to you both.
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hmm. so if i understand you correctly, either he told you he loved you and he lied, or he told you he has no emotions and he lied. either way, it would be a dealbreaker for me. i'd have to put my money on the horse named "you can do better".
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"I don't trust a man who never cries." - Gen. Norman Schwarzkopf, U.S. commander of Desert Storm
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just for kicks i decided to do exactly that, just to post what would come up. first 5: Black Flag - Nervous Breakdown Simple Plan - Untitled Portishead - Nobody Loves Me (Massive Attack mix) Nirvana - Where Did You Sleep Last Night Protocol - Where's The Pleasure not a boner baiter in the bunch. in fact, none of the 200 files that came up would put me in the mood, except maybe the instrumental "un sospiro" by franz liszt (and how did that get in there?) i am so not sexy, lol
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i was gonna say that my woman tells me to move over, but tod kinda beat me to it.
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*turning Japanese* go on, tell us more. what's she look like?
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hmm, well... this is one more reason why i like 69 so much. nobody gets screwed. pun half intended.
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everyone is mentally ill. some just hide it better than others.
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Gucci handbag, lmao. well, i guess i deserved that one. wrong city, tho. i'm near LA. norcal is like a totally different world to me.
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you're in a tough spot, and i feel for you. i fell in love with a girl 17 years younger (41/23). half-chinese, half-japanese, and 100% OC born and raised. it seemed that we had everything in common. no sex, not even kissing, because i was married and couldn't break my vows even after i found out about my wife's betrayal because there were children involved. but man, i literally saw stars around this girl. i never knew that feelings that deep even existed; i thought they were made up by poets and dreamers. cut to the chase: she gave up on me when she realized that i was going to stay at home until the kids were on their own feet. now i walk around with a lightning rod on my head, just hoping... finish raising your daughter. it's the only respectable thing to do. omg i think i'm gonna cry. [edit: sorry, she was 24 when i fell. and yup, i'm gonna cry.]
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lately I have wondered how did love come to exist was there prehistoric passion tell me, how'd it come to this when did the primal human say his partner was his life did he sing a primal love song on a primal moonlit night will they still need arms around them in a hundred million years will they comfort one another, shedding futuristic tears do you think love is eternal I really want to know how long, how far lately I have wondered was there ever love on Mars did they ponder Martian sorrow as they cried and played guitar is there someone kneeling a universe away pledging loyalty forever like i want to every day do they ache on other planets when a lover strays from home do they lie there waiting, suffocating, feeling so alone do you think love could be out there i really want to know how long, how far how long, how far lately I have wondered though I may not ever know why you never come to see me and why do I love you so when will I forget you do these teardrops ever dry will i ever lose this feeling will I miss you 'til I die will I miss you 'til I die I will miss you... goodbye. © slightlybent/Hear No Evil Music
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oh, and tyler 2004]the real pacific southwest, BC! them's fightin' words! (j/k bud)
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i was so over this thread but the convo has changed a lot so i had to say... get a room, you two! lol
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SxcLady and TiredMan, you guys argue like a married couple lol viva la 69!