laura_5000
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The first thing that came to me when reading this was she lied about it, I had a similar thing happen to me when me and my x split up for a while and I still don't know the real truth now. It's not the fact of what happened its the fact that she lied, I would ask yourself will you ever be able to forgive her for lieing and if so will you be able to carry on your relationship without EVER bringing it up? I know it doesn't seem very important but if you ever bring it up it could not work between you. This is why me & my x split up because of all the lies. I would speak to her and tell her how you feel and see if you can sort it out. Good luck!
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I don't like chat up lines they are so sleezy and don't seem genuine one bit, they say to be do you fancy a one night stand? Obviously that is not always the case but thats how they come accross.
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Ok recently I have had a lot of problems with my life, I have been feeling down a lot more than happy and I have had problems with uni and my weight. Ok firstly my weight im not exactly big but I am a little over weight say 5 pounds but it is really getting me down. I have joined a weightloss club and hopefully that will help me but I just can't get motivated to start reading through the book etc. Secondly my uni is getting me down I have an exam in about a week and I havent even revised one bit, which means I will probably fail. Again I can't get motivated one bit. Lastly I don't have a boyfriend and although I like somone they don't want a relationship, I just feel things aren't going my way at the moment and I can't seem to sort things out. I know that people are a lot more worse off than me but I can't seem to get motivated and get on with it...... Views? Do you think I have depression? I don't know what to do.
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Seems to me he wants best of both worlds, he likes you but doesn't want a relationship but also doesn't want you to get with anyone else (although he is saying he doesn't mind). I wouldn't hold your breath to be honest, I have been in this situation before.
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Unless your a very good actor I am sure he will have an idea that your are faking it. Its not bad that you can't have an orgasm with him and if I am being honest I have never had one with a boyfriend and apparently its a lot harder for women to have one.
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Thats good advise, thanks. I know that there is never going to be a relationship out of it so I do need to stop thinking about him like that.
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Yeh nothings going to happen there anymore, he is young & doesnt want a relationship which is fair enough just hard when you have been with them for about 5 months. I don't understand why the ones you like don't want a relationship but the ones you don't fancy want a relationship with you. Why can't it all be straight forward
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I have met quite a few there but none that I like, I think I am a bit fussy to be honest.
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I cheated on my x boyfriend when I was with him for about 2 years, at the time we were going through a rough patch but there was still no excuse. I tried to keep it from him but I felt to guilty and told him, it wasn't something I could keep from him in the end. We did manage to work it out but I have learnt that we were never ment to be otherwise I wouldn't have done it. I wouldn't cheat again though, I seen how much it hurt him.
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I have to go to the football as I have been going every season since I was about 10, I love watching my team. I supose everyone has to be around people that they really like so I will have to just get over it.
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The problem is we go to watch a local football team weekly so I can't take a break, even though I wont be going with him I will still see him. I am sure I will be ok but its just so hard when you really like someone.
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What do you do when you really like somone and they don't want you? I was seeing someone who was younger than me for a while (about 6 months) but because he didnt want a relationship (he had recently came out of a relationship) I ended it as I was falling for him. Throughout are time togther he told me he loved me and I believed that he did or thought he did but because he is only just 18 he didnt want another relationship. Anyway we stoped seeing eachother about 3 months ago but we are still friends which I was fine with but lately I have started to want more again... the thing is I see him often and its so hard to get him out of my mind and move on. What do you do when you really like someone but you can't have them? Help!
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Life does seem hard for you and I have had the same suicidal feelings as you this year but don't lose hope, things will get better. I would get rid of your girlfriend she doesn't seem good for you at all and as you said you can get better.
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Thanks I will try some talc. I am thinking of maybe in the future of getting lipo suction done as nothing seems to shift the excess fat from that area.
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I don't think there is anything wrong with your situation, I recently dated a guy who was almost 4 years younger than me and we got on really well. It does sound like she may fancy you.