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the yang to the worlds yin

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  1. you know what interests me? how so many people that have had such heartbreak, automatically assume it w because THEY were too good or too nice.i mean maybe it's easier to think that the other person took forgranted, but it would seem that with most relationships, no ones all that perfect. their hard, they take work and so much compromise, and for one party to feel it's totally one sided, just seems like suggestive tihnking to me. however, i do not mean to persecute you here or anything, just a thought for the broad spectrum of society.
  2. i think it would hurt most if they had an emotional connection, however, definitely the end of the yellow brick road if either were to occur. =P
  3. i disagree to an extent. i feel that a kind guy shows a surplus of confidence and that those that put up a false cherade in order to appear more confident are truly the less confident of the two. don't let people take you forgranted, but don't change the way you treat others in order to convey a message. plus i always had a soft spot for kind gentleman.
  4. it's not at all ridiculous that you desired that., and i think most woman have reacted just as you did. perhaps you should sit him down and tell him in all honesty what you told us. he may be really nervousand thats why he seems so aloof.
  5. well knowing how to pronounce your vocabulary well definitely speeds up the process, even if just reading in your head. you could also just practice, i was a terribly slow typer, and as i began to type more and more my typing rate excelled quite a bit. so read more often during your breaks. theres no real shortcut way to comprehend or improve your reading skills besides good ol'e fashioned practice
  6. i don't really see a problem with my partner using/ watching porn, as long as that isn't replacing our intimacy. then i can understand why a woman may have issues with it. aside from that, the occasional view of it, isn't a big deal
  7. everyone makes their own choices ad has their own situations in life, now if you elieve something jay happen, then yes, you may subconsciousely actually live out what the " psychic" said. but do i believe someone else knows my future, not a chance.
  8. i think with speed dating it would be pretty hard to figure out who you wanted to get to know better amd who you didn't. based entirely off of appearances, sure you could do it. but appearances only go so far when your sitting down with a person who you can't have a 5 minute convo with. but if it's something you feel could benefit you, then i say go for it!
  9. i think caldus summed everything i would have said/ thought, perfectly.
  10. the " i think i'vegot a date" means she may see you as a friend, but she's probably trying to make it clear, your ONLY a friend.
  11. i'm sorry but it sounds like he found someone else and when that idn't work he came running back to you. if you were to go back to the way things used to be with him, it's vry possible the same thing would occur again.
  12. he sounds like he seems to be degrading your relationship, why put up with it?
  13. the greatest teacher i ever had nurtured my talent/hobby of reading. she showed me new books i could read in class everyday and continually held her tongue when she found my reading during her classes. she even went as far as to tell my mother whst a great reader i was, without complaining to her that i had payed little attention to any other subject. the only downfall was my grades suffered because of it =P
  14. well he says he's into you, so just enjoy it for now and continue on like you were before, but if it's really bugging you, just ask him if you two are exclusive.
  15. sounds like he just really does want to take things at your own pace, and i'm guessing he just doesn't want to upset you or have you think that just because he's making a suggestion, that you have to go alongg with it. he sounds really nice for you. anyways, i'm pretty naive too, but link removed has a great article on it. type in " sexual positions" that should help.
  16. i agree with jojean. it's those little things that most women really appreciate, like a sudden hug, or saying something sentimenal unexpectedly. or maybe just showing her a little extra attention and letting her know you really appreciate the things she does for you too. just try and spice things up a little, and i'm sure she'll be incredibly grateful for it ; )
  17. it sounds like your friends being a little selfish. just explain to her that though you thoroughly enjoyed the time you spent with her, and the future times you will, that your really only going out there for some private time with him. surely thats understandable. by the way, have a great time there =)
  18. taking ambien by any chance i believe that may be the article princessdiana75 is referring to. a side affect of ambien in many people was sleep-driving, or sleep-intercourse.
  19. i don't believe my mother would allow it, however she has been known to allow stuff that i would never even conceive as possible for a parent to allow. so who knows =P
  20. i know exactly how you feel. but there comes a point were you just have to trust that if it's deep inside her to cheat, she will whether sober or not. but if she's a faithful person to you so far, i really don't see a need to worry about that. as for them being in danger by possibly doing stupid things, well just trust that she'll still have her commen sense. i know it's not easy, but it's gonna get to you everytime she goes out, and she may start to regret that
  21. NJRon's right, this guys gonna hurt you if you let him. he's trying to see just how many females he can get because for him it's this whole new sort of ego boost and it's making him feel confident and great about himself. normally feeling confident would be good, but not at all when it comes to the expense of others, move on.
  22. honey if your boyfriend doesn't mind, then don't worry, he cares for you just the way you are. if he says he loves it, then he probably does. and i think were all a little self conscious when it comes to that region of our body, it's natural. everyones the same but slightly different, and that difference is scary because were not sure how people will react to whatever difference we have. i mean i have a rather big behind for someone as tiny as me, but my boyfriend couldn't be any happier about it. now am i self conscious about it, yes.. but thats just us. and were our own worst critics anyways =P
  23. you've been dating her for two years and are ready to give up on her this quickly? honestly if you love her and think you can make it work, then do so.
  24. my companions a " nice" guy, it's one of the biggest reasons i fell for him, trust me, anyone who says that being a compassionate person, merely has different priorities
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