weirdya

hello there, How you feel about yourself and your body has a lot to do with self-esteem, sometimes ppl feel that they would like themselves better and be happier "if only" they looked differently. This is simply NOT true. Self-esteem and happiness come from within.well... You need to start appreciating yourself If you hate how your body looks, there are things you can do to feel better about yourself. Learning to LIKE yourself as you are right now. i am very sure that there is nothing wrong with you its all about how you think about yourself. try to accept yourself and you'll be happy. liquid dream..ur beautiful don't let people around you make you think otherwise.

Ta ree saw, thanks i appreciate your advice i think it will help me alot, i guess teenagers are hard to handle but ill try my best..thanks all wish me luck

wow, thanks guys i loved ur answers its a big inpiration for me..southerngirl i dont think ill forget those words too..thanks alot god bless ya all

hi, i am looking for a good advice on how to deal with students since am going to be a teacher very soon and am kind of new to this. i am very confident that i will be teaching students very well but what am worrying about is that am kind of not sure how to deal with them personally..am a very easy going person, i like to make people happy so am afraid i wont be fair with my students..i just need to know how a teacher should deal with students perfectly without causing any kind of problems..students of high school or intermidiate..am not sure yet.. i hope i get a good advice on this please. or maybe you could tell me how the greatest teacher in your life affected you and how was he/she dealing with you? any suggestions? thank you

James says, “The core element running through my songs is the lonely path one walks through life, the connections you make, and the thoughts that you don’t generally share with people. The songs are about life experiences that anyone can identify with. It’s just about being a human being. And people seem to be connecting with that.” maybe thats somehow what he means? am not sure..i need to know

try watchin Elezabethtown..this movie really gives u a clue of what to do somehow..there is nothin to be afraid of..nothin is worth worryin about ..life is short u know.. god bless ya

hi everyone, the other day i was listenin to some beautiful song by james blunt but am not sure what the lyrics actually mean..this song really touched me so i really want to know what it really means..would anyone explain plz? espacially the first part..who is leaving who? and whats the story? here are the lyrics James Blunt - Goodbye My Lover Lyrics Did I disappoint you or let you down? Should I be feeling guilty or let the judges frown? 'Cause I saw the end before we'd begun, Yes I saw you were blinded and I knew I had won. So I took what's mine by eternal right. Took your soul out into the night. It may be over but it won't stop there, I am here for you if you'd only care. You touched my heart you touched my soul. You changed my life and all my goals. And love is blind and that I knew when, My heart was blinded by you. I've kissed your lips and held your head. Shared your dreams and shared your bed. I know you well, I know your smell. I've been addicted to you. Goodbye my lover. Goodbye my friend. You have been the one. You have been the one for me. I am a dreamer but when I wake, You can't break my spirit - it's my dreams you take. And as you move on, remember me, Remember us and all we used to be I've seen you cry, I've seen you smile. I've watched you sleeping for a while. I'd be the father of your child. I'd spend a lifetime with you. I know your fears and you know mine. We've had our doubts but now we're fine, And I love you, I swear that's true. I cannot live without you. Goodbye my lover. Goodbye my friend. You have been the one. You have been the one for me. And I still hold your hand in mine. In mine when I'm asleep. And I will bear my soul in time, When I'm kneeling at your feet. Goodbye my lover. Goodbye my friend. You have been the one. You have been the one for me. I'm so hollow, baby, I'm so hollow. I'm so, I'm so, I'm so hollow.

kellbell..love u

Rebel, hk87, and DN..guys thanks alot really i loved ur replies . thanks for makin me feel lil better..i guess am gonna hangout and have fun by myself ..am gonna make it a real special day God bless u all

well, i dunno why am writing this here ..but its all i can do now..i mean ,,its my bday now and am totally lonely..i feel like am not loved, none of my friends or family remember its my bday i guess..didnt get any messages or calls am so depressed ..shouldnt i be happy! i dunno but am thinkin of goin out tomorrow but i dont like hangin out alone i want my bday a happy one how can i do that? and the fact is that i dont have anyone to celebrate it with??? its a special day i dont wanna lose stayin home watchin tv ...HELP PLZ AM SO DEPRESSED

iwantherback...i realise you miss her alot and want her back..and i know its NOT easy, what am sayin is that the only way to feel better is to try to forget her in any way you can..ofcourse you will never totally forget about her but you can live your life normally.. i've been through this..and time is the only healer..but its you who can make time go fast or slow. good luck

so, here is the thing..i've never been so in love before..and valantine's is comin as u all know..i need to know how can i be romantic..i've got lil experience in this..i wanna make him happy and i want to have a special day with him..what kinda gift should i get him? what should i say and how should i act? any suggestions ,comments? maybe stories? its my first valantine's i always get to breakup with my ex bfs right before this day..this time..am celebratin it HELP

the thing is..she's still young..she probably isnt sure if she likes u or not either..the jokes are just jokes..even if she likes you and you get to like her i don't think it will ever work out with you two its kinda hard to have a relationship with your friend's sister! it would only get more complicated and if it does you might lose your friend. i dont think you would like her anyway! i mean you didnt notice her until she started those jokes with you isnt that right? she's still too young and not mature enuff to be in any serious relationship ..you might want to consider that its very important..you dont wanna break hearts don't you. i think you should first think about your friend before anything else. one time she acts like she likes you another time she acts like she doesn't care..am tellin you she's playin man or she simply doesn't know how to deal with this thing as i said she's still young.

well, i dunno how to start this but for two weeks now i hardly sleep without thinkin of what happened between my friend and i, I had a fight with her over what anyone might see as a silly thing..but not to me.. Last time we hanged out, about two weeks ago, we stopped talkin to each other since then. The thing is that we are used to go out to the same places every friday for over a year now! the same senario happens every friday we start goin to some cafe then end up in the same restaurant..because of this routine i decided i wanna change the places i usualy hang out with her so i talked to her over and over but she kept refusing until i finally had it! i just shouted at her the other day tellin her that she has no appreciation for me and for what i want.. i go out with her to the places she wants not me..the only time i wanet to change she simply doesnt care and wants everythin goes her way and the way she likes it NOT me! how selfish! now two weeks after..am not sure whos wrong .. i refuse to call and she refuses to call .. i miss her sometimes but whenever i remember how mean she gets i simply hate her again..we've been friends for 6 years now ..am not sure am doin the right thing here but i dont wanna get back to her and the same thing happens all over again..she never quits and i talked alot about it with her but no use..what should i do? should i just forget about her or should i call her although am kinda sure it wont work for a long time..am confused ..help please.. its not like i left her for this fight only but its more complicated ..she gets selfish in many things and she never cares about me and what i want. its all about her and her life in all ways.. maybe i let her be selfish? maybe its my fault? is it?

Well, congratulations i guess u deserve it..this is just the beginning of a new happy life with your kids hopefully. The fact the you let your ex see her kids from time to time is a really positive and great idea. Its indeed a good news though i don't really know you yet am happy for you and am glad that everything went well..good luck