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  1. Oh wow!!!!!!! Congratulations southerngirl!!!!
  2. I know when I was younger a marketing agency or someone asked me to fill out a 5 page report on a few cd stores, and so i did and ended up making 200dollars. So i know there are some legitimate ones out there, however most of the ones online seem to be phoney.
  3. Aggierocker, it's easy to say one thing and do another. When in a situation where your pretty much cornered, perhaps it isn't so easy to resist, like you seem to believe. In theory, I fully agree to fight like heck about it. But i also know, i'd probably be terrified had I been one of those females.
  4. I read that as well. My guess is they probably had a lack of money and insurance, and this guy was able to prey on one of a womans worst fears.( breast cancer)
  5. Sorry to hear that happened to you. I know what you mean though, after my ex pretty much told me he had stringed me along without having any feelings for me for a good few months, and then made it clear how he didn't care how any of his words made me feel, I was over him in a matter of a few days. It's really surprising but the worse a person hurts you, sometimes makes it the easiest to get over them. ( Does not however mean ANYONE should go around purpousely hurting people they were once with obviousely)
  6. I've seriousely got to get your doctor Beyondthesea, sounds like they really know what their doing.
  7. congratulations on the soon to be engagement then!
  8. Haha, you know I share your exact feelings Jonny. Frankly i haven't danced in a long time, and I happen to be pretty shy at times. So though I know I can dance, I just worry about embarrassing myself if I do. The best way to probably get over the embarrassment factor is just to realise that many people make afool of themselves, but it's the way they handle it that either makes them great company, or makes them look embarrassed.
  9. Everyone enjoys attention from time to time, it gives us a nice little ego boost. As long as she isn't pursueing or flirting with those men, I wouldn't worry too much.All she has to do is say thank you when they compliment her, then either walk away or move to the next subject.
  10. He sounds confused, but take it from someone who's been through the whole boyfriend saying he has no feelings left thing... RUN!!!!!!!!! The longer you stay and convince yourself he's gonna feel for you again, the worse it's going to hurt..
  11. Completely normal, but if your not comfortable about it, then just let her know.
  12. Not really much of a list person, and I'm pretty adaptable, but there are a few things I've picked up in the past 2 years. 1. Can't smoke, nor do any sort of drugs. 2. Not a heavy drinker 3. Needs to be able to have good convo's with me 4. Doesn't tell me to stop it, if I'm upset and crying. Yup, thats all.
  13. I agree with Energismus. It sounds like he's just so stressed from his parents leaving each other, that he just wants some time with the friends. Sometimes easier to run to friends than to run to a companion. Apologize to him for threatening to break up, tell him you didn't understand before, but now you do and that you'll be there when he's ready to talk. THEN just give him some space, he probably still cares, but he does sound like he needs some time to think about his life in general.
  14. I'm so sorry luckycharms. I can't even imagine how hard that must be for you, but you are doing the right thing by taking time to help and focus on yourself right now. If it helps, I just gave up on being friends with my ex too. I know how hard it is, because sometimes you feel like you may be missing out on something, but in the end i guess we both know, you've got to do whats best for yourself at the moment.
  15. 1. Yes 2. Of course 3. Haha, were accross the country from each other, were that to happen I'd be shocked =P 4. Not entirely, no. 5. Wow.... umm, it would definitely depend on the basis on which he was asking. 6. Focusing on being friends with him rather than anything more.
  16. Hmm... that does make quite a bit of sense actually.
  17. But you sound like your doing everything you can, what more can you expect of yourself. It's ok to be frustrated.It's so hard to find a job in this day and age, and many people are affected by that. You sound like you've really got your act together though, so i'm sure you'll find what your looking for. =)
  18. Friends are something special. Many times they'll be there no matter who your with that year or month or etc. I know with my friends i behaved FAR more differently than i ever did with my ex. With my friends I was a total goof off, I danced with them in public to music that was just playing in our heads, and I had absolutely no reservations at all when it came to not embarrassing myself. However with my ex I would try and focus more on being calmer and more intellectual because I felt that, that was the side of me that was most appropiate to show to him. So you see? Though your important to her, so is her friend, and though she acts differently around the friend and you, she's just trying to do what feels natural in front of the different company.
  19. I think your showing us in this comment, exactly what most of us may be thinking, or at least I am. You focus on the hard, on what you won't get, on what everyone else has. Why not focus on what you've achieved so far, on whats good in your life, on how hard you've worked and be proud of that. Just because one persons life " seems" easy does not make it so. You can't go around life thinking about the negatives and what everyone but you has, because i've seen it happen and those people turn out to be very very bitter.
  20. I'd personally say to give her the answer, and speak of nothing else.
  21. Can i see a picture of you? And heh, yes theres girls around them, but ever thought what type of girl would try and go after guys who showed not the slightest bit of interest in any of them? Most likely not a very sincere nor secure female. And Family Guy is a fantastic show by the way : )
  22. Hey, no being down on yourself like that. You have traits that make you just as great as any other guy. And well it sure is hard, but never hurts to try, right? By the way, you always seem so down on yourself about your looks, why?
  23. Call him up, and ask him sincerely how he's feeling. I've heard that wisdom teeth being pulled is an incredibly excruciating thing, and often times, things can go wrong even after the procedure. He may be one of those cases. Give him some time though, he's probably just really stressed right now and doesn't have much time to talk.
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