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the yang to the worlds yin

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  1. Your parents are just concerned for your well being, it's not that their doing this because they don't understand. Simply because they care and are afraid that something negative may come of the relationship.
  2. I'm so sorry, I've never been married so I can't imagine how this must feel to you, but I can think of a few tips to perhaps help you rebuild your life and self again. When you start to feel empty, don't focus on him, but focus on yourself, write a list to begin with of the things that you enjoy doing and the great things about yourself. Hopefully that'll remind you of what you do deserve and what you don't deserve. What you don't deserve is a man who clearly has his heart somewhere else. It hurts now, but as time and healing comes, you'll see how much better you can be treated by friends and others. You never deserve to be mistreated, but sometimes it happens and thats when you need to fully cut both your losses and the people that did so.
  3. I know right now your thrilled to have met someone so great, and congratulations to you both =) But slow down, you met a week ago and are already in love? You can't spend two weeks without her? If you rush so fast now, what will there be to enjoy later on.
  4. I fully agree that looks do come into play, it's your way of telling woman to achieve them that i thought was silly.
  5. I'm sorry, I feel the strong urge to counter your statement. Why should a girl try and change how she look or " better" herself by applying ton's of makeup? If the guy isn't shallow then perhaps he'll like her for her, and not for the 2 tons of makeup you suggest she put on.
  6. Yes i would imagine you did disappoint her, but you also showed you weren't into games. I'd say you made the right choice.
  7. She sounds like she's trying to make you jealous with the pictures and just playing games. My suggestion is just to find someone else.
  8. If you would like for him to ask you out, but he's too nervous, why not just help the guy out and ask him instead of the other way around? If you both like each other, who makes the big move isn't of much importance.
  9. Well back in sophmore year of highschool I was dared to smack a newly aquainted male friends behind and we nearly ended up dating... Do i suggest this though...NO! LOL.
  10. Nothing you can do can make a persons old feelings for another change, although you can be the best person you hope to be and figure thats enough. But the feelings part is up to them unfortunately.
  11. Can i be honest? When my partner stopped feeling attracted to me in that sort of way, it was because he stopped being happy with the relationship. Perhaps it goes deeper than just sex?
  12. Well I was all set and ready to answer this, but aside from my ex I've only been asked out on a date once and I agreed. However, what ever happened to just telling them you don't think of them that way? People see through excuses, might as well be honest with them.
  13. You sound like a really sweet guy and she's definitely lucky to have someone that cares so much. Tell her exactly what you told us =)
  14. Don't worry, I'm an open book most of the time. And no, nothing to do with our ages. He wasn't really ready I guess to dedicate the energy it took to make a relationship work, and I questioned too much too often. We weren't right as a couple, but thankfully with enough space we are good as friends.
  15. Yes, I am 16 and my ex just recently turned 21 right before we broke up. I did feel weird when he would go to parties( rarely) or drink, because that obviosuely wasn't really sometihng i could do. However I always felt like his equal in most ways. I've seen your posts, if you like this guy, then go for it hun, stop letting these little what if fears get in the way. They got me at first, so i see where your coming from, but age gap relationships are more commen than once thought. Just don't let him rush you into anything.
  16. I disagree with betty rubble. She would have found someone else to have an affair with. Then again i'm not nearly as nice as the poor woman thats going through this, so I have no issue calling the other woman a skank. ( not positive if it's a curse word, if it is, i'm deeply sorry moderaters.)
  17. And it's far from a foolish heart, don't let anyone tell you differently.
  18. I think we can all relate to that every once in a while Monsieur.I mean who doesn't want to be loved back by the objects of their affection?
  19. Hey, turn that frown upside down. You said it yourself, it's a beautiful day, so go jogging or for a nice walk and get those enodrphins pumping( endoprhins will help create a " happy" feeling) I know what you mean, but those changes may not be seen by her, so unfortunately it's all for you buddy. But hey, thats great though because then you'll be focused on helping yourself out instead of thinking about the ex. I know that helps me sometimes too.
  20. I firmly believe aggierocker is merely trying to get under our skin.
  21. I may just be a cheesy romantic, but that is quite possibly the sweetest thing I have ever heard. You can't help but feel bad for the guy when it's put that way.
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