westerlie_nine

Yea, he definitely needs help, This will be his last chance and it's up to him now. I'm thinking if he does really loves me like he says then he'll get help himself and put away his porn and window peeping. He has two chose now, porn or me?

Yea, good point. Sadly I do love him, but no I don't even know if I wanna marry him now. He can end up getting arrested looking through window. Thing is sometimes he does says he wishes he can do something about it that would make that addiction go over, he always like "I dunno wut to do about this, I can't really help it, I can keep still without looking outside or going to the comp". But yea, if he wanted to fix it, he would get therapy right away when I aked him to for like the 8th time, he won't listen. As of now I'm thinking of giving him the final chance either fixing it and getting therapy or I'm leaving. Wut if we end up having kids, and one of them catches him with porns, then I can't imagine wut the kid's gonna say, think.

Hey all, Before the two of us got serious, he did admitted that he was kinda like a porn addict and also like having phone sex and nothing to stop him from it, but oh well I guess I saw nothing wrong in that. Cuz see his ex broke up with him cuz she thought that was cheating. He goes online, and basically talks dirty to girls and tells him false names and lies baout the address, says he just does it for fun. It's always been like this in our 3 year relation, but now I dunno if I wanna marry him, feel like this would create problems, and he does admit he has a problem over it, he says it's like a drug addiction. What bothers me the most is that lately for the past 4 months I did caught looking at the window, he didn't deny when ask. He told me he was looking at a girl undressing cuz he say it arouses him. He's like "I dunno what to you, I can't help it." Any suggestions people, I'm guessing maybe he really does need therapy. I try talkinh to him about it, he says thought he does have a problem over pron and looking out the window, says it's not really a big deal.