mak_33

alright well I'm with this girl we have been dating for like 2 years I'm on my second year of college and she is in her last year of high school. Since i moved away we only talk about msn the most. She is going to college next year and that pretty far away from me. were both young and she wants marrige and stuff while i still want to discover myself. I recentaly statred acting and modeling and they want me to gain more experience by touring with a fashion show. I told her about this and how we wouldn't work because it's to hard and she was crushed. The next time i talked to we went back to exactly how it was before flirting and talking. I really love her but should i continue showing it and hurt her in the long run? or turn my back on her and walk away. I just don't want to hurt her. any help would help

well it a long story sorry... well I have a g/f and we ahve been dating for almost 3 years. The problem was that we ended uo going to different school after high school but we were in love enough to do the whole long distance thing. There was this program to go to school over sea and travel and i decided that i would go and knowing this it would be even harder to talk to eachother so we decided to end it. At the moment but pick up after if the chance came up. Like a 3 weeks ago i talked to her agian and we were still in love and told eachother but we never actully talked about if we were actully back "together" then that was it and after me and my friends got into a little fight and made a scene that we decided just to head back to school and forget about the over seas stuff. So i came back and we talked but she was like I'm not the type of girl that u can drop when u leave and just expect me to come back with you. And I mean she was right but liek 3 weeks ago when we were talking she seemed to ok telling me she loved me! but anyway we got into a fight and I was mad like jeeze i still love her I'm not being concited or anything but I am good looking well more then she is for a women and alot of girls go me but I keep saying no cause i love but what am i suppose to do she wants time to think I don't want her to think if she loves as much as I do for her she just as to be like omg I'm glade ur back i love you. But NO! the worst part is that when i see her on msn she has a new guys name so i did the same with a girls name with a kiss then she added a heart to him like what does this all mean?? what do I do...

I don't know what to do.... me and my g/f have been dating for a while now and since I'm away for school we talk everyday and were close. Anyways I had a big football game the other day and i lost and I gues i am a sore loser and loser gets me really down. So i guess when i talked to her I was alittle off and acting distant and she new it was because i lost and she said IT IS JUST A GAME! When I heard i flipped out at her I didn't mean too I love her I'm crazy about ehr but I guess it it me hard because I based my life around sports and I am very compeditive and the fact that she just acts like it is just a game makes me think that throgh evrything me and her do together she doesn't get me....I mean i would joke about everything but when I play sports it the most serious thing to me and it is not just a game it's like my life but I didn't mean to freak out it just made me feel so mad that things she thinks are important I could careless about what i would never act like it is worthless even tho I know she was trying to make me feel better....and i mean the game it wasn't like it was a normal game and i all mad I would normaly get over it but this game was our rivals it was big for me it was MY game.... what should I do? what should I say to my g/f because I just left I never really talked to her about...

well it all started like wednesday where my g/f e-mailed me saying she wouldn't be on and I was like ok and I was talking to her friend well not really her friend she sorta hates her and all but she was telling me how my g/f always lies and flirts with everyone and after talking to her it got me really mad at my g/f. The next day my g/f didn't come online again and I waited and i was kind of really mad but still she always has a reason but i ended talking to the girl again and we started talking for like 4 hours and she told me that my g/f is just filled with crap and she lies all the time again and that I'm wasting my time and the worst thing is she des have a past record of lying to em so it is really hard to beileve her. Well today iw as talking to her and she said sorry for not coming on and she loves me etc.. and the girl also got her friend to back up on all the lying and i got really mad so I told my g/f that I thought it would be best to break up and she said she never did anything that i should break up and that she doesn't want to cause she loves me but I have alot of trust with the girl that told me all this I know she likes likes me but still we talk about everything i tell ehr things I don't even tell my g/f. What do u guys think about everything?

Well I have been with this girl for a while and I',m crazy about her. Since iw ent off to collage we have been in a long distance relationship and we both are all into eachother and talk every day. But latly we have been just joking around as friends and it great right cause she is like my best friend but when she brings up how much she loves me I just go i love you too and thats it I know she wants to hear more but I just can't express my self because I don't know what to say. She knows I don't like to talk about feelings and thats what we usally fight about how it seems I don't even care but when I try to tell her how i feel it seems like it is forced .... Like I'm saying it because she is mad or because I want something but really I just don't know how to say it and if I do say it i can only say one thing and i know she wants to hear more but I got nothing more. Anyone know what i should do? what i should say? what girls want to hear? anything would be really helpful

So me and my g/f broke up about a month ago and yesterday we got back together. But i kinda think that she is just going back with me because I kinda made her. Last night she was all like we should be friends and it got me kinda mad and I was like fine and she was leaving and and I was like fine bye buddy and then she was asking all thses question and she told me that she wanted me but I stopped her from leaving if she left we would have been just friends but I didn't let her and became more but maybe she just did that so she would leave....but for her to take me back I had to promise not to hurt her again and notice that she has feelings or something like that does she really want me back or is he just doing it because she doesn't want to hurt me....and i know we weren't together for a month but why do i HAVE to have her when I can kinda tell I'm a little over her...

I could try but the fact that she was really mad because knew it was cause of the other girl and it not liek ic an say no i didn't ask her out because she won't beileve it

yeah kinda I told her it was werid not talking to her and I missed not tlaking to her she never e-mailed back

well it all started last week when I finally broek up with my g/f last week. I mean I really cared about her and I still do but at the time i guess Iw as getting really fedup about everything. We are doing the long distance since I went out for university. Well I met a girl named Brit and i like her but I was crazy about my g/f. But then Brit really started pushing for me and we became good friend and we spent all the time together my g/f didn't like it but it's not like she could do anything so she TRUSTED me. But then last week i thought i made my decsion and I dumped my g/f for brit and I thought i was happy but I'm really missing her I didn't even ask out brit out because all I care about is my ex g/f. But ti seems like my ex wants nothing about me now I e-mailed ehr for her brithday and not even a thank you . I get it Iw as a total jerk but what can I do? I just want her back....any advice please