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Hey folks, just wanting to know, what type of sex positions could I try which might bring my girlfriend to orgasm. We try a couple of techniques, but she never comes during sex, it's always during foreplay. Is there any which might bring this forth?!

I'm just curious about the physical signs that a girl shows when she's orgasmed? Or the things that I should be looking out for to see that she is climaxing? Etc.. you know the grist of it! Comments please!

Ok, here's the question, do women like recieving oral sex? If so, what can a man do in order to initiate it and what special things do you / would need to do to 'warm up'? I'm a complete novice when it comes to giving oral to women, but I would like to know how to give it. My girl gives me but I want to give her! Give / take thing. Any responses welcome. Short and sweet little question, but one which I wanted to ask all you fantastic enotaloners! Cheers in advance!

It's about 250 miles. It takes 3 hours to get there. It may not sound a lot, but it's far enough!

Hey folks, wanting to know your thoughts on a couple of things, so... here goes! I'm in a long distance relationship and it's going great, my girl is fantastic! Really care for her, but maybe i'm caring and worrying too much. For example, last night being St. Paddy's, I was out in town with a few mates, and my girlfriend was working until late. I phoned her quite late to see how her night was going as she headed out after work. She said she was on her way home from a bash in town with a few of her gay pals, but she met this crowd of fellas, who were friends of a friend (who said they were also gay) and went back to their house. I began to worry as this is not the first time she has gone back to a strangers house, thankfully nothing has happened, but when I asked her about it, she got really upset and kept saying, 'dont you trust me?'. Back to last night, should I be worried? It just freaks me out that when she's out having a good night, I don't want anything bad to happen to her. I haven't heard from her today, but I have butterflies in my stomach all morning. It's maybe nothing, but the thought of when the drinks in, the sense is out, and because i'm not there... I suppose I worry. Any posts would be more than welcome!

Everyone's heard about it, some people swear by it.. but is there such a thing as a G-spot? If there is, pray tell... where is it?! I want to know as I want to surprise my girlfriend and give her the best orgasm that she won't forget! Cheers!

Thanks folks, I don't want to break up with her at all. I'm just worried in case she finds some other man while i'm out of the country and falls for him instead! Maybe these are fears which I shouldn't even be thinking, but it's still there...

I've been in a long distance relationship for four months now, my gf is 200 miles away at another uni, but it's going great! I only get to see her every other week or so on average, but lately I haven't seen her for a month, and it's tough, but I am always ecstatic when I see her again. Unfortunately i'm out of the country for three months in the summer, but she has said she would wait for me. The main thing is to really trust her and if you both want it to work, it will. It is really difficult sometimes, but just keep thinking of the great times your going to have with her when you both meet up again! It definitely sounds like your onto a good thing there! Hold on to it. Not many people can say they had a great LDR! Hope this helps, an all the best!

Hey, been a little while since I've been on, but I've got another little creak in the door of relationships! I've been seeing my girlfriend for over four months now, and everything is going great. Its a long distance relationship, so it's hard enough, but my work has got on top of me and I need to get a few reports done over the next couple of days. I said I might go and see her, but decided to sort out my work instead. Thus leading her to get slightly upset, but that 'she understands' Anyhow, I know she's disappointed, as the next couple of weekends she's working and not a lot of time to spend with me. In essense, it will be a month until I possibly get to see her! But getting onto the most important factor (sorry for rambling), but I'm going away for three months as part of a research expedition, she said on the phone, it's hard for her not to see me for one week, so what will it be like if I'm gone for three months... This question is puzzling me somewhat. I kept saying, I'm just looking forward to when I get back to see her, of the great times I know we'll have and how much we will appreciate each other, that the time will pass quickly, but also I'm thinking, maybe we should break up for the period. I don't want this to happen, as it would break my heart. She's just so wonderful, but I don't want her to think I'm abandoning her, and I just don't know what to say to her. She keeps saying I'm going to be having loads of fun but it's going to be a heck of a lot of work most if not all of the time! So... where do I stand, what are the opinions of you fine folk?!

Hey folks, I've come to ask for some advice on how to give my girlfriend, possibly the best evening of passion she's ever had, now to be perfectly honest, i'm not that sexually experienced, but I want to know, what would be good to make her feel totaly fantastic and show that I really care for her? We've had the Joe Average sex, but I want this to be even better, something that will make her remember and (hopefully) beg for me to do again! I've already arranged a romantic meal at a fantastic restaurant after she's finished work, but the night must go on! Any comments will be most welcome! Cheers!

I've been going out with this great girl now for four months, we have sex everytime we're together, due to us living in different cities, we only get to see each other every couple of weeks or so, and the sex is great! But i'm curious, for prior to us actually going out (we used to live with each other as flatmates until she moved away) she told me that she has never had an orgasm with a man. When we last had sex, she said she did, but I don't know if I should be lookin for signs, as it is the back of my mind. I'm not saying I don't believer her, but.. I am worried, as I want to please her immensely. But should I be worried?! And what signs should I look out for?

Never worry. As goddess23 puts it - it's done. Never look back. The teacher was crap, the main point is that you got what you needed. You can forget about the teacher and all his stupid companies he worked for. Go for the next hurdle, and the next.. and befor you know it, you've got an ace degree! Even if you're not the top of every class, employers don't look at it. It's what your degree is and what skills you've achieved through it. Employers don't look for top graders, they look for those competent in thier field. And if that means you just slipped through the whole way, then so be it. They just need the reassurance that you know what your on about! And by the sounds of it, you do, even though you didn't do well in the exam! Integral of f(x) = confusion to me!! All the best!

Love every minute you have at uni or college. It will be the best days of your life. At first it may seem a daunting task and your worried about meeting new people, but that's the easiest part of it all! There are so many interesting, exciting and friendly people, who will all be in the same boat as you, but just go along, and have a laugh! As ShySoul says, learn how to balance between work and play. My experience of such things, are friends who I had at uni, went completely mad because it was their first time away from home, and they lost all interest in their work, thus ruining their future careers (let alone their bank balances!). But that's not to say stay in studying books all the time, just be able to manage it! Get a diary, i'm surprised how I kept up to date with assignments without it! They help you manage and remember far off reports, dates and college parties etc! Again, work is a major factor in college. Love what you study, put your heart and soul into it, it will pay off. If your not sure, don't worry, your college want to keep you there, so if you're not happy with what your studying, they will be more than happy to help you decide what options you have. Just remember to keep in touch with your college, tell them any problems you encounter, they will not turn you away, they can help with any situation. It really is a wonderful experience, you will meet so many truly good people, whom you will forge long life connections with. I want to wish you all the best in your studies and hope it will be a great time for you!

I will read the above book hosswhispra, and thanks for your replies

I am a student at university in Scotland, UK, studying plant biology and soil science. As much as I love understanding everything about plants, I just don't know where I am going with my life in general. Coming from Ireland, I moved away in hope of finding myself at university with new people. And although I 'think' I have found my niche, I feel myself drawn away, to something.. I'm going on an expedition this summer to the jungles of Borneo for my research thesis, but where am I going after my studies? I always wanted to travel and see new things, I'm excited about this expedition and I'm going with a great team. But it's what's after it, I'm worried about. At the moment I feel kind of restricted, that I need to travel and see the world in order to find myself. But now, I'm having doubts. I have a great life here, a wonderful girlfriend, my family in Ireland, but I'm being drawn away.. to something. I'm afraid. Perhaps what I hope to find, isn't there at all. So I come back disappointed from Borneo, not feeling happy about finding myself, or knowing what to do.. what then? Where do I go, do I continue travelling, seeing everything I can, in a search which may be end in vain? It seems a lovely idea, but it's a bit feeble. Never finding rest. Always searching. Always moving. Don't get me wrong, in a way I really want to go, my family and girlfriend are 100% behind me. But it's the fear of not knowing what to do if I don't find anything. And I come back to nothing, after graduation and thinking 'what now'. Continue studying in an area of science which I adore, and have aspired to be since I was taught basic flower physiology at high school which sparked my interest (I gratefully thank my biology teacher for that)? Or travel, see the world, understand cultures, and use the knowledge I have gained over the years to help those less fortunate, to help them improve their quality of life. Or the penultimate, come home and work in some job which I will not be happy in. I like the thought of going on expeditions, exploring, pushing scientific frontiers, expanding people's knowledge of their natural surroundings.To educate and tell them what's out there, be the eyes and ears for those who have not had the opportunity, or the interest, to see and learn about such majestic wonders. Report back to the world, so they too can know. But I fear I have the 'romantic' idea of exploration from the great Victorian explorer's like David Livingstone and Henry Morgan Stanley. Maybe they're not the best thing in order to find ones' self, as it's mostly something else which you are searching. Herein lies a small problem, perhaps I'm not ready to leave. This is the first time, on my own (minus my parents). I 'think' I want to do it.. I am going to do it. But what next..? Is that it? One expedition. Or another? And another? The questions. The answers I so desire. I understand I am not the only one to feel like this.