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  1. tanned_production
    Just be open with her... its the best way to start off a relationship. Ask her why she doesnt kiss you the way she used too... i'm sure she wont be offended... and you have a right to know.
  2. tanned_production
    Personally, I think you're reading WAY to much into things. He probably still cares, and wants you to be happy. It doesnt necessary mean he wants to jump into a relationship with you. follow your heart... good luck on everything!
  3. tanned_production
    You may be over-thinking things as well. Or she's just not ready. Talk to her about it... find out what her take is on all the sexual intimacy stuff that society keeps throwing at us... it'll give you a better understanding of where she is. good luck
  4. tanned_production
    Its probably both of them trying to get you to talk about it... he could want to know but doesnt want to directly ask you... or she could want you back in his life. Either way its your decision. If you're over him, and thats working out, then keep it that way. Dont let them pressure you into liking him again. good luck
  5. tanned_production
    Its natural for you to want to be part of her life... you cared for her a lot, and its not easy to get over something like that. So there really isn't an easy way to see her as just a friend... try occupying yourself with other things... meet other girls... remembering that she is just a friend, and its going to remain that way. Find a different partner for badminton... do whatever it takes to keep your mind from wanting her as your girlfriend again. best of luck
  6. tanned_production
    ps i meant dont talk in circles
  7. tanned_production
    Just be straight forward with her... dont lead her on... talk in circles.. just get your point accross. dont be harsh... just to the point. good luck!
  8. tanned_production
    You are kind of talking in circles, but thats okay Do you have any phone numbers from when you were drunk? Are you interested in either of the girls at all? Or was it simply because you were drunk. Its hard to know what advice to give you if we don't know what your take is on the whole situation.
  9. tanned_production
    i think its probably just something you do for soothing... it may relax your body and help you get to sleep perfectly normal
  10. tanned_production
    I agree with the previous posters... get to know her a bit before you jump into dating. Maybe you don't even want to date her once you get to know her personality. Then you can also get a feel of what she likes to do, so you can better ask her out on a date. best of luck
  11. tanned_production
    I dont think that breaks ALL end up in break ups. I went on a break with my ex... we got back together after a while. Basically you need to look at why you're on the break, and try to make the best of the situation. if you two are really meant to be, things will work out!! best of luck with everything.
  12. tanned_production
    Yeah, even if you arent trying to get back together with her... tomorrow could be an emotional day for both of you. Keep us updated
  13. tanned_production
    I dont want to jump to any conclusions.. or say something that may be out of line, but it sounds like hes more concerned about his end of the relationship. As a previous poster has mentioned, a relationship is about both people, not just him, and not just you. Other than that... follow your heart. Consider what YOU want... and what would make you happy. Do you think this guy wont settle down with you because of the age difference? Your friends arent in the relationship... they're just speculating (as are we on this site)... listen to peoples advice, but ultimately its up to you. best of luck with everything.
  14. tanned_production
    I dont think that would be a good idea... call a few days after. Both of you probably have some weird feelings left from the break up... and just reminissing (sp?) about it won't help anything. Give her a couple days... good luck!
  15. tanned_production
    You may just be concentrating too hard on getting an erection when the time comes. dont focus on it so much, and just let it happen. if you want your erection to last longer... think about things that arouse you... and focus on them, not on your penis
  16. tanned_production
    Yeah, I agree with annie. You two live together... I dont think its completely necessary to spend every waking moment together. Go out and do your own thing... and let him do his. Have a talk with him about it... let him know that when he didnt give you a kiss good bye or anything, it puzzled you. It'll feel better to talk about it good luck with everything
  17. tanned_production
    thats exciting... so was this post just to share your excitment?
  18. tanned_production
    congradulations. quite a feat for a 14 year old
  19. tanned_production
    im afraid i missed the point.
  20. tanned_production
    you cant MAKE someone frisky... its up to them. you could talk to them about it and see where they want it to go in terms of intimacy... but other than that, it isnt your decision good luck
  21. tanned_production
    jealousy isnt going to help anything.... if anything, it will make things worse. if you really want to keep this guy around... you're going to need to show him the attention and love that he deserves. what you're asking, isnt fair.
  22. tanned_production
    it honestly depends on the guy. i cant tell you that they will or will not like it... if you want to try it, go for it. im sure they'll let you know whether its a do or a dont!
  23. tanned_production
    My parents have always told me that God wants us to save sex for marriage... I understand that it can cause heartbreak and a lot of uneasiness. Ive had sex with my boyfriend, but only because I love him, and its something i wanted to share with him. good luck with everything... you guys will figure everything out!
  24. tanned_production
    I think its a huge step that you told your boyfriend. If he does end up seeking help for you.... or help for himself, on how to deal with you and your cutting issues... then its because he cares. You cant get mad at him for caring like that. but most of the counselling and such is confidention, so you cant plan an intervention even if you wanted too. good luck with everything.
  25. tanned_production
    and what has his response been?
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