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  1. tanned_production
    well its definitely possible to care about 2 guys the way you've described... but sooner or later you're going to have to make a decision. who do you want to be with? who are you in love with... and who do you just love? i dont know how exactly you're feeling... i can just speculate. but i think you're going to have to search your heart, and do what will make you happy. you can't lead both guys on forever... good luck.
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    maybe you just need to be aware of your anger... if you realize yourself having a tantrum.. stop yourself. realize that it probably hurts others around you...people that you care about. maybe talking to a counseller will help. i highly doubt they will "lock you away"... find a good counseller who is willing to talk to you... and genuinely wants to help you. i really hope things get better!
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    well im not a guy... but my best guy friend was going to hook up with my best girl friend... He hadnt had sex for a long time, since he broke up with his last girlfriend... so he had trouble... getting aroused. that could be what your guy means. maybe talk to him, if you feel comfortable, to get a better understanding. good luck
  4. tanned_production
    I dont think thats necessarily true... unless they've talked about it and come to the conclusion that they are just friends. He may want something more, but doesn't know if you want it. Talk about it and tell him how you feel... good luck
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    I think it depends on the woman and what she likes. If a man makes sure to tend to her wants and desires, she's naturally going to say that he's good in bed. its all about personal preference
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    I dont think theres anything wrong with telling him. You've wanted to for a long time... this just proved an opportunity. by the sounds of it, you two have some real chemistry. good luck!
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    what's gross about it?? i wont flame... but maybe the fact that shes over twice your age... old enough to be your mother... im not even going to think about it
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    It sounds like he loves the attention hes getting from you... and he likes giving you attention and spending time with you, but he doesnt want the commitment. I suggest you talk to him about where the "friendship" is going... whether its going to continue like this or whether you both want more. Good luck
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    16 ... and are you serious? that is so wrong
  10. tanned_production
    Follow your gut. I'm sure you have some sort of instinct on what you should do. If you like the girl that much, then go for it . You'll regret it if you don't. Whats the worse that can happen? Good luck
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    I think that you should be concerned.. its not a matter of you being stupid or not... its him. If you care for this guy, you should want to protect him and keep him from harming himself. Any drugs can cause major damage, and you wouldn't want that, right? Talk to him about it, let him know how you feel. good luck!
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    it sounds to me like she is shy... and she was kind of embarrased by the note you gave her. Maybe ask her if she has AIM... if she says no, ask her what she thought of the note you wrote her. What did it say? You need to know what she thinks of everything before you go any further. If she doesnt want to proceed and you keep pushing it... that will scare her off. Good luck!!
  13. tanned_production
    I think its normal to be down on yourself once in a while... and regret things that you've done... or the way you're turning out. But theres always a chance to change, if you believe it.
  14. tanned_production
    Mascara and contacts? no. definate no. You'll look like you're trying to hard, and that's never good. He touched 2 of your fingers... hmm... not a definate sign he likes you Maybe you should see if hes even interested AT ALL before you tell him you're Bi. Plus, you might be ruining any possible friendship.
  15. tanned_production
    Congrats! My bfs sister is getting married in October Very exciting. I love weddings
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    Keep us posted okay? You deserve so much better
  17. tanned_production
    don go after whats taken. you said you dont want to cause trouble between her and boyfriend... how would you attract her without causing trouble? coming from a girl... thats not a good idea.
  18. tanned_production
    great poems. keep writing
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    It sounds to me like you're reading too much into this. He sounds like hes just being friendly. Plus he's married... find someone else. Dont ruin things for his family.
  20. tanned_production
    I dont believe that for a second. I think that you are wanting to change... I really respect you for what you've told us. You CAN change, and believe it or not, there are people that are willing to help, dont be ashamed, or scared to trust. Believe in yourself. I wish I could help you more... you've really tugged at my heart.
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    I think this sight definitely helps... if you're willing to accept the advice/support that people here have to offer. Its helped me in a few ways... seeing that I'm not the only one struggling with things.. and that people do care. We're not the ones that will put the spark back in peoples lives... ultimatley its you, but I think that most of us on here want to help and support you!
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    You have to be more specific... what kind of crazy things were you doing? Things that could hurt you/her ... both? Or things that weren't good for your relationship... because in that case, she was probably doing it for the best of both of you. I dont know exactly... I can just speculate. Keep us posted.
  23. tanned_production
    Wow, you really need help. No offence... but you're only 14 and this is happening!? Talk to someone you trust... we can try to help as much as we can, but we're just here over the internet... But I am here for you, PM me if you want to talk . I promise I wont judge, or label you... I'm just here. You can overcome this, I know you can... you really sound like you want to change... you can do it
  24. tanned_production
    everyone is giving such good advice... follow everything that has been said, and you should be just fine. Try it out... and let us know how things turn out!!
  25. tanned_production
    Are you looking for sex elsewhere, because things with your significant other aren't going to well? Or your sex life isnt as alive as it used to be? People can look to others to fulfill their "needs" because they're not getting it from the people they should be... You need to figure out why you're fantisizing (sp?) about other women, and what you can do to stop it. If its a problem with your relationship with your significant other, get to the root of the problem. Talk to them about it... But whatever you do, don't cheat! If you're unhappy with the relationship... do something about it... and not by cheating. that wont solve anything, if anything it will make things worse. I have a boyfriend that I've been dating for about 2 months... when we were fighting, I found myself looking at other guys... But I'd try to catch myself and remember what a loving/caring relationship we had, and even tho we were fighting... it was still more than I could get from having sex with a random. Make sense? You'll get everything figured out... good luck! PM me if you need anyone to talk too.
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