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  1. tanned_production
    I used to have that problem... mostly around cute boys. It just takes practice, honestly. Think about what you can say before hand... and catch yourself when you start to laugh at everything... you want to sound like you know what you're doing. Be confident in yourself... trust that you're awesome! Good luck!
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    A girl doesnt have to bleed her first time. Like a previous poster has mentioned, the hymen could be broken by a tampon, sports, etc. If she's telling you she's a virgin, and she's a bit shy of sex... she probably is. But by the way you're typing, maybe you're not ready. Just because you've done "everything but it" doesn't mean you have to have sex. Sex definitely brings you closer together on a more intimate level... but its something you have to be 100% sure about, and make sure you take the right precautions. If you know that you're ready, talk to her about it... find out her feelings. I think that people say virgins get more attached sometimes is because they gave you all of them, and they might think its something really special. Anyways, good luck... and I'm sure everything will work out... make sure you're sure !!
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    I'm sure its not as bad as you think. Give it a couple days... you'll get used to it. Wear a hat when you can... other than that, make the best of the situaton
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    Dont be embarrased. Just go to the doctor, I'm sure they've seen things much worse than that. Dont stress out about it too much... and dont touch at it, it'll make it worse. Im sure you're fine. but make sure you see a doctor!
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    You may be below average... but there's others! Like a previous poster said, the first 2 inches are the most sensative... its more difficult for a girl to get off from just pentration itself ... foreplay is definitely helpful! Don't be insecure.. just go with the flow... im sure she'll love it. have fun!
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    Theres always a chance to create a spark. it's not always there when you lay eyes on the person. From the way you're talking it seems as though you really care about her, and want to make sure she's okay. Perhaps you two do have something, but only you can be the judge of that. Maybe hang out.... build a strong friendship, and then see where things go. Hope everything works out. tanned_production
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    Its hard to completley heal after breaking up and getting back together. Chances are, there is something missing, and only time will get things back to the way they were. Have you talked to him about it? Told him how you felt? When it comes down to it, we don't know what happened, or why the relationship ended, and only you know the damage that was done. Do everything that you can to bring it to where it was. Good luck with everything.
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    that doesnt seem silly at all... its definitely one of the hardest things to do. Its inevitable to hurt someone when you're breaking up with them, especially after a long period of time. Think about what you're going to say before you say it. Make sure it's clear and to the point. don't "beat around the bush"... tell the other person exactly what you're feeling and why you're making the decision you are. tell them you don't want to hurt them, and you still care about them, just not in the same way. Its a hard thing to do... but you'll feel better afterwards, especially when you know that you two aren't meant to be together.
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    There's always going to be people that don't like you... that don't understand what you're going through, or don't even notice that you're hurting. it sounds like you're in need of a good friend. I'm always here if you want to PM me... But maybe you should go out, and meet people. If you have some "aquaintances" ask them to go out for lunch, to a movie... you never know what it could turn into. You may get rejected, but you also may find your best friend. good luck with everything.
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    Go to a doctor... and next time be more precautious... and be ready to face the consequences.
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    I dont think June was completely ruling out the idea that it is possible But it is highly unlikely. Amethyst, you don't have to correct everyone on everything they say. She said it was unlikely, not impossible. As for the poster.... I highly doubt it. I'm a paranoid person as well... but theres a VERY slim chance that it could get you prego. Don't worry! tanned_production
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    Did you ask her what that meant? Does she just want you to sit back and wait... or does she want you to be there for her when she's ready. Talk to her and find out. We can't tell you how exactly she's feeling... we can try to help, but ultimately,you need to talk to her. Good luck! tanned_production
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    Do you want to be in contact with him? Do you want to move forward like nothing happened!? He's throwing the ball in your court now... it's up to you to decide where things go.
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    I think you need to rethink why you don't like porn... and why the thought of him masturbating bothers you. So you've never masturbated? And you'd watch porn with him? I admit, my boyfriend watches porn occasionally... and it makes me feel like he needs to watch other girls besides me, but it's just my insecurities. Boys have urges... and they're curious. You'd break up with him over porn!? You're willing to throw away your relationship over something like that? Why can't you talk to him about it... let him know that it does bother you and that you'd like to know why he does it. Do you trust him? If you do, then believe him when he says he won't watch porn. If you think he's sneaking around behind your back, you need to tell him!! No relationship works without trust. Hope everything works out for you... if he loves you, and wants to be in a relationship with you, he'll respect you.
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    There's ways that you can do it so that you don't hurt her... Go in slowly and when she tells you to stop, you have to stop. She'll adjust to your size with time. Be gentle and make it as pleasurable for her as possible! Good luck
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    If you guys had a rough breakup, its natural for her parents to be protective and unsure about you. You can't expect everything to be the same when you 2 aren't together. Why are you wanting her parents to still accept you? I'm sure the uneasiness will go away with time... try not to think about it! Good luck
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    Let him figure out his problems on his own... back away and let him realize that you're not impressed. If he has half a brain, he'll notice that you're ignoring him, and he'll start to wonder why... hopefully he figures it out. Good luck! tanned_production
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    Its not you. You can't blame yourself... For now, love yourself... become comfortable with who you are and what YOU love to do... Nobody can love you if you don't love yourself. Don't go on the hunt for a guy... the right one will come along when you least expect it. Good luck! tanned_production
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    I loved that movie.... it gives you hope! That you'll find that special person one day. It's definitely an upper if you have the right perspective. tanned_production
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    what i do, is fill up the bath tub with warm water.... make sure my skin is soft... lather on good shaving cream and go atter. venus razors work pretty good. make sure you wipe it with cold water afterwards. good luck
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    the morning after pill is effective up to 72 hours after... But next time be more careful... take precautions, such as condoms/birth control... I wont be preachy... Hope everything turns out.
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    WHAT!? That's crazy. She had to have done something. . . or maybe it was a false accusation. I dont know what goes on in those 15 days, but I just wanted to say that I hope everything turns out alright. i cant imagine what you're feeling right now... I hope that your neice is okay... and they figure everything out. I'm here if you need someone.. or support. Good luck! tanned_production
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    i agree. typing it isnt going to solve anything. go out and meet people. you cant be scared of rejection... its going to happen, im sure it already has... it happens to all of us. You'll find that special someone one day... Enjoy being single... dont get depressed because you dont have anyone. Theres TONS of single people out there. If relationships are easy, we'd all be in one. Good luck! tanned_production
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    I know how you feel! My life right now is a roller coaster. My parents booted me out of the house, and they're not sure when I'm allowed to come home... so some days i feel really unwanted/unloved.. i try to do things that make me happy.... plan a night out with the girls, those types of things. hope things get better! tanned_production \
  25. tanned_production
    its definitely a possibility. if you're really concerned, go to a doctor
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