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  1. i have had experience dumping someone before. its not supposed to be easy... and its not supposed to be happy... but looking back i know it was a growing experience for me... i know that i dumped them for the better.. the relationship wasnt good for either of us... but i do remember the good times, and i think hes a great person.... we just didnt "click" in a romantic way. anyways, good luck with everything!
  2. not to be rude, but im not stupid. i cant go back and then use protection... and i did read my directions carefully. it said 7 days ... not a month. i was just asking for advice . not to be shut down and told that what i did was stupid. i know its not 100% ... i was just wondering if it was my period. now i know that it is.. thanks for your... uhh... help
  3. we're both safe from std's . is it possible to have an early period tho?
  4. just a quick question that i would LOVE some replies too. i started birth control pills (alesse21) a little over 2 weeks ago. ive been very good about taking them at the exact same time every day. in the past couple days ive had some light bleeding ... could it be my period? also my bf and i had unprotected sex last nite, i wasnt bleeding that badly so we thought it would be okay. he pulled out before he came.... but is there a chance something could have gone wrong? even tho ive been good about taking the pills? (the doctor told me that its affective 7 days after taking it) any advice would be great. !!! thanks guys.
  5. the prom is definitely less serious =)
  6. i think you just answered your question yourself =) some guys say it because they actually mean it... where as some guys dont. just as girls do when they break up with someone. most people try to be gentle and not hurt the person more than necessary. hope this helps. =)
  7. Aw this is cute! I agree with previous posters about the park idea. =)
  8. I dont think you should terminate the friendship. . . but when he says those things that he shouldnt be saying, let him know about it!! maybe hes unaware ... but im just speculating. have a talk with him. good luck! =)
  9. i'm not going to judge you or tell you that what you're saying is wrong... because it isnt . It isnt healthy and i think you should re consider your decision. why do you want to be overweight? how would that make you happier!? i think it would lower your self esteem rather than raise it.maybe fill us in on a bit more. =)
  10. besides what the other posters have mentioned, try not to think about all the memories you two have made together etc... that will make the friendship awkward for sure. good luck! =)
  11. i dont think that this should become a huge issue for you. you have a lot of time ahead of you to find that "one" . you're probably not interested in these girls because they just arent what you're looking for. you'll find her!
  12. I probably wouldnt approach them first... if they approached me, I'd be nice and say "hi, hows it going?" . i wouldnt be rude =)
  13. haha, that sounds like a typical guy. him kissing all the other girls is probably his way of dealing with the breakup... and making you jealous. ignore it!! dont let him have the satisfaction that it hurts you. as for asking him these things.... it depends on how close you are. if you feel like he'll listen and answer, then go for it... if not then don't bother. good luck with everything!
  14. Please do keep us updated.... we'll help out as much as we can. You can't lose your best friend to a girl... like that saying.... bros before hoes .... haha not meant to be rude at all. just making a point.
  15. Uh-oh.... I think its time for a talk!! just explain to her how this is making you feel etc.... she'll hopefully be understanding. good luck with everything.
  16. I don't think you did anything drastic.... the NC thing is good.... it sounds like she really isnt interested in you as anything more than a friend.... and its practically torturing yourself to do that....since you liked her a lot... this will help you get over that and find someone that is interested! good luck!
  17. If you hate him.... why are you with him? ... Honestly, porn isnt a HUGE deal...... it may be something that you need to discuss, but not dump someone over. There will be much harder issues to deal with farther into the relationship. Maybe this is a test of how much you truly love him, i think deep down you dont actually hate him. Have a heart to heart talk.... try to overcome this.... like i said, much harder things to come! good luck with everything.
  18. yeah... probably because they're drunk... wanting someone... trying to have a good time. haha enjoy it
  19. I think that it's his guilt..... if he doesnt want to take responsibility for the hurt he's caused you ... then he's not missing you and it's not out of love (sorry if that sounds harsh).... dont think about it too much.... try and get over this guy!
  20. For your situation... I'd say no. Ask him again when he isn't drunk..... when i've been drinking i say things that dont make sense... you cant take me seriously.
  21. i say you call her and tell her to use her own judgement instead of believing everyone else. tell her it will be a good time!
  22. I cant relate to any of the questions except ... that yes being called "sexy" or "cute" is a good thing!
  23. She hasnt given you any signs that she's interested. are you sure she's staring at you? honestly, i think its time to move on.
  24. Thats definitely NOT COOL!!!! It isnt fair of him to do that.... how long has he known this girl? Been dating her? I dont think you should "tell him off" exactly.. but definitely have a talk. (telling him off probably wont get you very far) . explain everything and be honest. hopefully you get thru to him. good luck!
  25. Well then tell him that if he really means it... he NEEDS to be there. things will work out!!
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