Jump to content

tanned_production

Members
 View Profile  See their activity

  • Posts

    301

  • Joined

 Content Type 

Everything posted by tanned_production

  1. tanned_production
    maybe call her saturday.... but tell her that you're not after her because she's "young and easy" (im sure she isnt!). you need to be clear on that!
  2. tanned_production
    This is definitely a situation I can relate too.... WOW!!! I have been exactly where you are. I'm only 16... but i know what it feels like to get your heart broken. My ex... I dated him for 2 months.... I trusted him, spent a lot of my time with him... talked to him about EVERYTHING!! He asked me if I wanted to have sex..... originally i wanted to wait until marriage .... but I gave in, because I loved this guy so much, and i wanted him to be happy. 2 days later, he dumped me. shattered my heart.... it felt like i couldnt breath. ive been there !! to answer your questions.... 1. After my ex dumped me... i raised my standards. the guy i dated HAD to treat me with respect... and ultimately be everything that i was looking for . i was more careful.... not so vulnerable... and approached the relationship differently. 2. YES! I found someone I love more than my first love. I am with the most amazing guy right now.... he treats me with respect... and love. he puts me before himself... we have something really special. 3. After my ex broke all his promises to me..... had sex with me and dumped me... it was SOOO difficult to trust again. brad (my current boyfriend) proved himself to me..... so i began to trust, but it was definitely one of the hardest things to overcome. Thats my little story for you....... if you want to chat, PM me, ive been in your shoes before. you sound like you're doing awesome though!! and i agree about facing your pain... that was how i moved on. good luck with everything! you'll find someone AMAZING. I promise! =)
  3. tanned_production
    Girl, you have posted about your situation A LOT! we've given you advice.... listen to it =) I'm not trying to be rude... but you don't have to keep reposting it. we answered you ! ! good luck with everything.
  4. tanned_production
    I don't understand entirely what you're talking about...... but it isnt right for you to be with someone who has a girlfriend. Who is this other guy?? clearer information would be helpful.
  5. tanned_production
    They'd generally start paying more attention to you... but dont confuse that with just being friendly. I think you can tell when someone is interested in dating you!
  6. tanned_production
    I think that you should just talk to him.... explain everything. Tell him that this is as much his kid as it is yours... and he needs to take responsibility and support you in the decision you've made. Tell him after everything gets sorted out, you can do the NC thing... or give each other another chance... whatever you chose. Just make him understand how important this is. good luck with everything... you'll be okay.
  7. tanned_production
    I think it means he's a "player".... and has trouble sticking with one girl. I'm not sure.... maybe ask her what she meant!
  8. tanned_production
    i think its the media's fault =)
  9. tanned_production
    I have NO idea why a guy would give a girl his number, ask her to call... and not be interested. CALL HIM! =)
  10. tanned_production
    Just remember that you're doing HIM a favor by NC... it's what he wants.. you care a lot about him, so respect his decision. it will get easier with time. deep breaths =)
  11. tanned_production
    the other posters have had a lot of great thoughts.... but you two need to have your own hobbies and things you do separate. It will make your time together more special. maybe schedule a lesson out there once a week or something... find balance, and let her do her own thing. good luck with everything =)
  12. tanned_production
    I agree with dragon girl about this one.... i have insecurites and i get jealous with my boyfriend, but not to the point where I dont want him to smile or laugh with anyone else. That is NOT fair....... how would you feel if he got mad or upset everytime one of your guy friends made you smile...
  13. tanned_production
    It sounds like she's doing the same thing that you did to her... pushing each other away. I think its time for a heart to heart talk, no mind games... just honesty. good luck with everything.
  14. tanned_production
    Thats a tough situation.... just talk to him about why your coffee date got ditched... then go from there... you may have to accept it tho... because its REALLY hard to just be someones friend when you're in love with them. talk to him and take things from there. good luck!
  15. tanned_production
    I think that when it shows up positive, it's most likely right. They say over 99% accurate. Go to a doctor =) Its the negative ones that have a higher chance of being wrong.
  16. tanned_production
    I think that you should just ask him out, honestly. What's the worst that could happen? But by the sounds of it, he'll say yes. Good luck with everything Keep us updated!
  17. tanned_production
    she's playing games with you... you don't need that!!
  18. tanned_production
    I think it may be something that he just wanted to try... it doesnt necessarily mean that he's attracted to guys, or wants to perform oral on a guy... probably just a natural curiosity. If he got you to do it first, it kind of brought up the opportunity for him to try. But its up to you whether it makes you feel uncomfortable or not. Try talking to him about it again, its an important issue! good luck
  19. tanned_production
    Well then believe her! don't doubt things she says... that's never a good thing. talk to her about the incident tho... you can't avoid it
  20. tanned_production
    my guess is that, yes, she still loves you... she was just upset/frustrated. Her emotions were running... and she probably didnt want to sugar coat how she was feeling. She wanted answers from you... since she didnt get them, she didn't want to make you feel like that was okay, by saying "i love you, night" .... talk to her about it.... im sure you'll figure everything out. good luck!
  21. tanned_production
    A lot of the time... serious commitment can make a guy freak out. They tend to push you away instead of draw you closer. Judging from his past, and the way he acts... he's doing what he thought was best for both of you. Now he's regretting it because he DOES realize that you two had something great. By the sounds of it... he wants you in his life... so just be there for him .. good luck with everything.
  22. tanned_production
    I agree. Make sure this is what you really want... you dont want to get hurt again. Make sure you actually like this guy, and aren't just humoring him. Good luck... keep us updated.
  23. tanned_production
    I agree with the rest of the posters. some girls will use that as an excuse.... ive done it before, to be honest... but just try again in a little while. see what happens. good luck!
  24. tanned_production
    Yeah.... dont get rid of her because of her mom... that isnt fair. I'm sorry you feel like you have to prove yourself... altho sometimes it may be necessary... people can be shallow, and they see what they want to see, not necessarily what's there. good luck with everything.
  25. tanned_production
    Thats a cute idea. I wish west edmonton mall had a victoria's secret. I LOVE their stuff. Anyways, I'm not sure how your boyfriend could resist you while you're wearing "sexy" comfy wear! good luck, keep us updated.
×
×
  • Create New...