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tanned_production

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  1. He may not have realized his little rant about the fun times he had... or running into his ex. I say give him another chance... but let him know that it hurt you, and ask him to be more sensative next time. good luck =D
  2. I just wanted to say... that i respect all of you so much!!! i cant say anything about myself... since im not a virgin... but you guys are so awesome! =D
  3. I agree... just have faith in who you are... trust in that. You sound really courageous... i respect you for that! good luck with everything.
  4. Have you told your current girlfriend all of this?
  5. I agree with previous posters... you cant fake it, or they wont be liking you for who you are. let it come naturally.. trust us, it will.
  6. Its natural for you to be a little worried... my boyfriend told me that when im 18 hes taking me out and showing me all the great clubs and stuff... and when i go without him, it will be with a group of friends and not because i need to meet guys. trust her a little bit eh?
  7. Yeah... and try to help her understand that if its yours... you have responsibility to the child... not to your ex.
  8. Have you tried telling her exactly what you told us!? Because honestly, if I was in her shoes... just hearing that would put me at ease. Then again, Im not her... and Im not in her shoes.... but just a thought.
  9. I think thats true... Im in grade 11 and right now i know the most amazing people.... i know that i will keep them.... i dont know what else to say! =)
  10. She is definitely not ready. it should be her decision, and her decision only.
  11. I dont think thats necessarily healthy.... maybe healthy isnt the correct word... I'm not sure. But you definitely need to do something about it. Some people do have that affect on us... im not sure what advice i can give other than remember what reality is... and your fantasy's about her aren't it. You'll find someone else!!
  12. well, by the sounds of it... it sounds like you and your ex have no chance of getting back together... is that the case? if so... then you REALLY need to stop dwelling on it. I know you think "its easy for you to say that" but honestly... it wont do you any good. It will hold you back from any possible future relationships...and make you weary to like anyone else... becuase of this past relationship. I know how hard it can be to get over someone... but you will find someone else ! I did, and I'm happier than ever with him... just have faith in yourself. Be strong and remember how awesome you are, and you will find someone. good luck!
  13. I went through a bad boy phase.... Like Ive posted for a different situation. Its not a good place to be in... I wanted to feel "rebel-ish" and like I was doing something wild. Needless to say.. I was treated with disrespect and the relationship lasted no longer than 4 months. (if it could even be classified as a relationship. )
  14. Awh thats good ! You sound like you're going to do just fine. Be sure to keep us updated! =D
  15. I agree. Dont make this into a huge deal... since you're leaving. =) Best of luck, and enjoy your trip!!
  16. haha dont stress out about this too much... just listen to the advice they've given you... its good!! the coffee cup idea is original and creative. what girl could say no?
  17. its not you... its him. its definitely possible for him to be a bit scared!
  18. I say it to my boyfriend A LOT.... because i truly mean it, and i want him to remember! i think in general women say it more... because we're more in touch with that side of us... most guys focus on sports... drinking... things like that. My boyfriend always says it back... and does say it first a lot. i think that the word love is often thrown around like a rag doll.... so we made sure it was for real before we said it. =)
  19. This may sound harsh... but you are NOT being fair. You're using this guy as a rebound... you want to stay single but you want someone to flirt with .Does he know that that is your intention? Believe it or not, guys do have feelings. How would you feel if the situation was switched around? A guy wanted to flirt with you... because he was trying to get over another girl... but he wanted to stay single. Doesnt feel to great, does it... Be fair to him and yourself.
  20. i dont think its right to generalize ALL women as cheaters. sure, women cheat... all the time!! but if you truly love someone... then they wouldn't. with the guy that im with... i would NEVER even DREAM of cheating on him... I love him way to much to do anything to hurt him. just my thoughts =)
  21. definitely talk to her... watch her body language and the way she talks to you... you can tell how a girl feels about you by her eyes and the "vibe" that she gives off. good luck!! you must be excited
  22. Then don't ... there isnt a rule that says you have to pursue her. she was being REALLY disrespectful... you dont deserve that.
  23. i say you just make a move... if you dont.. the "what ifs" are going to kill you. what do you have to lose? good luck with everything. keep us posted.
  24. well then i think you need to ask yourself why are you waiting around for her? you said you wish you had the strength to walk away.... maybe thats whats happening with cavell and andrea. just a speculation. good luck with everything... PM me if you need someone to talk to.
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