crazyjb1189

today i found out one of my best friends is bi. so am i, but i havent come out yet. not gonna lie, i had a bit of crush on him a few months ago, and im wondering, if maybe i should make a move. any ideas?

lol thanks for the quick response, its like that for me to where i dont even think about it and ill run into the person and im walking with and they'll be like "why are you walking into me?" its completely subconscious the reason i asked about it is my friend like blew up on me about it today.

ok so i have this problem, where i kind of end up walking diagonally and walk into my friends, or like i'd bump into them. its a pet peeve of mine, but it just keeps happening. and it really bothers my friends and myself. are we all overreacting or could this be like a real problem?

see thats what i thought at first too, but they're clearly not that serious.

i sometimes feel like that, but you just have to focus on reality, and dont regret anything. Rent says it best "forget regret, or life is yours to miss" just do what you feel, and dont worry about it.

ok, so last saturday i attended a relay for life. At the relay i made friends with this girl, who is going out with one of my friends. We had been talking a bit, and her boyfriend had left the relay for a while. At one point, the question of whether or not she believed in love at first sight came up. she said something like "yeah it's happened to me" and i asked if she meant about her boyfriend, she said no, she felt that way about someone else. I didn;t know how to interpret this, but yeah, moving on. so later she was really flirty with this one other guy who also isnt her bf, and they were heavily flirting, like she was saying "if i was single we'd be over there making out" im pretty sure they might have been joking. so then yesterday, i was walking home from my bus stop, and she drove by and waved, and her eyes were looking at me like i couldnt describe, no ones ever looked at me like that. and then, idunno. Im not sure if there's something there between us, whether im reading into this way too much, or something else. any help would be GREATLY appreciated. thanks much!

im gonna start at the beginning. last year, i became very close friends with a girl who i had kind of known before. Friends, turned into me liking her, alot, and her just wanting a friend. this went on for a while, and i kinda gave up. for a while i just gave up on girls, and lived my life. but recently, this girl has gotten into a serious relationship, and i'm finding myself wishing i was him, or like wishing i was going out with her instead of him. hes a senior and is going away to college in a few months, and they don't know if they'll stay together, and i'm hoping they break up, which makes me feel like a bad friend, cuz she is one of my best friends. From what i've observed, im pretty sure she doesnt know i like her again, and shes a little more confortable with me then she was. any idea on how to deal with this jealousy?

get into casual conversation with her, alone, and just ask her to go with you.

i think my topic sez all, but ive just been wondering lately.

one of my best friends has a drug problem. shes had it for a while, but its just now starting to get really bad. a few months ago she had an overdose, and had to go to the hospital. afterwards, she quit. as far as i knew she was clean for two weeks, but as i found out today it was more like two days. she started using very heavily, like pot, cocain, crack, and every once in a while acid. also after the o.d., she started hanging out more with some sophomores and juniors who use alot. by now though, they're all clean, except for every once in a while. my friend is completely addicted though. she sneaks around in between classes to get a hit, she snorts off of the dashboard, she always looks like crap, shes not taking care of herself and its almost become unsanitaryand depressing to be around her. apparently, shes just going home, getting stoned, going to sleep, waking up getting stoned, goes to school, without shower or changing clothes. im really worried about her, she left school early today with a fever of 101 degrees, and i dunno if shes ok. please help.

my best friend in the whole world, is dating a senior. She's really happy, she's going to his prom (he goes to another school) with him, and this is her longest relationship. I really don't want to see her get hurt. Me and one of my other friends really don't like the guy, and i personally think hes exactly like one of her exes. i dont know whether to be worried or happy for her. please help.

i went a whole day today literally; i couldnt think of anything but my best friend. i don't think ive ever fantasized so much. could someone tell how to control this?

im gonna have too agree with robowar, but also, i hate to point out a negative possibility, but do u think theres any chance he could just be using you to get off?

ok, heres my situation; i've been thinking about guys lately. its happened before and i'm pretty sure im gay, but im like, fantasizing about guys i know who are my friends, and my pierswho i know are straight. my concern is theyll somehow like see me check them out, and that would make things REALLY weird. any ideas on what i should do?

thanks