depressedteen

my friend says he is straight and would never do anything with another guy no matter what the circumstances are.... but ive came to find out that over the last 2 months, everytime he comes over or i go over we do "something" .. it started out as touching in places but no where too personal... then the 2nd time we were messing around and he told me to touch his penis and he touched mine, but just for a second... the 3rd time we masturbated eachother, the 4th time he wanted me to give him oral sex and i finally convinced myself to do it for like 3 seconds... and he liked it so the 5th time we did it all again and i did it for probably 5 minutes throughout the whole thing.... and then he wanted to do it to me but he wasnt ready.... next time we get together i dont know what will happen... but im starting to like this.. and my friend has a girlfriend too, and he was going to skip going to a dance with her to come over to my house..... is it possible that he could start liking this or maybe even like me? I dont know exactly what i am as far as orientation etc. im just experimenting. I noticed that the first 4 times he was a little resistant to the idea of doing again, but the last time we did it it seemed like he had been waiting for it..... so im just wondering what could be going on right now.... he likes his girlfriend a whole lot i know.. and im his best friend but.. i dunno.... its confusing, what are the chances of something happening between us if we continue "experimenting"? thanks!

its sorta common i think... i dunno my friend's is curved upward a little.... lol u konw how guys are.. like to compare

my friend is stupid in the first place, and doesnt care about anyone elses feelings except his. He is the coc-kiest most self centered person i have ever met in my entire life and all of our friends agree. He will only date girls who have model bodies and right now he likes this new girl who i hooked him up with today, he wants to get her pregnant and have kids already and hes only 14!!!! and he is the type who will do it i know because hes had sex before and somehow didnt get the girl pregnant (thank god). next week hes gonna cheat on her to go somewhere with this girl from anothe school and try to have sex with her too. thats all he looks for! all he does is talk about sex and how good he is at EVERYTHING and he works out the best he can to get a good body, and for a 14 year old guy yeah its a WHOLE LOT better than average. Its so wrong, cause his girlfriend and the other girl, neither one of them know anything thats going on. alot of people dont know the real him, but know how selfcentered and coc-ky he is.... i have talked to a guidance couselor about him and she believes he will be one of these people who get divorced within a year of marriage.... what are the perecentages of divorce rates this day in age? I'm just worried... and i dont know what to do.... he does so much bad crap to me, but i still care.... what should i do? should i tell anyone anything?

yep hes a jerk, and im goin through pretty much the same thing... like today my friend needed all sorts of things, money, a ride home, hepl with some classwork, and i hooked him up with this new girl hes had a crush on for a long time.... and when he gets home, he calls me and tells me how bad of a person i am.... ur not alone

lol im not really jelous - u dont know what i go through every day with all of his bullcrap, and they way he acts is just rude crude and socially unacceptable. He will have sex with anything with a hole. Thats why I get mad, because of how he acts and then all he does is try and '' get some'' theres more to life than just sex.

im not really that fat, im just not cut , and i dont take my shirt off much.... he does all the time .... i dont really know, it just makes me mad at him adn we fight.....

Why do I always get mad at my friend for things like, wearing sleeveless tee-shirts or taking his shirt off or anything that has to do with showing his body.... and when he works out I get really mad too.... Why? Any ideas? Its driving me crazy and causing a lot of problems... hes "cut" muscled and it always bothers me.... help

sorry, i dont have a problem with anyone at all, i have several gay friends. I was just wondering if it really were true that so many people do this, because i did it when I was 11 years old and at the time I regretted it and hated doing it because I thought i was the only person who had ever done anything like that and with a person of the same sex. But then when I got a little older I realized "hey that was cool!" I think that you can experiment more than 1 time and still be striaght.

hmm... i think he wants to do it too, and i believe if you dont do it as a child you'll regret it later because its a great experience, really it is. definitely dont worry about your body just let his hands wonder and you do the same, and just keep touching new places .....

I know this should probably go under GayLesbianBi section, but please dont put it there because I'm sure the people who answer in that section will say yes and I want to get an answer from everyone else besides them. Come on guys please be honest... have you ever had a same sex experimentation during any time of your life? Studies say about 60% of men have and the number of women are even higher... I read under a post in the gay les bi forum and a poster said "do it while you are young its a great childhood memory, if you dont then you'll regret it later in life" something to that effect. Well - i'll start this out, yes I have done this a while back, and no i dont regret it, i do think it was a great experience and I did this with my best friend. and just because you do it doesnt mean you are gay or lesbian. You can still be straight.

Hmm ya know - i had that simlar problem with a friend (who right now is my best friend) he tries to pimp on the same girls that I like - and he copies EVERYTHING about me (what I say, how I act , etc etc) but ... you just have to know - maybe the person looks up to you. you can tell by their personality . and if it bothers you - just be straight up with that person and if they dont care - then they arent your friend anyways so get away from them. if they are your TRUE FRIEND they will care - ive found that out with the friend i have now. hes a real friend and we can talk about anything. you need someone like that

thanks guys - but anyone have any idea how much it would cost for waxing? (thats last questoin)

haha - thanks guys.... i really needed some people to share that with me , i feel SSSSSSSSSSOOOOOOOOOOO much better you have no idea - i cant remember a time I felt this good. I mean... im not really as hairry as i think but im just not comfortable with it at this age. How much would you say waxing is? my mom is a cosmetician anyways..... (thats why i thought shed understand when i told her lol)

Hey everyone I'm new to these but I'm SSSOOO glad I found it. I have had this problem for a while but now its unbearable.... sorry to sound sick of whatever but - Im 15 male - and I'm just ... hairry. I cant stand it! Its on my arms, legs, chest, shoulders , back ...... it is so DEPRESSING , ive came close to just ending it all several times.... Its causing problems with EVERYTHING - today my best friend even got mad at me and he said "i dont know whats up with you... you've changed" and now we're fighting. I cant take this anymore - but I don't know how to get rid of it. I talked to my mom about it and she just laughed at me and made funny remarks about it. When my friend would ask me to go to the pool or the lake or something with him - I wouldn't go I'd just miss out on everything I really want to do... this has been for the last 4 years. (every year up to this year it was cause of a sun rash but now its the hair) Every summer i sit at home depressed because i had to "make up an excuse" to why i couldnt go to the pool with my friends or whatever. Then in gym we dress out and play shirts and skins and all that.... I dont do it.... and then i see noone else with that problem and it just hurts me worse. Please.... someone help.... i just turned 15 what should I do? any ideas? im tired of not living my life to the fullest - im losing all of my friends and girls... i used to be so popular....