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i dont know whether its that or what, i do sort of think that he does want me back he has been saying to others thats what he wants too. im just a bit confused cos i do miss him but dont think i would take him back cos it would neva be the same. then i think maybe hes a bit messed up in the head doesnt know what he wants. do u think i should ask him why his friends laughed?

nearly 3 weeks ago my bf of 11months broke up with me, i found it hard at first cos he did it by text n i didnt really no y he did. he said he wanted permanent space and to be single. that night we split he wen out n 'got with' this other girl, i didnt have a problem with that and the next night he text me saying he was sorry and that he broke up with me cos he fell out of love with me and that there will always be a space in his heart for me. i wasnt really talking to him as i was angry and upset. after i week i found out he was going out with this girl i was a bit hurt and confused i guess cos i thought he wanted permanent space. after 2 weeks of not being/speaking to him we started talking again. he kept asking me to hug him, and he kept saying sorry and i agreed to be friends. when i left him and got home i had a text from him saying - "what i wanted to say was i love u and i wud love to have u back but i have lost my chance now" sort of thing. after a few more messages like and saying his relationship is **** and that he doesnt want this girl.we agreed friends still. next day he sed if he broke up with his new gf wud i take him back, but then said he told his friends he wanted me back and they laughed, he also said if it was ok with me to go slow and not get to serious. wel this monday just gone he gave me another reason why he left me saying he felt like he was rearranging his life for me and he thought that what he wanted but he doesnt our relationship was going to far so he wants to be good friends. last night another txt saying - "today was weird, everytime i saw you i wanted to kiss you. you looked gorgeous today." what does this al mean? what does he want? hes saying one minutes he wants to be friends then stuff like that the next?

hey you wrote to my problem and i thought you seemed nice, didnt realise you were having problems too. i know this was last week and u may have got things sorted and i hope u have, but i understand how you feel and it must be really hard cos u must have been so close as you have been going out for so long and even though people are saying u need to let her do what she enjoys, those times used to be with u and wots changed? do u know why she has changed? hope things between you get sorted good luck

sorry i meant its the first time iv had unprotected sex, not first time having sex. its also the first time iv used the morning after pill so i was just unsure, hopefully i will come on soon thanks xxxxxx

a week ago had unprotected sex twice in one night with my boyf, we had been drinking and this isnt our first time. anyway i went and got the morning after pill(after 30hours) but will it work?the nurse who gave it to me said it isnt always effective what if it isnt?i know i should wait until i come on/ pregnancy test to find out if im pregnant but what signs and after how long do you know if you are pregnant can you tell after a week?

he is a sleezball!! lol

i love u poppet xxxxxxxxxxxxx

thanks, i have spoken to him about it, i think the fact he lied about it (4 times) is what made me annoyed with him and we had been going out for 7 months, but more so was that everytime we were on our own he kept making excuses not to do it and it made me feel like it was me so when he told me it was kind of a relief. thanks for replying xxxx

what would u do if your bf/gf told u he/she wasnt ur first but wen u got down to it it turns out he lied to u and u were his/her first? and would how long u were with him affect how u take the fact he/she lied to u? xxxxx

hey a bit confused, what dont u know what to do in? just bein in a relationship or when things get more serious(bedroom department?) i wouldnt mind havin someone that wasnt confident it makes it easier in a way, just be yourself and if the person doesnt like it then they aint worth it

thank u so much for replying it means a lot. it will take time i no i think i find it so difficult because ive never lost anyone close to me before. thanks again i really appreciate it xxxxxxxx

same here, maybe u just want some attention or theres something you need to let out. i dont think ur an idiot its just the way u feel i guess does it make u feel betta after?

i dont know what to say or do for my boyfriend who has just lost his cousin, he commited suicide 2 weeks ago and he was 19, it was a shock and he is well known in our town, i didnt know him but i knew who he was. the funeral was yesterday. the night before was our school prom and i was really looking forward to it but it wasnt as good as i thought, he was really distant with me but fine with his friends and other girls. he txt me the next day just before the funeral apologising and i told him not to worry. i just want to know what to do or say to him, i text him after the funeral asking how it went and if he was ok and that if he needed to talk or let anything out then i would be there for him. he didnt txt back and so i text him again later on saying are you ok im worried bout you and he just said im ok dont worry about me. why is he just like it with me i dont want to say anything bout that cos i feel selfish, but what can i do? help me pls xxx

shes my best bud thats y i no! xxxxxx i no i did copy n paste!

Clitoral being a very quick and intense orgasm that leaves you feeling very sensitive, and vaginal, being a deeper, longer and almost numbing orgasm -- which sounds like what you had. there u go love! xxxxxxxx