kd65

I feel your pain, I am going through the same right now. My wife and I separated a few months ago to see if things would heal. But yesterday we 'decided' that it doesn't work anymore. Forty years old, 2 kids, and I cried a lot. I my case I think it is the fear of rejection that makes me so emotional. And of course the loss of the love of my life. Hang in there, I keep telling myself the same.

Hi, What do woman actually mean by "he is good in bed"? Does it mean the man always gives them (multiple) orgasms, or can go a long time? Or maybe he knows many variations instead of the regular missionary position. Or maybe something else? thanks. kd65

Thanks for the tips - I already thought of just a card myself, so it's assuring to see some similar thoughts. We still get along, but she tells me she has no more feelings for me. I try to stay positive, but the thought that in a few months it turns out that it is really all over makes me sick in my stomach. k.

Hi, My wife and I have decided a few weeks ago to separate for a few months, just to give each other some space to think things over, and hopefully revitalize our marriage. Now Valentines Day is coming, and I really feel I want to do something to show her what a wonderful person she is. But I don't want to be too pushy and desperate with the risk that we are driven even further apart. Any suggestions what would be a good approach? thanks.