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suprema99

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  1. Dn is right. Stratguy620, forget about her as hard as it sounds. She has no respect for you. this also goes to psipro. The hard part is, this kinda girl doesn't care if you leave or not. She wants someone else and not you, that's the fact in both your situations. You like her and I know you wouldn't pull that crap on her I bet. Is she really pretty? Hot girls get hit on daily by guys and it makes it so much harder for you in the relationship. The hotter she is the more problems she has and you will have. You have to do some homework here if you want this relationship. Treat her exactly like she treats you though. Don't send her love emails unless you really feel you should. Goodluck
  2. If your with the right guy, he'll touch you and take care of you. If you keep him feeling good also. It's 50-50 .
  3. That's why there's software and hardware, lol Very intresting post none the least. goodluck
  4. Lol, I agree with jetta,, do you work with any kind of tools? Are you you a man?
  5. "Your out having a good time" I think both of you don't want the resposibility. You should of never had kids to begin with. Your marriage went bad and your stuck with kids. It's that's simple, your husband which it sounds your jeleous of, doesn't want the responsibility, and you don't want it really either, but your blaming it all on him. You both need to sacrifice now for the kids.
  6. Just a suggestion. You kicked her out of your house, but you can't eat now. You must think it's your fault then. Try telling her the truth if you want her back. But that's it then. If she can't except you for who you are. Then she's not cool, and has insecurity problems, or you two just don't mix with your views. Goodluck
  7. I agree with saint soul, have him meet your parents first. This way they can make better assumptions about him. Also you are 18 and technically you could move out and live with him if you wanted. So hopefully your parents understand that also.. But If your still living at home, then you really have no say and your parents do have alot of authority over you. Goodluck
  8. Hey I wanna be his everything, If he told you, you were skinny, try to eat more then. I hope he's telling you that for your own benefit though. I'm not fond of skinny girls also. I don't like girls that starve themselves cause they think their too fat. I like girls that eat and are healthy, and they can be fat but, as long as their comfortable, I personally have no problem unless it's apparent that food or whatever is hurting them and then a lifestyle change would then be in order. Goodluck
  9. I agree, I don't think it's right to start another relationship with someone, unless that other person, you were with is out of sight completley. I really feel that's a horrible thing to do, both for guy or girl. Nobody needs your baggage period.
  10. Your old enough to make your own desicions. If he's cool to you and you like him go for it. Your parents I'm sure probably look for anything negative about the situation, aka what parents do. He's divorced, is probably what's being hilighted here obviously. Your best bet is to look at the future and will it benefit you in the future being with him. That's solely your call.
  11. Hey nikkers04, The key thing is that he said he misses you when he doesn't talk to you iin a couple days. So if that's true, count on him at sometime calling you. there's a song that comes to mind. "Don't know what you got, till it's gone".- I would suggest you back off for now, and if he cares he'll definatley want you back. You might be seeming to needy to him or something, i would imagine. goodluck
  12. Hey shy, you have good ideas and everything but your very pro, not ever con it seems, to the female sometimes. There are good girls out there, but you have to realize sometimes, there's girls out there that want everything there way, and expect everything from you in return. Doesn't matter who's fault it is, but stuff happens all the time. I think rose colored glasses is an accurate statement, if you would ever think too much in just one perspective.
  13. Hey shy, not a detractor of yours at all. Your post was pretty accurate there on my part.
  14. I agree, I like those times when girls leave you a little something. Just to say hey, cause they know you wouldn't want to be talking, maybe at that particular time. it shows they're thinking of you though, and it's keeps you that much more intrested, if you like her. And if you don't like her, maybe you'll think of her more than. It's little things like that, than the obvious soimetimes, which can make a bigger difference sometimes.
  15. I agree with helloladies. You sound like your looking for a stable relationship with her and most likely in this scenerio it won't happen.. Belladonna is right that she is a cheater, so if you were to ever have something good going, what stops her from cheating on you in the future.
  16. Hey john, your last words are right. You need to know though what's up? I'm thinking your friends material right now, cause she does currently have a boyfriend and nothing is happening except for you talking to her alot and being friends. If you really like her and she says she's got problems with her boyfriend, than go for it. Be aware though you are on total rebound if she would ever except and breakup with her boyfriend. She needs at least 1 year now I would imagine after the breakup to get over fully from a relationship of 5 years. If it's worth it then go for it, but you eventually need to do something with her. the sooner the better I think. . Goodluck
  17. You agree 100% hoppy, but why isn't she calling you right now, lol If she does call you good for you, but you have to start thinking of the whole picture here. Don't ever expect things will come to you unless you put the right effort into it. goodluck
  18. I think she must think it's alright at this point.. The point is if he really likes her, and she respects him, she wouldn't do it again in the future. Why I said give it another shot and see what happens.
  19. Hey hoppy, if you feel you did enough then leave it be. It's hard to know for sure what the situation is without knowing you and just seeing it in writing. Basically what it comes down to.
  20. Helloladies, says don't call her. I feel you should. To see what's up?? instead of debating about what this good source you say, tells you. You know nothing unless it's a fact to you. That's why I say don't give up on it until you know more for sure. Also, don't expect anything here, until you do know more about her.
  21. I say give her a call. And do your best to get to talking again, without of course calling her off the hook and being pushy. If she told you those words, than if you call her again, she should call you back . And if she doesn't, then she lied to you and gave you false hopes or is a person who easily changes her mind between guys. That's how I look at it.
  22. That's a tough situation hoppi. that whole long term relationship she was in before you puts a red flag on enverything. I would call her again, and if your able to get in contact with her, pay attention about her ex. I wouldn't pry her though for imformation since you guys don't know each other like that. Make it seem your cluless about what your thinking, but you had a good time the days you spent. And go from there.
  23. I agree. Time heals alot of stuff. You sounded like you think you messed up. So you made it clear you were sorry, there's nothing really more you can do right now but make it worse by begging and stuff. Leave her alone for now, if that's what she wants. goodluck
  24. I agree that she messed up. You told her and she claims she'll never do it again. I would give her the benefit of the doubt, and give her another shot. If she lied and you find out sometime in the future that this happened again. You definatley cut her out at that point. She knows now, no cheating, kissing or that kinda stuff will fly with you.
  25. Hey barryttt. She's is playing games cause it obviously makes her upset that she thought you were with another girl and she was questioning that. I think if you want her back, give her some attention for a bit, but like you said, don't get your hopes up too much and don't go full force. Also, I would say making her do all the work is questionable. Cause she might think you totally don't like her though anymore, and maybe do what she thinks your doing. I think you proved your point with her. I would try to keep it 50-50 and it sounds like she still has feelings for you if she got jeleous. Goodluck
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