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  1. Me and my ex recently broke up because she chose her friend over me. "Sister for life" and cant leave her because she feels she has no more friends. She told two of my friend that she just doesnt like me any more. This was a 3 week relationship SIGNS THAT SHE STILL WANTS TO BE BACK: 1) she cried when she found the hoodie that i used to keep her warm in her room 2) her site has a logo : "i cant wait, but i cant wait forever" 3) she has an entry: "im a loner" 4) AIM PROFILE: "If you chose to walk away, I'll be right here waiting" SIGNS THAT SHE DOESNT WANT TO GET BACK: 1) she said it to both of my friends that she no longer likes me 2) she had no reaction to my letter n song 3) she walked away immediately after seeing me at McDonald Is it possible that she doesnt want to get back with me because she cares about her female friend? Does she like me but doesnt want to make the first move in getting back because of pride? Am I in denial? Someone please help me.
  2. ok...this story goes back 4 months ago. Got lusty, spent a day with some other girl. Well, I regret doing it so much. I would often avoid this subj. I finally realize how much my current gf means to me after i went into a 3day downfall. (UNDERAGE drinking, self abuse, throw punches at wall, even at skoo). PART2: My gf cheated on me by kissing 2 or 3 guys through truth or dare. I was piss when i found out (August) and was about to beatup the two kids with a baton. Yes im violent, human nature. She cried and i gave her a second chance. After a month later, i felt we had a stronger bond than before. It was a very happy period for the both of us. I can forgive but cant forget. When i am reminded of that incident, sometimes i would lose it. My gf doesnt like me getting into fights and all so I acted as though i gotten over it buh didnt. NOW: Today my gf was sad and stuff. Putting on an act for me. I kept forcing her to tell me. Then i played "hinting" with her. Guess who had it to do with. When she said me, i knew exactly what was wrong. She was being haunted by the time i cheated on her. We had this discussion by a harbor. I told her that im living through it the same way she is.I asked her if she still loved me, she said yes. I asked her if we broke up would she get over me, she said iduno. I asked her if she wanted to break up. I love this girl and wouldnt want to break up but if she cant get over this hurdle, we cant progress and be at the same footstep. I would much rather suffer myself than let her be sad ever again. ME: "i shouldnt be so selfish and not breakup because it'll only haunt you. You can find someone better than me" SHE: "i dont want to start all over again. I want to stay with you" CLIP NOTES: 1 yr relationship. I cheated She cheated We regret it so much. She can forgive and cant forget I can forgive and cant forget She didnt want to break up I wanted to if she would be happier HELP: What should we do to try to make it easier on us? all helpz apprechiates. Thanks
  3. Anyone had their gf tell them tat its bitter and sour? Is there a way to change this?
  4. how is sex good for the relationship? My reasons were: 1) it requires absolute trust 2) try something new 3) reinforces the relationship 4) more comfortable with each others body how bout ur reasons?
  5. for me, one of my reasons was that I didnt want to give it to anyone but my first true love.
  6. TITLE Why did you ladies want to lose your virginity to your boyfriend. Was it because he wanted it, wanted to try something new...any reasons. I just wanna hear it. What are some of the reasons you think that you two shouldve had sex? What are some good reasons to lose your virginity?
  7. i dun mean it lyk...me OWNING them. its just a sense of dominance of me. My personality is pretty terrible,. Short temper and stuff. Buh she didnt MAKE OUT with 2 guys, just one for lyk 10 seconds. And kissed other on the lips. I tried getting over it and I ALREADY gave her another chance....just the thoughts keeps coming back when i miss and think bout her.
  8. hockeyboy - well at least i know that she favors' my kiss the most. Buh i cant get over her kissing it to another boy. It makes me feel lyk i have to share and i have a dominant personality. Lonseomeheartmark - if she loved me y she even decide to play. Now i lost trust to her and all. She resisted until she went "ok whatever and palyed". her BESTFRIENd, she tells her everything, now she didnt even tell her. Aueft - after this i lost trust in her. Not completely, buh i still trust her. lyk 7/10 kinda.
  9. Please read...I really need help and advice on getting over this My girlfriend for 10 months finally done it. She cheated on me and kissed 2 other guys. Before this happened, her soft and lushes lips were all mine until a month ago. She kissed 2 other guys while playing Truth or Dare. I finally found out yesterday when my friend told me bout it. It hurted like hell. Her lips belonged all to me, untainted by anyone else but me. I am her first boyfriend too. Losing that cleanness is something i cant accept. I know i must accept the fact that it is tainted because I kant lose her. I always believed that my girl's lips will never embrace with anyone else. Losing that piece of my thoughts is so important to me I wanted to break with her for someone else. But i love her and all that So i couldnt do it. She nows promises me that she'll never do that again, play truth or dare again, and let no1 else touch them lips. BUh the fact still exists that it has already happened. I cant accept that becauze she been cleaned to me and never hurted me. Now im hurting and sad.
  10. Well, I went to a doctor's website recently and it was called a "dysfunction". When u have a smaller sperm bank. Then can someone explain to me why can't i ejac as much as i used to. ??
  11. Does anyone have an alternative to porn or a way to prevent urself from masterbation? can someone plz share their ideas. Need mad help.
  12. Title. 1) She is cute 2) She is nice 3) She thinks bout me b4 her
  13. i already apologized to her. I even wrote her entire street in street chalk and almost got arrested. We started talking again and she said she'll give me one final chance. but how am i suppose to prove to her this time im true. I kno im being true because i never wanted someone so bad that i would hurt myself. I scarred her name on my arm. I used to be a playboy and i can get like 3 girls ryte now but i wont. Because i only want her..
  14. About 1 Week ago i cheated on my gf for some other girl who was going out with some other guy. At first i wanted this new girl because she was really flirty just lyk myself. She was going out with an obxious boyfriend that she wanted to break with. Well my boy sold me out and told me gf. She broke up with me. Now the girl that was flirty broke up with her bf for me. We are now 2gether. After spending a week wth my new gf, i feel lyk this is lust and not love. I miss my old gf. Everytime i see her in school, i would feel so bad. Me and this new girl broke up now. I went back to my ex because i realize how much i needed her. AT first she said she moved on and she said she is very disappointed in me. This is the 2nd time i cheated on her too...T.T....2day i asked her if there is still chance for me and she said there is...Just a bit. How should i make this chance revive our relationship.? how can i make her trust me again? Cause i been drinking and stuff and i dare not to cheat again....Need advice
  15. dun say im encouraging you cause i already regret losing my gf for someone's gf. Yes, i am in the same situation as you. I took someone's gf from them. Remember, if they are in love, the guy that u steal from will be very sad and if he is aggressive enuf, u'll get ur azz owned. Unless u got backz. Alrite well, HERE's What i did. I talked to the girl constantly. Being flirty and sweet. I would act sad and depressed so she would care bout me. I would then sneak a hug for a split second. Then turn around and say thanks. After a while, she'll lose feeling for her boyfriend because of ur influencing. Then just start saying things lyk, I miss you and sweet things like that. Eventually she'll become undecisive and that's when u make ur big move. Just hold her and make her feel loved by you more. I cheated my ex this way...I really regret it now. But you asked how and i gave u my 2cents. Dun be mean and steal her unless her bf is a real az$h0L3
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